Are you a forgiving person? Do you forgive others?

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  • bausch
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2006
    • 3017

    #1

    Are you a forgiving person? Do you forgive others?

    Personally I'm not. I have a very good memory and I remember every single time I've been wronged and I hold grudges. I feel like once someone has wronged you the action has already been taken, it's already been done and nothing can reverse that, including the other person being apologetic or showing remorse.
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    1. Yes, I forgive people
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    2. No I never forgive, I hold grudges and don't forgive anyone ever!!
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  • Fletch XXX
    GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
    • Jan 2002
    • 60840

    #2
    Originally posted by bausch
    I remember every single time I've been wronged
    this is called not forgetting, difference between forgetting and forgiving.

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    • bausch
      Confirmed User
      • Jul 2006
      • 3017

      #3
      Originally posted by Fletch XXX
      this is called not forgetting, difference between forgetting and forgiving.
      That's true, I don't forget but I also don't forgive. I added a poll btw.

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      • Fletch XXX
        GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
        • Jan 2002
        • 60840

        #4
        Originally posted by bausch
        That's true, I don't forget but I also don't forgive. I added a poll btw.
        I know but the way its worded just sounds like you never forget, you can still forgive and not forget.

        I have found in my life grudges put you further behind.

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        • CaptainHowdy
          Too lazy to set a custom title
          • Dec 2004
          • 94113

          #5
          I forgive everyone except myself...

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          • Heiko
            Registered User
            • Oct 2001
            • 84

            #6
            I forget, but never forgive...

            I have to let stuff go or else it would drive me crazy, but once someone has stabbed in the back, I never give them an opportunity to do it again. No second chances here...

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            • woj
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              • Jul 2002
              • 47880

              #7
              another bausch classic in the making
              I'll just take this seat here, carry on guys...
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              • sortie
                Confirmed User
                • Mar 2007
                • 7771

                #8
                I'm still mad at you for starting this thread!!!!

                What was your question again?

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                • slapass
                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                  • Nov 2002
                  • 14625

                  #9
                  Some of the best things in my life happened after I said fuck it and went back into a deal or relationship where I felt wronged.

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                  • sortie
                    Confirmed User
                    • Mar 2007
                    • 7771

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Fletch XXX
                    this is called not forgetting, difference between forgetting and forgiving.
                    Exactly!

                    Don't do a drive by on this guy for revenge; but don't forget that this dude stabbed you when you were in highschool when you go to a party 10 years later and see him there drunk off his ass and talking "loudly".

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                    • woj
                      <&(©¿©)&>
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 47880

                      #11
                      Originally posted by sortie
                      Exactly!

                      Don't do a drive by on this guy for revenge; but don't forget that this dude stabbed you when you were in highschool when you go to a party 10 years later and see him there drunk off his ass and talking "loudly".
                      yea, but thread starter isn't talking about getting stabbed or anything substantial... he/she probably didn't get greeted at a grocery store and now is pissed at the guy...
                      Last edited by woj; 03-21-2009, 08:47 AM.
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                      • Marcus Aurelius
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                        • Apr 2003
                        • 14809

                        #12
                        I forgive people close to me. If wronged by a distant relation, not so much..

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                        • sortie
                          Confirmed User
                          • Mar 2007
                          • 7771

                          #13
                          Originally posted by woj
                          yea, but thread starter is talking about getting stabbed or anything substantial... he/she probably didn't get greeted at a grocery store and now is pissed at the guy...


                          OK, I'm on track now.

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                          • JamesK
                            hi
                            • Jun 2002
                            • 16731

                            #14
                            I never forget but I do forgive if the person really shows regret. Ofcourse it also depends on what he/she did to me.
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                            • fujiko
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jan 2008
                              • 566

                              #15
                              learn to forgive.. u need to learn this bud
                              .

