I have to agree with Detour-Diva. I have a lot of girl FRIENDs and would not or did not "hit it" Before, during, or After Relationships. Basically it does BOIL DOWN TO RESPECT. Respect for yourself, and for them. If a girl is dating a guy, friend of yours or not and wants to bang one out with you; that is not the kind of person I want to be around. Hot or not someone is going to get hurt either physically or mentally and I have been cheated on more then once. The last thing I would want to do is put anyone else through that kind of PAIN.
Most importantly of all for those of you who still "DON'T GET IT" The best reason for having girls as friends is they make great BAIT! Incase you have not noticed HOT CHICKS hang out with or attract other HOT CHICKS! Being able to have them either hook you up with their friends, or bring totally strange girls over to YOU almost effortlessly to dance or hang out is a gift only a true girl friend wants to give you. I have gotten laid more times through the efforts of my girl friends then I ever could have on my own. To me having girls as friends is infinitely more valuable then pounding them on the couch.
