Originally Posted by 2MuchMark

I'll meet you half-way. i'm better than that for most people, but Huggles is just some lazy .
guy who blames everyone else for everything in his life. It's one thing to make a mistake or two, but its quiet another to not learn from those mistakes.

Remember Mediaguy? He was a good friend of mine and really well known on GFY and in the adult industry in general until he started making one bad decision after another, after another. He went from drinking too much beer, to borrowing money and never paying it back, to doing drugs, then hard drugs. He scammed $20,000 from his own girlfriend, then stole all of his Mothers money, got kicked out of her condo after she died (he was squatting there), and has been homeless for 10 years now. I looked for him in the rain, brought him food and cash, and even managed to get him a house, rent-free for 6 months, with Internet and utilities thrown in, all for free. He refused it, you know why? Because it was "too far" from downtown Montreal where his dealer was. That is when any pity I had for him vanished.




Huggles look... you bitched and moaned on GFY for a while now about one problem after another and everyone, including me, reached-out to offer to help you. So did Legacy, so did others. Did you take it? No. Did you even thank me for the offer? No. So pardon me if I don't shower you in pity because you would rather complain about things and blame other people for it.

Here's some free advice for you:
1. Get up off your ass and stop wasting so much time on GFY

2. Go out and get a real job, then go out and get a second real part-time job. Sweep floors if you have to.

3. Don't even think of doing anything in Adult where paypal is involved. Paypal and Adult is a fucking nightmare combination. If you do any contracts for anyone, demand 50% down payment, by wire transfer, right to your account. If they can't or won't do it, then too bad for them.

If you are genuinly in this a bad spot in your life then I feel bad for you, but you won't get any more pity from me anymore. Stop making your situation worse by wasting time - Do what you have to do and change it for the better instead.