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basschick · 09-28-2003, 02:56 PM

if you do something you don't tell your partner about, it's bullshit, cheating or not. guys always complain about getting caught, but you can't get caught if you only do things you're honest about.

it's only cheating if your relationship is designed that way.

if my fiance went to a strip club, i'd feel it's cheating. on the other hand, he didn't go to strip clubs, look at porn or have nude mags before we were together, so it'd change my view of who he is, too. in other relationships in other parts of my life, it was fine - but then, i used to manage a strip club *LOL* at one point, my bf was our doorman - he pretty much HAD to go to strip clubs (or at least that one) *grin*

if going to strip clubs in important to you, find a woman who doesn't mind. or do what a friend of my fiance's at work does - he found a woman who loves going to strip clubs and they go together - and have been for over 20 years.

the part that mystifies me is the number of men who lie to girls when they meet them about going to stip clubs and are then dissatisfied when they end up with girls who don't think it's okay. to thine own self, be true - and to anyone you want to spend lots of time with, be true, also.

as far as lap dances, someone rubbing your dick whether you're dressed or not probably counts as cheating. how would you feel if your gf went around having men rub their dicks against her pussy? if you're both cool with those activities, it isn't cheating, but not many men OR women think this is a two-way street.

09-28-2003, 02:56 PM
basschick Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: el lay, ca usa Posts: 2,540	if you do something you don't tell your partner about, it's bullshit, cheating or not. guys always complain about getting caught, but you can't get caught if you only do things you're honest about. it's only cheating if your relationship is designed that way. if my fiance went to a strip club, i'd feel it's cheating. on the other hand, he didn't go to strip clubs, look at porn or have nude mags before we were together, so it'd change my view of who he is, too. in other relationships in other parts of my life, it was fine - but then, i used to manage a strip club LOL at one point, my bf was our doorman - he pretty much HAD to go to strip clubs (or at least that one) grin if going to strip clubs in important to you, find a woman who doesn't mind. or do what a friend of my fiance's at work does - he found a woman who loves going to strip clubs and they go together - and have been for over 20 years. the part that mystifies me is the number of men who lie to girls when they meet them about going to stip clubs and are then dissatisfied when they end up with girls who don't think it's okay. to thine own self, be true - and to anyone you want to spend lots of time with, be true, also. as far as lap dances, someone rubbing your dick whether you're dressed or not probably counts as cheating. how would you feel if your gf went around having men rub their dicks against her pussy? if you're both cool with those activities, it isn't cheating, but not many men OR women think this is a two-way street. __________________ Got Gay and For Women Traffic?