Is she Japanese, Chinese, or Korean? And what type of girl is she (nice, TAN, shy, bitchy... etc)? If you answer that I might have some suggestions.
i'm dating an asian girl
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Asians have the greatest ratio of higher education of any ethnic group in the US.very smart
Asians have the highest average income of any ethnic group in the US. We also don't come from a culture of entitlement where we feel wealth is our birthright. There's a difference between valuing hard work and valuing money.sometimes a bit much into the money aspect of the relationship
Like not being spoiled and lazy, valuing hard work and education.a few querks upstairs
Then why did you?But I don't think its good to generalize so much of the worlds population like that.
All I can think when I read this sort of garbage is how badly you guys would be torched if you made even a fraction of these generalizations about African-American women.and the best lovers imaginable.
Fortunately guys who carry around these sort of racist, sexist notions seldom are able to maintain a relationship with an Asian women for very long so do not get a chance to enjoy whatever dubious benefits there may be.Last edited by Kiko_Wu; 12-18-2002, 10:00 AM.Comment
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Originally posted by eru
B/C asian girls are not as hairy as white girls
B/C asian girls have nicer skin
B/C asian girls have better hair
B/C asian girls don't have big noses
B/C asian girls have smoother ass
Of course there are always exceptions so don't flame me.
And most importantly, Asian women taste better when you go down on them.
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I dated a Japanese guy once (I'm female, btw)... he was literally insane... split personality. Not that that's any indication of asians, I'm just mentioning.
I'm straight and I still can't take my eyes of the asian girls! Something about them... so adorable.
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Maybe asians wash more regularly than other's? And you have just gotten some dirty girls? Yeeeeew...Originally posted by Jamie
And most importantly, Asian women taste better when you go down on them.
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Maybe you need to relax a little. People are just talking about what they have experienced in there personal lives. They are not attacking your race.Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
All I can think when I read this sort of garbage is how badly you guys would be torched if you made even a fraction of these generalizations about African-American women.
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Originally posted by cold_ice
Maybe you need to relax a little. People are just talking about what they have experienced in there personal lives. They are not attacking your race.
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Uh yes they are. When you say things like Asian girls are crazy or Asian girls are good in bed that is by definition racist. It is associating an individual personality trait with an entire race. In this case Asians. I am Asian and female so I have every right to make statements on the matter. If you want to make ignorant, racist statements don't start crying when someone calls you on it.They are not attacking your race.Comment
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dude that is amazing because,
<insert positive asian stereotype here>
and you know she's not/doesn't
<insert negative white stereotype here>
plus you get
<insert positive asian stereotype here>
but watch out for
<insert negative asian stereotype here>Last edited by traffictrader; 12-18-2002, 10:32 AM.Comment
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I'm female and -while not asian- have asian culture mingled into my lifestyle to a great extent. It's not racist to say Asians are good in bed. It's like saying "Asians are attractive." Being good in bed is a boon. The comment about being crazy was out of line... but it was ignorance, not racisim. And this means quite a bit, coming from a girl who once dated a crazy Asian man! LOLOriginally posted by Kiko_Wu
Uh yes they are. When you say things like Asian girls are crazy or Asian girls are good in bed that is by definition racist. It is associating an individual personality trait with an entire race. In this case Asians. I am Asian and female so I have every right to make statements on the matter. If you want to make ignorant, racist statements don't start crying when someone calls you on it.
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Hehe, this is a funny thread
quiet, you don't need any advice man. I have dated asian to east indian and everything in between... women are women. Doesnt matter if they are japenese or white, they essentially want the same things. So treat her well and do your best to forget she is Japanese...
I will say you are lcuky in one respect - Japanese families do not out and out hate white people. So if things work out, you might not have a tough time witht he family. Unlike Chinese... who think all us white boys (sai gwai tzai!) want to do is get their daughters pregnant, wreck their cars, take their money and leave them for a white girl with big tits.
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I beg to differ. As I said a bunch of times I'm white and dated a Japanese guy... his mom HATED me because I was not Japanese. If I spoke Japanese with her, she seemed to cheer up... otherwise my non-asian-ness upset her to no end.Originally posted by L0stMind
Hehe, this is a funny thread
quiet, you don't need any advice man. I have dated asian to east indian and everything in between... women are women. Doesnt matter if they are japenese or white, they essentially want the same things. So treat her well and do your best to forget she is Japanese...
I will say you are lcuky in one respect - Japanese families do not out and out hate white people. So if things work out, you might not have a tough time witht he family. Unlike Chinese... who think all us white boys (sai gwai tzai!) want to do is get their daughters pregnant, wreck their cars, take their money and leave them for a white girl with big tits.
