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  • whatif_3
    Registered User
    • Jul 2004
    • 459

    #1

    should some men be allowed to cheat?

    when i grew up, i thought that marriage was sacred, once you made that commitment, that was it.

    years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not.

    the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing

    things seem to work fine, at least on the surface

    me? im losing out on a lot because its hard for me to commit to being a 1 woman man for the rest of my life, so my relationships never get to that point anyway

    your thoughts?
  • SilentKnight
    Megan Fox's fluffer
    • Oct 2005
    • 24812

    #2
    Admittedly, I was a stereotypical dawg growing up - I never committed to a relationship and cheated on practically every girlfriend I had. So I can understand and appreciate both sides of the fence.

    Somewhere along the line - the routine got stale...and 14 years ago I committed to my current wife.

    We celebrate our 11th anniversary this August - and I don't regret a moment of monogamy.

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    • count of monte cristo
      Confirmed User
      • Sep 2004
      • 473

      #3
      i think it depends on what circles you hang out in
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      • Yen_HerbalRevenue
        Confirmed User
        • Mar 2009
        • 816

        #4
        I still have that little girl fantasy that I'll meet the right guy for me and well get married and live happily ever after. I don't think this would ever change, no matter how successful he is or how many kids we have together. I couldn't look at someone the same who does not respect our marriage.

        If you can't commit to one person who shouldn't force yourself. It would only end in heartbreak.


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        • seeandsee
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          • Mar 2006
          • 50945

          #5
          Originally posted by count of monte cristo
          i think it depends on what circles you hang out in
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          • SleazyDream
            I'm here for SPORT
            • Jul 2001
            • 41470

            #6
            swing.

            i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.
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            • StaceyJo
              Confirmed User
              • Mar 2008
              • 8960

              #7
              Sad. Been surrounded by cheaters.
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              • jcsike
                Confirmed User
                • Jan 2006
                • 689

                #8
                Originally posted by SleazyDream
                swing.

                i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.
                i have the need, on occasion, to conquer strange new pussy. i think its like the lion sitting there with all the lionesses, they bring him the food, he has everything he needs and is the man.

                but on occasion, he has to run off and kill a hyena or something just to prove that hes a badass.


                but its real nice when your girls into it

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                • ztik
                  Confirmed User
                  • Aug 2001
                  • 5196

                  #9
                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                  swing.

                  i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.
                  Your name definitely suits you

                  Personally, I don't see the point in sleeping around, nor do I have the urge to. I would much rather have a solid healthy relationship.
                  .

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                  • MaDalton
                    I am Amazing Content!
                    • Feb 2004
                    • 39864

                    #10
                    Originally posted by whatif_3

                    years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not.

                    the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing

                    things seem to work fine, at least on the surface
                    you just described 85% of the married men in this industry
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                    • Bama
                      Confirmed User
                      • Nov 2001
                      • 2727

                      #11
                      A cow with all the grass he cares to eat in his own pasture gets too fat to jump the fence.

                      Not exactly "Confucius deep thought" material but a logical analogy none the less...

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                      • count of monte cristo
                        Confirmed User
                        • Sep 2004
                        • 473

                        #12
                        learned in biology class that a) women want to find a strong mate who can protect them and their child and b) men want to spread their seed as often as possible

                        it all made sense after that.
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                        • tranza
                          ICQ: 197-556-237
                          • Jun 2003
                          • 57559

                          #13
                          Cheating is inside our DNA.
                          I'm just a newbie.

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                          • Adult Insider Dave
                            Confirmed User
                            • Jun 2005
                            • 533

                            #14
                            I have had the same issues bro. I have been in a couple 4 year relationships but the "one woman" thing killed it for me. It sucks being a guy tbh, all I can think of every time i see a good looking woman is that i wanna fuck her. Kids are really the only reason I would ever get married, and the older i get the more it seems like something I want to do.
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                            • Darkland
                              Confirmed User
                              • May 2002
                              • 1488

                              #15
                              Why is this question for men only? Are women not allowed to cheat equally or does that just make them a whore or a slut in the male reptilian brain?

                              If you can't stay faithful to one women what the fuck are you doing in a relationship. Cheaters don't BELONG in relationships and the ones that do are sociopaths who don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. Do everyone a favor and stay single. For every supposed swinger or open relationship that people claim to be successful there are many who aren't and only end in heartache for everyone but the selfish bastard who initiated it.

                              I feel sorry for the kids who grow up in these type of homes because lets face it, what an awesome lesson they are learning on how to treat people.



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                              • brassmonkey
                                Pay It Forward
                                • Sep 2005
                                • 77392

                                #16
                                its not cheating unless u get caught
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                                • beerptrol
                                  Confirmed Asshole
                                  • Feb 2003
                                  • 12722

                                  #17
                                  1. Find a women that is into open marriages. But don't be surprised if she falls for someone with a bigger cock

                                  2. find a women who is bi and into u2 sharing chicks

                                  3. Don't be a cheater. If the woman isnt into the above 2 situations then dont commit to her

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