Maybe I'm beating a dead horse (no offense to horse lovers), but lots of things have been said with zero constructive objective and I'm getting a bit nauseous from this merry-go-round that's been going on.
I don't like to hurt people's feelings, but when I feel hurt I don't necessarily have the foresight of compassion. I just really need to say something, and I hope that Honeys**t takes it into account, since obviously neither of us has spent any time actually getting to know one another...
We can bitch back and forth and each of us try to get the upper hand or have the better insults ~ but where did this all begin? Really?
From my view point I've read a few posts over the last few months that in my opinion were directed towards me, and less than kind in their directive, but I always let them pass without reply.
Where it got serious for me was when I interpreted you as saying that I have something to do with abuse of women on GFY. Honeys**t, when it comes to the women on GFY I either give them positive replys and compliments, or I don't say anything at all ~ this is reflected in my personal life as well.
Had I known your daughter was suffering from something so serious I would never have even mentioned her in my anger towards you (referencing; 'Congratulations ~ how sick was she before you finally stopped putting on your make-up and drove her?'). My anger was towards you, and my assumption was your daughter maybe had a cold. Hell, I didn't even know you had a medical condition, but like I said, neither of us has spent any time getting to know eachother so how would I?
So here are my observations;
I took personal what I interpreted to be you alluding to me being involved with abuse of women.
You took personal what you interpreted to be me mocking your daughter's medical condition.
If we can resolve then we're both better people for it, if we can't then I'm willing to go back to how things were before Sunday.
I don't like to hurt people's feelings, but when I feel hurt I don't necessarily have the foresight of compassion. I just really need to say something, and I hope that Honeys**t takes it into account, since obviously neither of us has spent any time actually getting to know one another...
We can bitch back and forth and each of us try to get the upper hand or have the better insults ~ but where did this all begin? Really?
From my view point I've read a few posts over the last few months that in my opinion were directed towards me, and less than kind in their directive, but I always let them pass without reply.
Where it got serious for me was when I interpreted you as saying that I have something to do with abuse of women on GFY. Honeys**t, when it comes to the women on GFY I either give them positive replys and compliments, or I don't say anything at all ~ this is reflected in my personal life as well.
Had I known your daughter was suffering from something so serious I would never have even mentioned her in my anger towards you (referencing; 'Congratulations ~ how sick was she before you finally stopped putting on your make-up and drove her?'). My anger was towards you, and my assumption was your daughter maybe had a cold. Hell, I didn't even know you had a medical condition, but like I said, neither of us has spent any time getting to know eachother so how would I?
So here are my observations;
I took personal what I interpreted to be you alluding to me being involved with abuse of women.
You took personal what you interpreted to be me mocking your daughter's medical condition.
If we can resolve then we're both better people for it, if we can't then I'm willing to go back to how things were before Sunday.
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