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01-21-2003, 10:07 AM

Originally posted by sarah_webinc
I have never liked it when women claim to be superior to men. I just want to be thought of as equal. I don't want men to be discriminated against for my benifit - how is that righting a wrong?

However, it is about having the choice to be a homemaker if you want not being made to be one. It isn't too long ago we didn't have that choice and it is those independent women we have to thank.

True. But sometimes I feel that we are getting punished that way too. Sometimes it feels like "You wanted to be independant, so you all have to work your fingers to the bone just like us, and we are going to actually shun you if you WANT to be a housewife."

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01-21-2003, 10:11 AM

Who is passing the crack pipe around in this thread?

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01-21-2003, 10:16 AM

I guess part of it is that living without two incomes is increasingly difficult. I should know, we are forced into that situation but it is me earning the money.
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01-21-2003, 10:23 AM

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Didn't you say you were taking belly dancing? Wuss.

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01-21-2003, 10:26 AM

Originally posted by Kimmykim
Who is passing the crack pipe around in this thread?

I'm going to jump on the wagon with Colin.

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01-21-2003, 12:33 PM

Originally posted by pixelminx

I also don't like that whole female independence stuff. Who thought this up? It would be great to be back in the time when women tended house and family, and the men took care of making the money. [/B]

Get off your lazy ass and do something for yourself
You want to live your life mooching off someone? LOL
Thats whats sad about some women

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01-21-2003, 12:38 PM

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[B]I honestly think its important for both the man and the woman to have accomplished certain things in their life, in order to develop and maintain a positive relationship with each other.

I have never known any female, in their right mind, who just wants to grow up and have babies and bake pies on sunday. And who wants to completely rely on a man.

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01-21-2003, 01:42 PM

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01-21-2003, 01:47 PM

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Get off your lazy ass and do something for yourself
You want to live your life mooching off someone? LOL
Thats whats sad about some women

You obviously either didn't read everything I said, or don't understand what it means to be a traditional woman. Get off YOUR high horse and love somebody.

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01-21-2003, 03:12 PM

Originally posted by pixelminx

You obviously either didn't read everything I said, or don't understand what it means to be a traditional woman. Get off YOUR high horse and love somebody.

EDIT: And are you blind? See siggie. If I'm so lazy what's all this work about?

*Sees sig* I also recall in your earlier post *he's making you work* pffffft!!!

First of all if you WANT to work that's great...if you don't, shame on you! Especially being young, if you sit back and rely completely on your man (if he didn't MAKE you work) you're going to find yourself in a shitload of trouble IF he decides he doesn't want to be with you. Then what? Possibly stuck with children, that now you not only have to go find a job and work for yourself but you have to be able to afford your child care and all your own expenses.

My opinion, and maybe its a bad one...but one that works for me. Women should be independent...love your man, cook for him, clean the house (not up after him if he's a lazy friggin slob) and do the duties we all have to do, but at least *I* will always make sure if that MF'er wants to bark at me, he can get the hell out of MY home...don't let the door hitcha where the good lord splitcha!! AND I will STILL be able to handle my own, just as good as when he was there. Just like I do now =)
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01-21-2003, 03:19 PM

Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

My opinion, and maybe its a bad one...but one that works for me. Women should be independent...love your man, cook for him, clean the house (not up after him if he's a lazy friggin slob) and do the duties we all have to do, but at least *I* will always make sure if that MF'er wants to bark at me, he can get the hell out of MY home...don't let the door hitcha where the good lord splitcha!! AND I will STILL be able to handle my own, just as good as when he was there. Just like I do now =)

I gots to agree with this part...I like to say...you are replacable me on the other hand...you won't find a girl that will do so much for you, ie. cook, clean, daily massages, 200% support and all the love you can handle...guys AND girls need to remember that you both contribute to the relationship.

Nothing wrong with being a housewife...it entails more than a lot of women think it does

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01-21-2003, 03:21 PM

Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

*Sees sig* I also recall in your earlier post *he's making you work* pffffft!!!

First of all if you WANT to work that's great...if you don't, shame on you! Especially being young, if you sit back and rely completely on your man (if he didn't MAKE you work) you're going to find yourself in a shitload of trouble IF he decides he doesn't want to be with you. Then what? Possibly stuck with children, that now you not only have to go find a job and work for yourself but you have to be able to afford your child care and all your own expenses.

My opinion, and maybe its a bad one...but one that works for me. Women should be independent...love your man, cook for him, clean the house (not up after him if he's a lazy friggin slob) and do the duties we all have to do, but at least *I* will always make sure if that MF'er wants to bark at me, he can get the hell out of MY home...don't let the door hitcha where the good lord splitcha!! AND I will STILL be able to handle my own, just as good as when he was there. Just like I do now =)

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01-21-2003, 03:24 PM

Originally posted by cathedra

Ditto for what Sarah said..

not too impressed..may be because of attitudes like that, that there is a need for boards like that one. That being said...I am still capable of knowing that despite the many assholes that have crossed my path, its the nice guys that restore my confidence.

How true that is.

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#64

01-21-2003, 03:26 PM

Originally posted by EscortBiz

Whats your mom say to all this?

