Do you let your wife get fucked by other men?

to all those that won't LET someone else fuck their wife... when I was married i only fucked hookers and other married women. I did PILES of married women - dozens and dozens of them. I was an insurance broker and used a phone dating system called lavelife. You sent phone messages to each other on there and the married women mostly wanted other married men so there was less risk. I dumped soooooo many loads in married housewives during the afternoon when their hubbies were at work, in their beds and on their sofas.

So for all of you that won't LET your wives fuck other men - controlling someone usually means they will secretly betray you.

Now I'm a swinger with my GF. we mostly swap with other couples. We go though phases with it - sometimes swinging many times a month, sometimes takeing many months off. we like to swing together and get off on watching the other fuck someone else.

sex isn't love.

Really it all boils down to this
Self security
Confidence
Intelligence
And sex drive
First off my hats goes off to Tim for having the courage to be so frank and honest on a forum full of whiny teenagers and wannabe webmasters. It not only takes something more thean the average man to let another man fuck his wife? but it takes an extraordinary brother to admit it in a public setting like this.
That being said
The immaturity of some of the people here never cease to amaze me? you have a man sharing his story and all some of you losers can do is talk shit and make jokes about the man?.. what a bunch of cowards? on top of that some of you even went so far as to suggest that the race of the person she was with somehow makes a difference?. Grow the fuck up man
Being secure in yourself? confident in your relationship and sure of who you are are all requirements of being a part of the swinging lifestyle.
Congrats tim nothing but respect from over here
P.S?. remember that most of the guys here don?t have a wife and have never had pussy they did not have to pay for? so ignore the insecure immature comments

Really it all boils down to this
Self security
Confidence
Intelligence
And sex drive
First off my hats goes off to Tim for having the courage to be so frank and honest on a forum full of whiny teenagers and wannabe webmasters. It not only takes something more thean the average man to let another man fuck his wife? but it takes an extraordinary brother to admit it in a public setting like this.
That being said
The immaturity of some of the people here never cease to amaze me? you have a man sharing his story and all some of you losers can do is talk shit and make jokes about the man?.. what a bunch of cowards? on top of that some of you even went so far as to suggest that the race of the person she was with somehow makes a difference?. Grow the fuck up man
Being secure in yourself? confident in your relationship and sure of who you are are all requirements of being a part of the swinging lifestyle.
Congrats tim nothing but respect from over here
P.S?. remember that most of the guys here don?t have a wife and have never had pussy they did not have to pay for? so ignore the insecure immature comments

your wifes pussy was kind of musty ... but. Overall it was a good fuck.

FACT:

had my wife fucked you.... you would not still be gay

thats a nice story
but at the end of the day your wife got fucked by a black cock and your best man also fucked your wife....no offense but I couldn't be happy after that. lol. maybe its only me though?

IM GONNA FUCK YOU BABY

I dont swing that way fella

me either, I just you might need some love since you have pictures of butterflies flying into your hole ?

lol

stupid but funny

women are lying little cunts and as soon as you understand that the better you'll be!

For someone who isn't in that kind of relationship, you sure seem to know a lot about it. It has NOTHING to do with porn, it has everything to do with enjoying your sexuality, and having the trust, maturity, and sense of adventure that comes with choosing that lifestyle. A lot of people who are "in" the porn industry are more open-minded, therefore I'm not surprised we have a decent community of swingers here... what you don't seem to realize is that you probably know a LOT more swingers than you THINK you know, most couples are in the lifestyle and don't make it publically known (with the idiots in the world, who could blame em?).

What makes it easier to stay together is COMMUNICATION. The variety and enjoyment of others is all about contributing to your RELATIONSHIP, the rest is gravy. Most swingers I know could give or take being with other people, they love their mates, however, they ENJOY what being with other people brings to their relationship, so when the fancy strikes them, they take it. It's hardly a loophole. Apparently, couples who enjoy alternative lifestyles have to find loopholes to tolerate each other? There are a lot of alternatives... wow apparently a lot of people need loopholes. What's the excuse for the non-lifestyle people who just flat out cheat on their mates? That's some kind of loophole, it's hurtful, and it's dishonest. At least swingers are honest. heh.

before you do it, remember the Donny story

do you, sick fucks?

no wife - no party.

