I don't care if my husband goes to clubs, hell I usually send him out to collect on our (website) accounts. I do draw the line at lap or private dances, and he agrees. He also says it's not as fun going when your wife tells you to go

, but all of his friends think I'm cool as hell.
I think your view on it has alot to do with your age, how old you were when you got married, etc.