So my ex-boss is starting to kinda creep me out...

be careful...

I'm scared...

haha you have a batshit crazy stalker on your hands and you have, from what i can see, two good options:

1. take shemps advice, get a retainer, bit your lip and let her get her temptation

2. try and get rid of her, this isn't 'friendship'. but i highly suggest some version of number 1, cause she sounds crazy.

After reading your latest reply, I doubt she even has cancer...It's pretty obvious that she's a pathological liar and just wants to get in your pants.

You should do some investigating and see if she's really sick...

She's a very big lady.

Fuck her good and maybe you can turn that 100k into a million!

I really need a break from her. I need to find a way to let her down nicely. She needs some professional help. It's too much for me to take. I don't want her money. I have a life and a business that needs my attention. I even told her that if I'm as "smart and bright" as she says I am, I should be able to become successful without this "trust fund"

I can't tell you whether or not she really has cancer. She certainly looks very healthy for someone with a critical illness. She definitely has A LOT of energy for someone that is currently taking 10 self administered doses of chemo per day. I practically had to beg her to leave the next day as I was literally EXHAUSTED from being up for so long, and she seemed to be full of energy.

I don't need her money.

step 1- marry her
step 2- change her will so you get it all
step 3- wait for her to die
step 4- cash out!!!

truth.. i have a friend here whose ancestors(very, very wealthy ones) setup a trust fund for his grandparents down to him and he acts like a broke college kid.. yet gets about 15k/mo allotted to him from it for the next 40 years.

Tell her there is this woman who keeps making advances and shit, making you uncomfortable.

And then tell her who it is.

If that doesnt work, a restraining order will. Fuck it man, life is short. Be up front and tell her how it is and if she doesnt back off, tell her you will go the legal route or whatever else it takes to have peace in your life.

LOL, that's exactly what came to mind.

BTW, there are very few people who would question this, so I applaud you for having sound reasoning. Judging by the responses in this thread you can see a lot of people would just take whatever money they could without questioning it.

How convenient.

You know what, those girls are pretty. I guess it's not just the large part, she's simply not attractive I can't put it any other way. There are hot big girls out there.

I would actually do the blonde chick...

hang yourself

Tell her your going on a date with an old girlfriend that came back into town, see how she reacts. If she freaks, she's in love with you which will most likely freak you out.
Then over a few days, tell her you fell in love again with this old girlfriend. That should split you apart.

There is no $100k. Get over that right now.

It's bullshit. Don't just walk away, fucking RUN!

I have a 3 step solution that will make everyone happy .

1. Accept the money so she feels happy.
2. Donate the money to me so I can put it to good use
3. Go on living your life as normal.


It's a win win situation all around

Damn, that is pretty fucked up!!

Agreed, she might be Nigerian

Tell her you're into bald chicks and will only fuck her once the chemo makes her bald!

Send her your exact original post in this thread with nothing edited.

don't listen to all these haters. it could be destiny.


























































if your destiny was to be discovered in a freezer.

creeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepy situation. i'm picturing Kathy Bates from the movie Misery.

She's going to rape and kill you.

Not joking around. You need to tell her forcefully to stop now. If she doesn't - call the cops and get a restraining order. Don't fuck around with this, you're not playing with some innocent woman you are dealing with an aggressive pathological lying stalker.

I don't know if "forcefully" is the way to do it. Funny thing is, her father is a cop (etf)...

That's just awful...

Sounds like complete bullshit or you are a complete pushover.

Do you believe everything a chick tells you?

Why would you spend 14 hours with someone and then another 2 hours on the phone if you were not interested in them?

You are leading her on.

Tell her you are gay, simple as that.

why dont you stop being an asshole and fuck her already, imagine being on your death bed and you just wanted to get some dam pussy and no one would help you out.

she just wants to fuck and isnt confidant enough to come out and say it so she is dabbling in excuses to try to lure you in.

fuck her brains out already god you people are idiots.

Sounds spot on to me. Give her a
wide berth or she will become major trouble.

Ok here's an update on the situation... I got in contact with another ex-employee who I remembered she seemed to have a thing for... here's the convo...

this makes it even FREAKIER!!!!!

