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Originally Posted by Grapesoda
wear really nice leather shoes, (keep them polished) slacks and dress shirts. maybe a sports coat and nice expensive watch. women ALWAYS look at the shoes to judge a man.
live in a nice clean area, even if the place is small. get a nice car, even a used car, tesla? maybe a small Mercedes?
keep everything super clean. ALWAYS have clean hands and nails. a woman looking at your hands is thinking about that hand in her pussy. you wanna be really really clean and neat. keep your finger nails clipped too. finger nails will cut up a pussy inside.
you need to represent stability and conservatism. don't use foul language, still working on this myself. the better you are, the better woman/partner you will draw. and most importantly... LISTEN. women need to be heard.
get dressed up and go practice somewhere... be polite a bit silly and chat women up that are open to it with no intention. no motivation other than the joy of chatting up a woman. I like women so this is easy for me.
this is where you learn, a woman will make the move if she is interested. get information with out the risk of rejection: 'wow you are really an amazing person, is your boy friend as cool as you are?" or "your boyfriend is one lucky guy" or "what kind of guys do you date?" like a casual friendly question  these questions will give you info at no risk.
the most important thing is find the woman for you. not every woman is right for you, but the right woman, the right partner will light your life up and bring you to a new level. so think very clearly about what you're doing. like a business move. I was told never date a woman unless she has these 4 things 1. a place to live, couch surfing ids not a place to live. 2. a car, look inside and see that the car is clean inside... because that's your future home environment. 3. a bank account and 4. a steady job or profession and is gainfully employed. ultimately it comes down to merging your business with another business. you want to merge with a healthy business, correct?
that should give you something to think about. BTW I'm not sure porn chicks are stable enough or sane enough. |
Pure gold! Thank you for posting this. Every man should print this out, laminate it and hang it on their bedroom wall as a reminder.
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Originally Posted by Grapesoda
Alcoholism is a mental state spiritual state whether you drink or not.
Even when you stop drinking you're still spiritually an alcoholic.
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Not being an alcoholic myself I did have a recovering one as a roommate for several years, plus being in the music industry in New York in the '90s I certainly knew a few dozen. So I say this with love and respect to anyone in recovery: the #1 thing you have to watch out for - and this, I think, is the OP's issue with getting those "10 pack abs" - is something called
symptom substitution.
Symptom substitution is where you simply swap out one addiction for a supposedly healthier one, like going to the gym. Often it shows up with smoking, or taking drugs (meds), or eating (getting fat after rehab is common), etc. So you may still be addicted but you have simply switched that addiction to another substance
albeit a healthier one.
Also: find a partner who doesn't drink and has never had any substance abuse issues.