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                              • romeo22
                                你自己去他媽的
                                • Mar 2008
                                • 23328

                                #16
                                I forgive for sure Im very soft about it ....I have good moral and like to bring positive energy

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                                • 420
                                  cuck
                                  • Mar 2003
                                  • 11571

                                  #17
                                  I can't remember what day it is.
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                                  • WarChild
                                    Let slip the dogs of war.
                                    • Jan 2003
                                    • 17263

                                    #18
                                    Get some help from a certified mental health expert.
                                    .

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                                    • Reak AGV
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Dec 2004
                                      • 4283

                                      #19
                                      Yes, I forgive people easily.

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                                      • halfpint
                                        GFY's Halfpint
                                        • Jun 2007
                                        • 15223

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by WarChild
                                        Get some help from a certified mental health expert.


                                        I forgive you my child

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                                        • bausch
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Jul 2006
                                          • 3017

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by WarChild
                                          Get some help from a certified mental health expert.
                                          I will have to put you on my ignore list from now on.

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                                          • WarChild
                                            Let slip the dogs of war.
                                            • Jan 2003
                                            • 17263

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                            I will have to put you on my ignore list from now on.
                                            I'm serious. You seem to have some real issues and I think you'd find your own life a lot more enjoyable if you could work through some of them.

                                            It seems like you come to GFY to probe and question about social ethics and other related ideas. What you maybe don't understand is this place is full of social misfits and there's no way you can get a fair and balanced sense of reality by including GFY in your small sample set.

                                            I'm not trying to be mean to you, I'm trying to help you.
                                            .

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                                            • bausch
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Jul 2006
                                              • 3017

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by sortie
                                              Exactly!

                                              Don't do a drive by on this guy for revenge; but don't forget that this dude stabbed you when you were in highschool when you go to a party 10 years later and see him there drunk off his ass and talking "loudly".
                                              I'm talking about a situation NOT as serious as someone trying to stab and kill you, but not as minor as someone not saying "hi" to you but more middle of the road type things...

                                              Such as perhaps something someone my have said to you that offended you or pissed you off or arguments with others etc Things of that nature. Maybe someone may have insulted you etc
                                              Last edited by bausch; 03-21-2009, 05:02 PM.

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                                              • Hank_Heartland
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Sep 2002
                                                • 3987

                                                #24
                                                Fuck no!!! Never forgive...Never Forget...let the mofos eat dirt
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                                                • Killswitch - BANNED FOR LIFE

                                                  #25
                                                  Dwelling on the past won't let you move forward.

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                                                  • Nicky
                                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                    • Mar 2003
                                                    • 30071

                                                    #26
                                                    I'm a very forgiving person.

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                                                    • MetaMan
                                                      I AM WEB 2.0
                                                      • Jan 2003
                                                      • 28682

                                                      #27
                                                      Life is short who gives a fuck, what are you some kind of faggot who thinks he is perfect?

                                                      you are probably from the netherlands. (everyone from the netherlands is a loser)

                                                      go put on some clogs and walk through the gay district.

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                                                      • Spunky
                                                        I need a beer
                                                        • Jun 2002
                                                        • 133978

                                                        #28
                                                        I never forget,but time heals everything

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                                                        • baddog
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Apr 2001
                                                          • 107089

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by bausch
                                                          That's true, I don't forget but I also don't forgive. I added a poll btw.
                                                          Then you are a tool . . . . but we already knew that.

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                                                          • baddog
                                                            So Fucking Banned
                                                            • Apr 2001
                                                            • 107089

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by bausch
                                                            I will have to put you on my ignore list from now on.
                                                            How will he ever survive?

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                                                            • STAROTICA
                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                              • Aug 2004
                                                              • 1079

                                                              #31
                                                              i dont forget shit.....i will come back at ya.....American History X style....

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                                                              • Cyber Fucker
                                                                Hmm
                                                                • Sep 2005
                                                                • 12642

                                                                #32
                                                                sometimes

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                                                                • Cyber Fucker
                                                                  Hmm
                                                                  • Sep 2005
                                                                  • 12642

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by STAROTICA
                                                                  i dont forget shit.....i will come back at ya.....American History X style....
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                                                                  • bausch
                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                    • Jul 2006
                                                                    • 3017

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Baddog, you need to stay out of all my threads. I have you on ignore permanently and have no interest in what you have to say, I do not want to associate with you, I want nothing to do with you, I do not care about your opinion. It is irrelevant to me.