Me
hey man i have a question... was there ever a time when *name removed* was sending you like 100 emails and messages and stuff?
3:50am Him
yeah
3:50am Me
well thats me now
how do i make it stop?
lol
3:50am Him
and she called me from unknown number when i dont pick up
3:50am Me
YEP!!!!
me too!
3:50am Him
r u still at *company name*
3:50am Me
no i quit two weeks ago
3:51am Him
where r u working now?
3:51am Me
im working from home on my own business
3:51am Him
lol
good stuff

so did you just ignore her?
3:51am Him
yeah
till she stopped
but sh estill call every now and then
buit i dont pick up
3:52am Me
because im basically going to send her a message saying that this "relationsip" is too much for me
3:52am Him
she is too much man
3:52am Me
i know man, i think she is crazy
3:52am Him
i was thinking of calling the police at a point
or even changing my number
she is
crazy
and she will keep harassing u
3:52am Me
HAHA dude me too
3:52am Him
shell tell u shes sick
3:52am Me
yep
3:52am Him
and she only has few days
in this world
3:52am Me
no shit she did too
when did she tell you this?
3:53am Him
and she needs someone to be her freinds
3:53am Me
YES
FUCK EXACTLY
3:53am Him
aqdn she wants to give u all her money be4 she dies
she has cancer
3:53am Me
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
YESSSS
omggg

Him
and she wants to give u 700000 dollars
or something
and u need to talk to her lawyer
so u can sign that thing
u know
and a cottage that shell give


*** switched to a diff program since I was using facebook chat and it was easier to document the convo...

(03:54:11) Him i thought she was preparing to kill me o something
(03:54:19)
Him and shell rape me or something
(03:54:29)
Me dude thats the same thoughts going through my head
(03:54:35)
Me ive been so fuckign freaked the last few days
(03:54:43)
Me she calls my house, emails me NONSTOP
(03:54:44)
Him i wwnt through that bro
(03:54:53)
Me and the same thing with the lawyer
(03:54:54)
Me and *compnany name withheld*
(03:54:59)
Me and *company name withheld* and all this shit
(03:55:00)
Him yep
(03:55:04) Him *name of* hospitaol
(03:55:17)
Him yeah i know
(03:55:25)
Him she is crazy
(03:55:53)
Him i even thougt she was doing that trying to get revenge cz we sold all this insurance
(03:56:00)
Him and we were scaming ppl
(03:56:08)
Him so shes taking revenge u know
(03:56:12)
Him by scaming us
(03:56:18)
Him shes a fucki freak man
(03:56:21)
Me did she ever tell you she had "feelings" for you
(03:56:23)
Me and that she liked you?
(03:56:24)
Him she is lying to u
(03:56:28)
Him yeah
(03:56:28)
Me i figured that already
(03:56:30)
Me omg
(03:56:42)
Him but i was always saying ur m sister
(03:56:48)
Him older sister
(03:56:55)
Him she tried to hold my hands once man
(03:56:58)
Him and i freaked
(03:57:06)
Me dude she fucking KISSED me once man
(03:57:08)
Me like forcefully
(03:57:13)
Me i felt like i was being raped
(03:57:15)
Him shiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
(03:57:18)
Me i wanted to PUKEEE
(03:57:25)
Him kiss on the cheek
(03:57:32)
Him or like lips
(03:57:44)
Him ?
(03:57:48)
Me LIPS man
(03:57:52)
Me i was pulliing away
(03:57:56)
Me and she's like stop pulling away
(03:57:57)
Him SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT
(03:58:00)
Me and she went in for it
(03:58:05)
Him OMGF
(03:58:12)
Him IN HER CAr
(03:58:18)
Me no in my garage
(03:58:27)
Him SHIIIIIIIIIIT
(03:58:27)
Me i was stupid and she wanted to go for coffee this week
(03:58:38)
Him LOOOOOL
(03:58:38)
Me then after like 14 hours she dropped me off
(03:58:46)
Me then had to use the bathroom
(03:58:46)
Him SHE ASKED FOR A COFFEE I NEVER GAVE IN FOR A KISS
(03:58:47)
Him LOL
(03:58:53)
Him U COULD SUE THAT BITCH
(03:59:07)
Him I WANNA SUE HER FOR HARRASING ON THE PHONE
(03:59:13)
Him WITHOUT LEAVING VOICEMESSAGES
(03:59:19)
Him OR SPECIFYING WHO SHE IS
(03:59:52)
Me yeah i remember one night last week
(03:59:53)
Me i signed in
(03:59:56)
Me on msn
(04:00:00)
Me then forgot and went offline mode
(04:00:05)
Me and then she emailed me saying she saw me go on
(04:00:10)
Me and to go on and chat with her
(04:00:28)
Me then i randomly get two calls from a private # at 1am
(04:00:48)
Him ur lucky she didnt kill u or rape u
(04:00:56)
Him so what did u do after the kiss
(04:01:04)
Me just told her i was not comfortable with this
(04:01:06)
Him did u freak
(04:01:08)
Me and i dont have feelings for her
(04:01:17)
Him and she she cried
(04:01:17)
Me then she said "get feellings"
(04:01:20)
Me YEP!
(04:01:20)
Him yoo man
(04:01:26)
Him whats ur number
(04:01:27)
Me she cried
(04:01:29)
Him ill call u
(04:01:33)
Me my home phone is *number withheld*
(04:01:46)
Him can i call u on that numb
(04:01:52)
Me if thts long disstance i'll give you my VOIP
(04:01:53)
Me #
(04:02:00)
Me its *area code* but i have to go upstairs
(04:02:09)
Him canu call me
(04:02:23)
Me yep
(04:02:26)
Me i have a flat rate *city*#
(04:02:29)
Me whats your numbner?
(04:02:31)
Me number?
(04:02:45)

