It's only hurtful to a person who finds out they're a polygamist by accident. That person will always be a girl, because isn't that always the arrangement? Always a guy and a bunch of women, because there is no guy on earth who wants to share a woman.
Maybe I'm oversimplifying this, but any guy would love an arrangement where he gets to fuck multiple women on a rotating basis, but the reason why it ultimately sucks boils down to a simple equation:
5 times the pussy = 5 times the bills + 5 times the kids + 5 times the bullshit
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