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I've dated Korean, Vietnamese, and Filipino. If you have the opportunity go down on them. It has nothing to do with their hygene, naturally they taste much better than white girls.Originally posted by toodamnfli
no shit?
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Well you are proving all these people right by getting all crazy about thisOriginally posted by Kiko_Wu
Uh yes they are. When you say things like Asian girls are crazy or Asian girls are good in bed that is by definition racist. It is associating an individual personality trait with an entire race. In this case Asians. I am Asian and female so I have every right to make statements on the matter. If you want to make ignorant, racist statements don't start crying when someone calls you on it.
You are not going to change anyones mind in here so just relax and go with the flow.
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Okay, if you had finished 6th grade you would have learned that attributing specific acquired physical skills to a race is the definition of a racist statement. ie Black people are good at basketball. By virtue of the environment they are raised in and early exposure to the game many Black men from certain socioeconomic backgrounds are good at basketball. Considering that the rate of premartial sex and the overall frequency of sex for Asian women is far below that of their American counterparts it is unlikely that they have specific skills in this area. More likely it's due to the viral propagation of information based on the experiences of American men with professional sex workers in Asia during the various wars that's since made it's way into the collective American male conscience.It's not racist to say Asians are good in bed. It's like saying "Asians are attractive."
In almost any interracial couple the parents hate it. I've dated Black guys, the parents wished he was with a Black girl, I've dated White guys the parents wish you were White. Sometimes they are more subtle about it but either way it takes a long time to work through that.II beg to differ. As I said a bunch of times I'm white and dated a Japanese guy... his mom HATED me because I was not Japanese. If I spoke Japanese with her, she seemed to cheer up... otherwise my non-asian-ness upset her to no end.
No, that is precisely the point. No individual is a representative of his or her race. By this logic my buddy Q'on should never get angry when he posts because then he's just proving that Black men are violent and aggressive.Well you are proving all these people right by getting all crazy about thisLast edited by Kiko_Wu; 12-18-2002, 11:03 AM.Comment
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Excuse me Kiko. I'm sorry you don't agree with me and my correct statement. But, you just insulted me and I never insulted you, do you see something wrong with this? You can't expect to get anywhere in life when you go around insulting all who oppose you.
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Sorry if I offended ya Kiko... I agree, was a bit racist on my part.
Even if I proclaim myself an expert, doesn't mean I am. =)
Anywho, lets just change my statement to... "Almost all the girls I've dated, were messed up in the head, generally from their strict parents... The one I am dating right now, actually isn't...
That in no way should say that all asian girls are, I just got the bad batch in the past..."
Fair enough? =)Comment
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You did insult me hun, you made racist statements about Asian women. It's a little late to cry foul just because you can't defend those statements now isn't it? If you can't even formulate an intelligent argument you're not much of a bridge. If you make a habit of letting your own mistakes stand in the way of business than that's yet another obstacle that will stand in the path of your success.Excuse me Kiko. I'm sorry you don't agree with me and my correct statement. But, you just insulted me and I never insulted you, do you see something wrong with this? You can't expect to get anywhere in life when you go around insulting all who oppose you.
You just burned a potential bridge. Swift work hun.Last edited by Kiko_Wu; 12-18-2002, 11:17 AM.Comment
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Yup, that's more then fair in my bookFair enough? =)
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I didn't make any racist statements. Please review the posts and you will see that this is true.Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
You did insult me hun, you made racist statements about Asian women. It's a little late to cry foul just because you can't defend those statements now isn't it? If you can't even formulate an intelligent argument you're not much of a bridge. If you make a habit of letting your own mistakes stand in the way of business than that's yet another obstacle that will stand in the path of your success.
I wasn't making an argument either, I was simply saying that being good in bed is a boon (see: dictionary.com). If you feel differently about this topic then please simply say "I disagree" and hold off on insults, arguments etc...
I'm quite a "bridge," on top of being an excellent designer I'm also fluent in Japanese. I'm also an accomplished writer.
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I've got lots of "asian" girlfriends as in chinese, vietnamese, korean and japanese.
All very cool, can't really lump them together at all in terms of stereotypes.
psycho is as psycho does
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Damn his is built like a machineOriginally posted by Pipecrew
what race is your current boyfriend?
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Me? My current is white.Originally posted by Pipecrew
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Hahahaha, I just HAD to quote thisOriginally posted by cherrylula
I've got lots of "asian" girlfriends as in chinese, vietnamese, korean and japanese.