I would wander in without warning and join in - more than one kid grabbed his pants and left........

She never did an anal scene.

lol classic thread

nation-x don't get your panties in a bundle

Yes, I have. Love and sex are two different things. Got time for a story?

I met a young lady in October of 1994 while we were both working at the Dayton Airport for an overnight freight carrier. We fell in love a few months later...she was 20 and I was 29 at the time. She had danced off and on since the age of 17...I, at that time, had never stepped foot inside a strip club.

In 1997, at her request, we took a bunch of photos of her at a topless beach on a lake near Dayton, and we sent them out to various men's magazines and their amateur contests. She won five or six thousand dollars and several of the magazines contacted her for pro layouts. During one of those shoots Peter Wall, then a freelance photographer who was shooting her for SCORE in Florida, took her to see her first feature dancer (Darrien Vain or Rio Rivers, I think). She adopted the name "Felicia Fox" not long after, in August of 1998.

In the summer of 1999, I left my job (building semi trucks on an assembly line) and we took our first feature dance booking through Ken Shinkle at Continental. I also began DJing in strip clubs in between our bookings. In the spring of 2000 we saw Jenna Jameson perform for the first time at Diamonds Cabaret in Dayton, and during the show Felicia turned to me (breathless, stars in her eyes) and said "I want to do porn. I want an audience like this."

I was, to put it mildly, shocked...we weren't swingers. Like every other feature dancer who DOESN'T do porn, we had played the game and allowed clubs and agents to make it seem like she was a porn actress -- without every having done the work. I thought about it for a few minutes and told her "Okay, as long as you treat it like a job and don't get caught up in the lifestyle." At the time, being young and stupid, we thought she would be able to just work with me.

We posted some photos of her on geneross.com, and we were contacted not long after by Dirty Bob and Den from www.cavr.com (both Dayton residents with ties to the industry). Dirty Bob suggested we call -- drum roll, please -- Mike South down in Atlanta, who we talked with several times before he agreed to shoot Felicia in Sept. 2000 down in Tampa between two feature bookings. (Before we shot with Mike, Sin City flew us out to Los Angeles for a weekend and we met with Michael Raven, who discussed a possible contract offer for her. She would have signed, but he was insistent that she agree to do interracial and work non-condom, and she refused, claiming she wasn't quite ready to do either. She eventually did both, but on her own terms.)

We met Mike in September, and her first scene was a BBG with Mike and me -- it later appeared in Mike South's Confederate Cuties #4, and is now available for download on his www.ezmadedvd.com site. It was, to put it mildly, disconcerting...obviously, she would be working with people other than me...duh...but we talked about it on the way back to Miami for her show, and we were both okay with everything, so we made plans to go to Los Angeles and try more films. Since the purpose of shooting porn in the first place was to build her name and audience on the feature circuit (to make her a "porn star", in other words) we knew we needed to -- as agent Ken Shinkle put it -- "do a lot more fucking".

[Her next film she worked with Ron Jeremy. More Than a Handful #9. First Mike South, then the Hedgehog -- Jesus, was someone up there trying to tell me something?]

Long story short -- she wound up shooting over 100 films, won several awards, and made alot of money on the feature circuit. Got her coveted boxcovers. She became a "porn star", though not on Jenna's level, but she kept her real boobs, small town charm, and sanity intact, which was way more important to me. She got to go out on tour with Tool and A Perfect Circle, got to dance onstage with Kid Rock, and we got to hang out with Korn and Zakk Wylde and Danny Lohner. We moved to the Valley for a few years, had the time of our lives, made a few enemies along the way, and made some great friends who we still see whenever we can.

She never did an anal scene. She never caught an STD. She never got hurt or taken advantage of and she never did one single thing on film that she didn't want to do.

We wound up with a lifetime of great memories, and it was worth it, for us. We're still together, now monogamous (again). We live happily in Dayton with our ten-month-old son, Hendrix. And, to come full circle, now Mike South is going to be the best man at our wedding in September, with Dirty Bob taking the wedding photos. We've been together for going on 14 years now.

Yes, I've let me wife get fucked by other men. I may even be a suitcase pimp, like they say. But, goddammit, I sure am a happy one these days.