LOL My mother knows exactly how I feel about my independence. She's the one who raised me to be this way!
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01-21-2003, 03:28 PM

Originally posted by pixelminx

This might be why I'm attracted to Asian culture. They are more into those old men-work women-keep-house roots. Actually, I've heard that generally women in Japan quit work once they get married. Also, the woman takes care of finances. Basically, the man forks over his paycheck to her every month for her to work into the budget... etc. Kinda like that idea too. Hehehe.

I'm asian and even thinking about being a housewife and cooking and raising babies all day makes me nauseous.
I would NEVER want to devote my whole life to other people,
I want to have "glory and success" of my own. My man better do exactly 50% of all the housework , everything needs to be 50/50
I'm not doing a bit more. And I don't need a man to "fork over his paycheck", I don't need anything from him. I have my own money, and I don't need anything from any man at all. Ofcourse I'll do my share of housework of his, but the guy needs to cook and do stuff too. It needs to be 50/50!!

Any man that wants to be with me better massage Me, and cook for ME. I mean, it should be fair, I'll return the favour, but I'll be damned if I wait on a guy hand on foot , that will happen when pigs fly!!

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01-21-2003, 03:29 PM

no one here is talking about waiting hand and foot on any guy...
any guy that makes you do that...well, just say NEXT!!!

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01-21-2003, 03:33 PM

Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

*Sees sig* I also recall in your earlier post *he's making you work* pffffft!!!

First of all if you WANT to work that's great...if you don't, shame on you! Especially being young, if you sit back and rely completely on your man (if he didn't MAKE you work) you're going to find yourself in a shitload of trouble IF he decides he doesn't want to be with you. Then what? Possibly stuck with children, that now you not only have to go find a job and work for yourself but you have to be able to afford your child care and all your own expenses.

My opinion, and maybe its a bad one...but one that works for me. Women should be independent...love your man, cook for him, clean the house (not up after him if he's a lazy friggin slob) and do the duties we all have to do, but at least *I* will always make sure if that MF'er wants to bark at me, he can get the hell out of MY home...don't let the door hitcha where the good lord splitcha!! AND I will STILL be able to handle my own, just as good as when he was there. Just like I do now =)

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01-21-2003, 03:36 PM

Originally posted by pixelminx

Get off YOUR high horse and love somebody.

Hun I have 3 little ones and my hubby to tend to all day. Don't go talking shit you don't know

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01-21-2003, 03:37 PM

Originally posted by phogirl69

I'm asian and even thinking about being a housewife and cooking and raising babies all day makes me nauseous.
I would NEVER want to devote my whole life to other people,
I want to have "glory and success" of my own. My man better do exactly 50% of all the housework , everything needs to be 50/50
I'm not doing a bit more. And I don't need a man to "fork over his paycheck", I don't need anything from him. I have my own money, and I don't need anything from any man at all. Ofcourse I'll do my share of housework of his, but the guy needs to cook and do stuff too. It needs to be 50/50!!

Any man that wants to be with me better massage Me, and cook for ME. I mean, it should be fair, I'll return the favour, but I'll be damned if I wait on a guy hand on foot , that will happen when pigs fly!!

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01-21-2003, 03:38 PM

Originally posted by pink_in_the_middle

Hey there sweety
Couldn't have said it better myself

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01-21-2003, 03:39 PM

Originally posted by phogirl69

I'm asian and even thinking about being a housewife and cooking and raising babies all day makes me nauseous.
I would NEVER want to devote my whole life to other people,
I want to have "glory and success" of my own. My man better do exactly 50% of all the housework , everything needs to be 50/50
I'm not doing a bit more. And I don't need a man to "fork over his paycheck", I don't need anything from him. I have my own money, and I don't need anything from any man at all. Ofcourse I'll do my share of housework of his, but the guy needs to cook and do stuff too. It needs to be 50/50!!

Any man that wants to be with me better massage Me, and cook for ME. I mean, it should be fair, I'll return the favour, but I'll be damned if I wait on a guy hand on foot , that will happen when pigs fly!!

Amen

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01-21-2003, 03:42 PM

Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

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01-21-2003, 03:43 PM

Originally posted by Kanoealoha
no one here is talking about waiting hand and foot on any guy...
any guy that makes you do that...well, just say NEXT!!!

I also meant stuff like cooking and cleaning. I would NEVER cook or clean up after my boyfriend, he's a big grown man with capable hands, if he can make something dirty he can clean up himself. If he's hungry, he knows where the damn refrigerator is, he can go get something himself.

As for massages, if I give a guy one he needs to give me one back too. Like I'm really gonna site there and massage him just for the fun of it??? It needs to be a 2 way street 50/50 exactly.

As for cooking, I',ll probably like it best if we do it together. Like we'll both cook stuff and wash dishes together, I think that's actually kind of cute and romantic. But I'm not EVER going to cook all by myself while the guy watches tv or something F*** that!!

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01-21-2003, 03:45 PM

Originally posted by EscortBiz

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01-21-2003, 03:47 PM

Originally posted by EscortBiz

you 2, ms. phannie

LOL you never fail

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01-21-2003, 03:49 PM

I pamper my baby beyond all reason...and sometimes I'm sure I shouldn't...but I can't help it...does he walk all over me...
no fucking way...does he take care of me...definately...
I get home early...I cook, he gets home early he cooks...we get home at the same time...we usually go out to eat on those days...

i personally don't like 50/50...cause really...if you do all that you can and he does all that he can that is giving 100% from both sides...and that is a fucking awesome relationship

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