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  • RRRED
    Confirmed User
    • Jan 2001
    • 6754

    #1

    My first Christmas eve alone in 36 years

    Who else might be spending Christmas alone?

    Given my situation, one might think I'd be surrounded by support, etc etc but nope. I just said goodbye to my daughter so she could be with her dad tonight. I'm supposed to go back home tomorrow to be with my folks and bring her back with me. But the friggin roads are sheets of ice and I'm out in the mountains. It doesn't look like my car is moving.

    Anyone got ideas on what to do before I go stir crazy? I don't have cable but I thought about getting netflix or some shit while I guzzle all the wine I can.

    Who else will be alone this year? Let's see hands!
  • baddog
    So Fucking Banned
    • Apr 2001
    • 107089

    #2
    I am alone unless you count my dog and the trickle of support tickets.

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    • GrouchyAdmin
      Now choke yourself!
      • Apr 2006
      • 12085

      #3
      RRRED,

      As much of an asshole as I act on the board, my heart goes out to you. If you were anywhere near me, rest assured, you'd have a place to hang out - with a grumpy old fart/nerd.

      Netflix takes a little while; I always keep DVDs for background noise. I usually check out 'dealmein', a site run by a guy I know, and pick up $5/$6 DVDs just for that occasion.

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      • stickyfingerz
        Doin fine
        • Oct 2005
        • 24984

        #4
        Just me and the doggy this year. Maybe we should do a group skype call tonight or tomorrow for anyone that isn't going to be with family this year.

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        • RRRED
          Confirmed User
          • Jan 2001
          • 6754

          #5
          Originally posted by baddog
          I am alone unless you count my dog and the trickle of support tickets.
          Right on... so what are your plans for tonight? Just kick it just like any other day?

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          • Spunky
            I need a beer
            • Jun 2002
            • 133978

            #6
            Me and my cat and a dozen beers .God bless us everyone

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            • Si
              Such Fun!
              • Feb 2008
              • 13900

              #7
              No matter who you spend xmas you should always enjoy yourself.

              Have a good one no matter what happens!

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              • Bryan G
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                • Aug 2005
                • 8338

                #8
                All the best RRRed

                Not sure if you remember me or not
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                • fuzebox
                  making it rain
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 22367

                  #9
                  I've spent quite a few christmas eves alone... It's relaxing, I usually watch tv and sip something expensive. Nice to chill before the storm that is christmas day.

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                  • RRRED
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jan 2001
                    • 6754

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Platinum Bryan
                    All the best RRRed

                    Not sure if you remember me or not
                    Are you fucking kidding me? Head bangin while I was a pile of grief and nightmare to that 80s band while they were playin sweet child of mine.... That was one of the best times I had in my life I swear. I used to think you were a dick (pardon the honesty) till I met you in person. I want to definitely hang out again when we can see each other again. I love dave and he really backs you up and believes in you and I can attest for the same.

                    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6EV5...e=channel_page

                    Hehe here's to that song...

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                    • RRRED
                      Confirmed User
                      • Jan 2001
                      • 6754

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Platinum Bryan
                      All the best RRRed

                      Not sure if you remember me or not
                      I just wish I could teeter totter you in the air by plumping my ass on the other edge of the bed again... priceless moments

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                      • Bryan G
                        Confirmed User
                        • Aug 2005
                        • 8338

                        #12
                        Originally posted by RRRED
                        Are you fucking kidding me? Head bangin while I was a pile of grief and nightmare to that 80s band while they were playin sweet child of mine.... That was one of the best times I had in my life I swear. I used to think you were a dick (pardon the honesty) till I met you in person. I want to definitely hang out again when we can see each other again. I love dave and he really backs you up and believes in you and I can attest for the same.

                        http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6EV5...e=channel_page

                        Hehe here's to that song...
                        Merry Christmas Hun,

                        Yes I remember the night well Hope to see you soon!