All very cool, can't really lump them together at all in terms of stereotypes.
psycho is as psycho does

as mah mom used ta say, psycho is as psycho does..
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I'm tri-sexual. Men, Women, Machines.. equal opportunity:-)
Just don't start with any stupid stereotypical statements you know, like "Oh it's a sex machine- it's probably good at sex"
Eh, nothing to offer. Already have a Japanese girl here at the office. Designers are a dime a dozen and for the most part starving these days. Already have a few I'm happy with. Since you don't even have a working website in your profile you can't be very serous about it. "Accomplished writer"? A skill I take it that only comes out when you are not posting to message forums?I'm quite a "bridge," on top of being an excellent designer I'm also fluent in Japanese. I'm also an accomplished writer.
I won't bother to post my own credentials, it would be tacky to show off.Comment
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The stress of Christmas must have people on edge here. Try and relax.
Kiko,
I luv ya but I think you are wrong on this
Saying all black people can play basketball, all white southerners are trailer trash or all asians are smart is a stereotype (A conventional, formulaic, and oversimplified conception, opinion, or image) and is not a racist statement.Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
Okay, if you had finished 6th grade you would have learned that attributing specific acquired physical skills to a race is the definition of a racist statement.I was looking for a job, and then I found a job
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A minor point of semantics does not an intelligent argument make. Despite this I'll address the statement. My copy of OED is at home so I'm slumming it with The American Heritage Dictionary:I luv ya but I think you are wrong on this
Saying all black people can play basketball, all white southerners are trailer trash or all asians are smart is a stereotype (A conventional, formulaic, and oversimplified conception, opinion, or image) and is not a racist statement.
rac·ism   ( P )  Pronunciation Key  (rszm)
n.
1. The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.Comment
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First of all, I don't want to work for you. I was saying that when you needlessly insult people, you're pushing them away, and that can only mean less for you, not more. I also said "potential."Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
Eh, nothing to offer. Already have a Japanese girl here at the office. Designers are a dime a dozen and for the most part starving these days. Already have a few I'm happy with. Since you don't even have a working website in your profile you can't be very serous about it. "Accomplished writer"? A skill I take it that only comes out when you are not posting to message forums?
I won't bother to post my own credentials, it would be tacky to show off.
You said I'm not much of a bridge and that I haven't completed 6th grade (honestly... what's with these petty insults that mean nothing?) so I offered some "credentials" in order to show otherwise. *Of course* is my own opinion, take it however you like.
Apparantly you are not one to embrace logic and civil conduct.
I haven't provided a link to any of my sites because I have just moved into "porn site" design. Previously I only did "normal" sites, fan sites, and personal sites. Those I wish not to display as the content is not relevant here. The content and design are not indicative of each other, of course. I would rather not have people seeing my sites who might judge them based on the content. If you were really interested you could always ask me personally and I would be happy to show you my work. Somehow I expect another insult in reply to this. To that I would say "Whatever, right... you're right of course. It must be true because, well, you are you."
May I remind you, this IS the internet, and all personal information about myself will remain personal and private unless I feel it is of some value to share it with people. This argument, for example, is not worth the breech in my privacy and desire to keep low profile for now.
I have no beef with you. I came here to get a feel for the industry and the people, not to argue or even post all that much. How would you suggest I get into this industry, aside from posting on webmaster board? Seemed logical to me. I especially came here to see what women were in the industry (as I am female), you are one of the women here, and initially I was happy to see that and took interest in what you had to say. Now, I can't say this is true.
Honestly, I said nothing racist and did not insult you, at least not intentionally. Why would I want to insult you? Why do you feel anger toward me? I don't care what YOU think of me, I'm not here to impress YOU. But really I'm at a loss in trying to understand where you get off insulting and accusing me of things.
Would you like a hollow apology? I could apologize to you. I'm sorry Kiko, very sorry, I seem to have upset you. I still remain firm that I have not insulted anyone or made any racist comments. But to you I will apologize, as you seem to need it.SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.Comment
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Thanks, I didn't think it was intentional- apology accepted.
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Quiet - bring her to internext.
If she's into the internet porn thing she'll LOVE internext.
if she hates it force her to make a PILE of hardcore videos for you or don't give her the plane ticket home.This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!
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^.^;; oh thank god.Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
Thanks, I didn't think it was intentional- apology accepted.
I will have to get used to your style. I was bracing for another round. ^o^ I'm glad you accepted my apology!SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.Comment
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does she have red hair?Originally posted by quiet
very cool drew. she's japanese. very into the internet, and is facinated by porn's role in it all.
i like this girl, she's interesting (and attractive) - but she is also different from anyone i've known before. i almost feel like posting a picture.