                                                                    Leave me alone and do not respond to my topics. They are not meant for you. Mind your own business. Leave me alone and stop stalking me.

                                                                    There is no need in responding to my threads because I will not read your posts. You are irrelevant to me.
                                                                    Last edited by bausch; 03-21-2009, 06:40 PM.

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                                                                    • master_design
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Aug 2006
                                                                      • 772

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Being a forgiving person is good, but it's also good to learn from that mistakes they do also

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                                                                      • bausch
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • Jul 2006
                                                                        • 3017

                                                                        #36
                                                                        In case you didnt get it the first time:

                                                                        Baddog, you need to stay out of all my threads. I have you on ignore permanently and have no interest in what you have to say, I do not want to associate with you, I want nothing to do with you, I do not care about your opinion. It is irrelevant to me.

                                                                        Leave me alone and do not respond to my topics. They are not meant for you. Mind your own business. Leave me alone and stop stalking me.

                                                                        There is no need in responding to my threads because I will not read your posts. You are irrelevant to me.

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                                                                        • baddog
                                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                                          • Apr 2001
                                                                          • 107089

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by bausch
                                                                          Baddog, you need to stay out of all my threads. I have you on ignore permanently and have no interest in what you have to say, I do not want to associate with you, I want nothing to do with you, I do not care about your opinion. It is irrelevant to me.

                                                                          Leave me alone and do not respond to my topics. They are not meant for you. Mind your own business. Leave me alone and stop stalking me.

                                                                          There is no need in responding to my threads because I will not read your posts. You are irrelevant to me.
                                                                          The day I start listening to some psycho bitch is the day I have myself put down. Go fuck yourself.

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                                                                          • WarChild
                                                                            Let slip the dogs of war.
                                                                            • Jan 2003
                                                                            • 17263

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Seriously though bausch. Have you ever spoken to somebody besides a friend or family member about some of the issues you post about here? I think you'll find there's much more capable people to help you develop social skills than GFY members.

                                                                            There is a group of people on the Internet who will help you out for free if you'd rather. You can find their support board here http://img.4chan.org/b/imgboard.html . Just go post your questions there and you'll get all the love and support you desire.

                                                                            You're welcome in advance.
                                                                            .

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                                                                            • baddog
                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                                              • 107089

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by WarChild
                                                                              Seriously though bausch. Have you ever spoken to somebody besides a friend or family member about some of the issues you post about here? I think you'll find there's much more capable people to help you develop social skills than GFY members.

                                                                              There is a group of people on the Internet who will help you out for free if you'd rather. You can find their support board here http://img.4chan.org/b/imgboard.html . Just go post your questions there and you'll get all the love and support you desire.

                                                                              You're welcome in advance.
                                                                              I think you are on ignore. I am thinking of starting a support group to deal with the rejection if you would like to sign up.

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                                                                              • WarChild
                                                                                Let slip the dogs of war.
                                                                                • Jan 2003
                                                                                • 17263

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by baddog
                                                                                I think you are on ignore. I am thinking of starting a support group to deal with the rejection if you would like to sign up.
                                                                                I'm afraid I also missed the bonus question in the other thread and misspelled 'bestiality'. Can I still be in the support group? I'll bring coffee. It'll work if we work it.
                                                                                .

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                                                                                • baddog
                                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                                  • Apr 2001
                                                                                  • 107089

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by WarChild
                                                                                  I'm afraid I also missed the bonus question in the other thread and misspelled 'bestiality'. Can I still be in the support group? I'll bring coffee. It'll work if we work it.
                                                                                  You have to start somewhere.

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                                                                                  • John-ACWM
                                                                                    Work Work Work
                                                                                    • Nov 2008
                                                                                    • 20060

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Sure I forgive.Only members of my family.

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                                                                                    • Calico Jack
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                                                      • 2051

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I am rarely forgiving, and with good reason.

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