                        All the best for 2009
                        Bryan
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                        • baddog
                          So Fucking Banned
                          • Apr 2001
                          • 107089

                          #13
                          Originally posted by RRRED
                          Right on... so what are your plans for tonight? Just kick it just like any other day?
                          Trying to find an open co-op. Otherwise, start a fire and watch some TV.

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                          • d-null
                            . . .
                            • Apr 2007
                            • 13724

                            #14
                            it's all in your perspective

                            I have 10 different windows open at the same time and if anyone was actually here at the moment they would only be getting on my nerves


                            it's just another day, and with the internet there is unlimited things you can do and learn, there are not enough hours in the day

                            cheer up, get busy with something, don't dwell on making yourself miserable for no good reason

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                            • baddog
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                              • Apr 2001
                              • 107089

                              #15
                              Originally posted by RRRED
                              Are you fucking kidding me? Head bangin while I was a pile of grief and nightmare to that 80s band while they were playin sweet child of mine.... That was one of the best times I had in my life I swear. I used to think you were a dick (pardon the honesty) till I met you in person. I want to definitely hang out again when we can see each other again. I love dave and he really backs you up and believes in you and I can attest for the same.

                              http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6EV5...e=channel_page

                              Hehe here's to that song...
                              That's funny. I just got back home and that was the song playing in my car when I pulled into driveway.

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                              • Blazed
                                Confirmed User
                                • Jun 2006
                                • 1701

                                #16
                                I got all the family around but wish i was in your shoes, luckily there are a million christmas parties to head to later tonight.

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                                • Grapesoda
                                  So Fucking Banned
                                  • Jul 2003
                                  • 46234

                                  #17
                                  hanging out watching 'intellience'. it's pretty good actually... tomorrow I'll head with my camera and see what there is to shoot....

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                                  • miss_twisted
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Apr 2005
                                    • 425

                                    #18
                                    Hangin' out alone sipping a cocktail and watching movies here...

                                    Merry Christmas everyone!

                                    PS I bought my 17 yr old that CD for Christmas...lol
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                                    • Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE
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                                      • Jan 2004
                                      • 16502

                                      #19
                                      Sitting here, coding... Luckly my girlfriends bother wanted to stay the night, otherwise it would just be me and my pitbull.

                                      I think I may go play some Halo 3 with him, he's been down in the basement on the other computer while I slept/coded.

                                      Girlfriend is in Michigan with her dad, won't be back until Monday, I miss her dearly, and it kind of sucks being alone on Christmas :S

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                                      • JamesK
                                        hi
                                        • Jun 2002
                                        • 16731

                                        #20
                                        It could be worse. I'm also alone, but I still got work to do
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                                        • tony299
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                                          • Aug 2002
                                          • 57021

                                          #21
                                          we went to my aunts house it was nice but its my first xmas without my dad I miss him so much.

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                                          • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                            • Jul 2004
                                            • 38323

                                            #22
                                            My best advice is to plan ahead...

                                            Make plans to have dinner or hang out with other friends, go out to/rent a movie, bundle up and read a good book, or volunteer at a Food Kitchen (I'm not alone, however I do this every Thanksgiving and Xmas to help others and remind myself about all I have to be thankful for).

                                            The main thing is to remember that you are loved (by your daughter and others), and have many friends (in and outside the biz) who respect you and appreciate your friendship.

                                            I wish you happy holidays and a prosperous 2009.

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                                            • Barefootsies
                                              Choice is an Illusion
                                              • Feb 2005
                                              • 42635

                                              #23
                                              Pretty much alone here.

                                              I will be getting a siamese shortly to help keep me company in this big house. But I may get over to the sister's for some dinner. But beyond that, it's just me and work.

                                              Normally I do not mind it, but this year it bothers me a bit more. I could have went with the gf to her family's, but I passed on dat shit. So just me, alone, in the dark with my hand, and picture of da Zing.