This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!
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im not into one type of girl more than another really, but lately I seem to be checking out more asian chicks.. So many sexy asian girls in sydney.
*dribbles*
three fuckin cheers for multicultural Australia =)
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'nikudorei' = 'meat slave'Originally posted by nikudorei
im not into one type of girl more than another really, but lately I seem to be checking out more asian chicks.. So many sexy asian girls in sydney.
*dribbles*
three fuckin cheers for multicultural Australia =)
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Well now that is quite the generalization and I might dispute it.Originally posted by Kiko_Wu
Like not being spoiled and lazy, valuing hard work and education.
I find that most of the Chinese I know see success as a matter of position. If you have a PHD then success and social respect are supposed to naturally happen because of it. This is how it works in the PRC, but here success is a matter of action and labour. I know many educated and highly qualified Chinese immigrants who are broke and even moving back for part of the year because they don't understand how important it is to hustle for things here, and that success isn't going to fall in their laps.
Now of course that is not all of them, and I know many who have worked hard at low paying jobs, bought their own homes etc. I would actually say life here is easier for the lower classes than the intellectuals. The lower classes understand that they have no entitlement.
Some of the talk here is a bit dehumanizing to Asians, talking about them as if they were different types of import cars. But remember where this discussion is taking place.
I don't know why I go out with a Chinese girl. I sure as hell don't get anything special out of the relationship. I think I am just bored of other white people.Comment
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I hate to come in here and state the obvious but different people from different cultures have different experiences that shape them differently.
The unique aspects of each race tends to shape each person of that race to some degree more than it would people of other races.
Hows this for one Kiko, Asian people are more prone to understanding what goes on in Chinatown than a Dominican person. Rings true doesn't it? This is defintiely the case in most situations but maybe not all of them. But if the glove fits, even a little...
At the same time, you cannot be mad at people that have limited experience with a race for making sweeping generalizations about what they've seen. It's been my experience that people that are new to something have a fresh outlook on it and see the broad scope of it as compared to the select scene a person living in it is used to. This leads them to take notice of those small unique aspects of the race that when repeated could be called racist. You can't deny those things are there to some degree. It's like saying black people like basketball. Who can deny that? Not all of them can play but that generalization isn't too far off base.
I said Asian babes try really hard to please and are extremely giving. I also think they have shallow pussies compared to other races. And yes they do taste better than most.
Wanna refute that Kiko... in person?
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Shoplifter, I don't dispute most of what you say. I have no problem with people preferring Asian women based on appearance.I don't know why I go out with a Chinese girl. I sure as hell don't get anything special out of the relationship. I think I am just bored of other white people.
There are key differences- both good and bad in the way Chinese approach work and their filial obligations. They work hard, but have an interesting view of quality control (Kow Kay as we say in Cantonese). We could go on ad nauseum about the specific cultural differences but all that does is emphasize the sheer scope of a single culture- let alone the race that people were making such sweeping generalizations about.
Who said otherwise? Of course different people from different cultures have different experiences. Last I checked "Asian" wasn't a culture. The posters in this thread weren't talking about people for the most part- they were pairing personality traits with race. If a poster says "I dated a Chinese girl- she was crazy" that is a far cry from "Asian girls are crazy". One is pairing a personality trait to a specific individual, the other is inditing an entire subcontinent- that few of the posters here have even been to.I hate to come in here and state the obvious but different people from different cultures have different experiences that shape them differently.
Sure I can. Most of the conflicts nations and individuals have had since man started walking upright have been caused by people making sweeping generalizations about what people have seen (or think they have seen). There is arguably no surer way to elicit a strong response then to attribute traits to an entire race when a person of that race is present. I still marvel that people are surprised when their bigoted, ignorant statements about Asian women causes offense to an Asian woman.you cannot be mad at people that have limited experience with a race for making sweeping generalizations about what they've seen.
No, Chinese people would be more likely to understand Chinatown. A Korean or Japanese person would be just as lost as the Dominican person. There are cultural traits- but that it different from racial traits.Asian people are more prone to understanding what goes on in Chinatown than a Dominican person
This is starting to go around in circles, some people made stupid racist statements- it was pointed out to them. I understand there's going to be a bit of dickwaving while some of the guys play "Stump Kiko" but the basic groundwork is all there. Making generalizations based on race is a dumb-ass thing to do no matter what your personal experience.Last edited by Kiko_Wu; 12-18-2002, 04:19 PM.Comment






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