Him *number withheld*
(04:02:47)
Me ok

So while we're talking on the phone he's basically like, she's LYING, she doesn't' have cancer. If she did she would have been dead by now (this took place with him around 5 months ago and she told him about the *specific date* she was supposed to die). He told me that she wanted him to drive her up to her cottage where she wanted to die and that's where she was going to OD on morphine pills. Anyways, that never ended up happening, but she said he was on the phone with her when she was supposedly taking the pills and was gonna die... then got a text from from her claiming to be her brother, and I actually can't recall exactly what happens now (this is why i like talking online)...

Anyhow, turns out the "pills" didn't work and now she's alive and kickin'.

Also I just received in one of her numerous emails today, a message claiming that she stopped her chemo and that she was gonna go out "peacefully" (gee can't you see where this is going), and that she *really needs me* in this time of need and has never needed me more. Says she hasn't been able to eat and has already lost 15 pounds... welp, I talked to a buddy of mine who still works there about this...

his response:

11/16/2009 1:36:29 AM Him Me Well...
11/16/2009 1:36:32 AM Him Me She was in Saturday.
11/16/2009 1:36:51 AM Him Me Chicken nuggets... Chips... Candies... Some stuff from home in tupperware
11/16/2009 1:37:18 AM Him Me And I mean I was just as bad, but I am not claiming to not be able to eat.


I'm scared................

Bunny Boiler. Dont engage her any further.

Ditto. This chick is insaine. Cut everything off, don't even try and let her down gently.

With crazy people you can't beat around the bush, they don't take dropped hints, you need to be direct and to the point. Otherwise any way they see an opening they are going to try and take it and any hope you may leave her with she will hold on to.

She has to know you're out, for good, forever or she'll never stop.

Awesome. Great lyrics!

You could try the tack of asking to see proof of her illness, asking to see proof of the trust fund... it will piss her off and she'll probably fake indignance but at least you get to see her squirm, and after that chat with the "former squeeze" I'm assuming you want to end this anyway...

Who knows, maybe he is enjoying this adventurous and entertaining lady

Well, whether or not I reply to any of her messages I just have a feeling she won't be that easy to get rid of. That other guy hasn't replied to her in around 4 months and she still tries to contact him "now and again"

This is one crazy bitch!! I'm even starting to believe there is no "cottage"... who the fuck knows where she would have taken me or him... in the area where this cottage is supposed to be is like butt fuck nowhere! I have a feeling I would have never been seen again if I went...

Seems he wants this to continue. This will get really fun and entertaining.

I'm debating whether or not to have some sort of "fun" with it, but what I really want is to just focus on my life. The other dude told me that once he realized she was full of shit, he said he took her for a little ride, had her buy him things etc just before cutting off contact. As much as a crazy person she may be, I don't have the heart to do that. I still feel sorry for her that she would have to resort to these methods for some sort of sick pleasure or attention.