Married people:
If you had to go back and do it again, would you get married?
If so, how long into the marriage was this or was it even before you got married.
If not, how honestly happy are you? - As in, "this life is tolerable, im to comfortable to leave" to "my wife and I are best friends, I couldnt leave without her" to "everyday i wake up and see my wife, i feel like the luckiest man in the world"
Single people:
Are you honestly happy being single?
If not, do you think that being in a relationship will make you happy?
Do you envy friends and family that are married with/without kids?
If you are happy being single, do friends and family ever say anything to you about "not being normal?" as in being married with kids, etc.?
The reason that I ask is because it seems that every friend that I have that is married wishes they were single and says "dont get married, bad idea if you enjoy your freedom" while single friends say "I wish i could find a girl to marry and have a family with?"
I know its more of "you want what you can't have" but I do have some friends that are very happy being single and have no intent ever getting married. My uncle is that way to, hes in his mid 40's and loves life without being tied down.
edit: the poll is anonymous and you can consider yourself "married" if you are in a long term or committed relationship
If you had to go back and do it again, would you get married?
If so, how long into the marriage was this or was it even before you got married.
If not, how honestly happy are you? - As in, "this life is tolerable, im to comfortable to leave" to "my wife and I are best friends, I couldnt leave without her" to "everyday i wake up and see my wife, i feel like the luckiest man in the world"
Single people:
Are you honestly happy being single?
If not, do you think that being in a relationship will make you happy?
Do you envy friends and family that are married with/without kids?
If you are happy being single, do friends and family ever say anything to you about "not being normal?" as in being married with kids, etc.?
The reason that I ask is because it seems that every friend that I have that is married wishes they were single and says "dont get married, bad idea if you enjoy your freedom" while single friends say "I wish i could find a girl to marry and have a family with?"
I know its more of "you want what you can't have" but I do have some friends that are very happy being single and have no intent ever getting married. My uncle is that way to, hes in his mid 40's and loves life without being tied down.
edit: the poll is anonymous and you can consider yourself "married" if you are in a long term or committed relationship
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