                                              Last edited by Barefootsies; 12-24-2008, 08:42 PM.
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                                              • RRRED
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                                                • Jan 2001
                                                • 6754

                                                #24
                                                It's funny since this thread, I've heard "child of mind" 3 times and my lightbulds are going bonders. I also swore I smelled pancakes, the one thing Taylor would cook for me... Things that make you wonder if you are really alone or not.

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                                                • corvette
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                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                  • 7880

                                                  #25
                                                  your not alone girl, im here with you ;) in sunny AZ
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                                                  • 2012
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                                                    • Jul 2006
                                                    • 17189

                                                    #26
                                                    just me and the rest of the muppets
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                                                    • stickyfingerz
                                                      Doin fine
                                                      • Oct 2005
                                                      • 24984

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by Barefootsies
                                                      Pretty much alone here.

                                                      I will be getting a siamese shortly to help keep me company in this big house. But I may get over to the sister's for some dinner. But beyond that, it's just me and work.

                                                      Normally I do not mind it, but this year it bothers me a bit more. I could have went with the gf to her family's, but I passed on dat shit. So just me, alone, in the dark with my hand, and picture of da Zing.

                                                      Well at least Im bringing someone pleasure tonight.

                                                      Heading to Boxers house tomorrow for some turkey and friends coming over.

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                                                      • JaneB

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by tony404
                                                        we went to my aunts house it was nice but its my first xmas without my dad I miss him so much.

                                                        I am sorry about your dad Tony. I am sure that he is with you and watching over you.

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                                                        • bausch
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Jul 2006
                                                          • 3017

                                                          #29
                                                          I have spent almost every xmas alone since I was 18... It's just like any other day. Christmas is nothing special, it is only special to people who care to think its special. I eat, work, watch tv, and sleep, like any other day.
                                                          Why should it be different just because it's Christmas? Even better if I don't have to exchange presents and celebrate. Less stress and more $ for me.
                                                          Last edited by bausch; 12-24-2008, 09:06 PM.

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                                                          • tony299
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                                                            • Aug 2002
                                                            • 57021

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by JaneB
                                                            I am sorry about your dad Tony. I am sure that he is with you and watching over you.
                                                            you are so sweet,it will get better Im told its just so new it comes in waves. it sucks

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                                                            • 2012
                                                              So Fucking What
                                                              • Jul 2006
                                                              • 17189

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by Barefootsies
                                                              So just me, alone, in the dark with my hand, and picture of da Zing.
                                                              I think we have a love connection . So what's stickyfingerz pet name for you ?
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                                                              • corvette
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                                                                • Oct 2001
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                                                                #32
                                                                yea tony, we are here for you man
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by tony404
                                                                  we went to my aunts house it was nice but its my first xmas without my dad I miss him so much.
                                                                  The shit sucks, this is my 3rd year Christmas without my dad, and I agree, I miss him more than anything also.

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                                                                  • Barefootsies
                                                                    Choice is an Illusion
                                                                    • Feb 2005
                                                                    • 42635

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by fartfly
                                                                    I think we have a love connection . So what's stickyfingerz pet name for you ?
                                                                    He calls me fartfly.

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                                                                    • SmutGiant
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                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                      • 4896

                                                                      #35
                                                                      thought i'd be alone tonight, but my landlord/roommate came home early from a family dinner and is playing playstation in the background...

                                                                      family's back home in Canada and I'm in Panama this year...

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                                                                      • WiredGuy
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                                                                        • Aug 2002
                                                                        • 34516

                                                                        #36
                                                                        This is actually the first xmas I spend with my parents in about 3 years. I spent the first 2 hours of the day shovelling, followed by 5 hours cooking a feast for them and after the typical bitter fighting, they went to bed. Being alone isn't so bad ;)
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                                                                        • uno
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          I feel where you're coming from and its a shitty place. I actually wish I spent christmas alone.
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                                                                          • CDSmith
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                                                                            • May 2001
                                                                            • 51460

                                                                            #38
                                                                            I'm alone until tomorrow when I'll be driving across town to go stay at my folks for a few days. To beat the alones I play some banging tunes, I cook, have a feast, pour some wine or a few killer drinks, play some computer games, watch a few movies later, and lastly, finish wrapping any presents... which always get wrapped badly due to the amount of booze consumed.

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                                                                            • Pornwolf
                                                                              Drunk and Unruly
                                                                              • Jan 2002
                                                                              • 22712

                                                                              #39
                                                                              I'm in the alone club also.

                                                                              I bought my folks tickets to spend X-mas here in LA but now they are stuck in Chicago due to the weather.

                                                                              My mom has to work on Friday so it was only going to be a one day trip for her, now she may not be able to make it at all.

                                                                              This kinda sucks.

                                                                              And to make things worse, I am in a new place with no TV because my brand shiny new one was defective so I had to have a replacement sent which that probably won't get here until the new year.

                                                                              Alone with TV during the holidays is bearable. Alone with no TV... eh, not so much.
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                                                                              • slapass
                                                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                • Nov 2002
                                                                                • 14625

                                                                                #40
                                                                                I am alone tonight but I have gotten used to it and sort of like it. No one expects anything out of you tonight. No need to call or be called etc. It is truly alone time which is fine as long as it ends tomorrow hehe.

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                                                                                • Pornwolf
                                                                                  Drunk and Unruly
                                                                                  • Jan 2002
                                                                                  • 22712

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                                                  This is actually the first xmas I spend with my parents in about 3 years. I spent the first 2 hours of the day shovelling, followed by 5 hours cooking a feast for them and after the typical bitter fighting, they went to bed. Being alone isn't so bad ;)
                                                                                  WG
                                                                                  Ugh. I bet you feel like you are 15 again don't you? Haha
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                                                                                  • JaneB

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by tony404
                                                                                    you are so sweet,it will get better Im told its just so new it comes in waves. it sucks

                                                                                    I hope it gets better for you. My younger sister died in 2001 and I still cry every holiday because I miss her. It does suck. Death sucks.

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                                                                                    • fuzebox
                                                                                      making it rain
                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                      • 22367

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I just lost a few hundred at poker I wish I had stayed in my room alone and watched christmas specials

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                                                                                      • 2012
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                                                                                        • Jul 2006
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                                                                                        #44
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                                                                                        • Pornopat
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                                                                                          • Dec 2003
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                                                          This is actually the first xmas I spend with my parents in about 3 years. I spent the first 2 hours of the day shovelling, followed by 5 hours cooking a feast for them and after the typical bitter fighting, they went to bed. Being alone isn't so bad ;)
                                                                                          WG
                                                                                          Same here. First time in 3 years. I hope they wont be fighting.
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                                                                                          • JamesK
                                                                                            hi
                                                                                            • Jun 2002
                                                                                            • 16731

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by Barefootsies
                                                                                            I will be getting a siamese shortly
                                                                                            Good choice, love those cats
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                                                                                            • hjnet
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                                                                                              • May 2002
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by RRRED
                                                                                              ....while I guzzle all the wine I can.
                                                                                              Alcohol only makes it worse, my

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                                                                                              • RRRED
                                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                                • Jan 2001
                                                                                                • 6754

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by hjnet
                                                                                                Alcohol only makes it worse, my
                                                                                                And it did.... my aching head uuuuugh!

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                                                                                                • munki
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                                                                                                  • Dec 2004
                                                                                                  • 13393

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by baddog
                                                                                                  Trying to find an open co-op. Otherwise, start a fire and watch some TV.
                                                                                                  Come down to OC later... Johnny's is a Christmas tradition for us after the family gigs are wrapped up...

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                                                                                                  • ContentSHOOTER
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                                                                                                    • Dec 2005
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    First time year for me in six years, you know I don't even miss the "BITCH" she was just too stupid to realize how good she had it, my Have a great Holiday Season RRRED. Go out and enjoy the Oregon Sunshine
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