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  • Sarah_Jayne
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    • Dec 2002
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    Anybody know what it means to be 'sexually broken'?

    Facebook is a weird thing. I just had a friend from high school add me as a friend. When I knew him he was very much identifying himself as bisexual. Frankly, he had a really hard time in school because he was dating another of my male friends at the time. He was a really nice guy in school. So, I go to visit his profile and find he is now married with kids and working in a church type thing as youth ministry. Hey, whatever gets you through the night. I see him posting nice and not 'creepy church guy' things on the pages of our mutual friends that we both know to be gay. I am honestly glad for him if he finally found what makes him happy. However, when I go to the profile it says his group works to 'bridge the gap between the Church and the sexually broken.'

    What is sexually broken? Gay? Perhaps abused at some point (he might have been as a kid..their was that maybe vibe about him). I don't want to insult him by asking (and as importantly, I don't want to get drawn into a church recruitment talk) but it feels like a really weird term.
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    • Twistys Tim
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            • Sarah_Jayne
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              • Dec 2002
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              #4
              Originally posted by Twistys Tim
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                • Rochard
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                  • Dec 2001
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                  Seems to me like his sexuality was way too much for him to handle, and instead of getting a grip on it he lost control of it all.

                  I don't understand why people deny they are gay. Is still considered a bad thing?
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                    • Agent 488
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                      • Feb 2006
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                      #6
                      current christian term for gay:

                      http://www.cbn.com/700club/guests/bi...ey_082504.aspx

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                        • CaptainHowdy
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                          • Dec 2004
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                          #7
                          Originally posted by budsbabes
                          current christian term for gay:

                          http://www.cbn.com/700club/guests/bi...ey_082504.aspx
                          You beated me to it ...

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                            • Sarah_Jayne
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                              • Dec 2002
                              • 40077
                              #8
                              Originally posted by Rochard
                              Seems to me like his sexuality was way too much for him to handle, and instead of getting a grip on it he lost control of it all.

                              I don't understand why people deny they are gay. Is still considered a bad thing?
                              Not on my planet and it didn't used to be on his. Ugh.

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                                • Sarah_Jayne
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                                  • Dec 2002
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                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by budsbabes
                                  current christian term for gay:

                                  http://www.cbn.com/700club/guests/bi...ey_082504.aspx
                                  What a stupid term. If you believe in god why would you think he created something broken?

                                  Perhaps I should comment on his wall that I am praying for him to free himself from the cult.

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                                    • Imortyl Pussycat
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                                      • Apr 2006
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                                      #10
                                      interesting but sad sarah. i have no idea what the term means and probably varies person to person. i will def. be checking back to see if anyone has an answer for you.
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                                        • Sarah_Jayne
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                                          • Dec 2002
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                                          #11
                                          Originally posted by Imortyl Pussycat
                                          interesting but sad sarah. i have no idea what the term means and probably varies person to person. i will def. be checking back to see if anyone has an answer for you.
                                          Yes, sad. From what I have seen from looking around it pretty much means gay.

                                          *shakes head*

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                                            • Trixxxia
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                                              • Aug 2004
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                                              #12
                                              Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                              What a stupid term. If you believe in god why would you think he created something broken?

                                              Perhaps I should comment on his wall that I am praying for him to free himself from the cult.

                                              I maybe wouldn't 'comment' on his wall unless you want a backlash of bible thumpers on your facebook? heheheh

                                              But I would ask him for clarification on what exactly 'sexually broken' means - because it insinuates that their almighty saviour had some imperfection in his work.

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                                                • Cyndalie
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                                                  • Jan 2002
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                                                  #13
                                                  It could mean that you were given sexual perfection and broke it by twisting and following 'warped ways' and 'deviant ideals' or whatever. Your sexuality became broken when tainted with impurities and doubt, and they aim to heal it.

                                                  I don't know. lol
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                                                    • Grapesoda
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                                                      • Jul 2003
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                                                      #14
                                                      Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                                      his group works to 'bridge the gap between the Church and the sexually broken.'
                                                      those are people that can be manipulated and exploited by the church... like any religion the church creates new lexicons to work with, "saved, reborn" etc..

                                                      so now this church as created 'sexually broken'. anyone that agrees with this term, then applies it to themselves is now pre-qualified for what ever game the church needs to run on their head.

                                                      why would you even waste time wondering what some boob at a church is up to?

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                                                        • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                          • Dec 2002
                                                          • 40077
                                                          #15
                                                          Originally posted by Trixxxia
                                                          I maybe wouldn't 'comment' on his wall unless you want a backlash of bible thumpers on your facebook? heheheh

                                                          But I would ask him for clarification on what exactly 'sexually broken' means - because it insinuates that their almighty saviour had some imperfection in his work.
                                                          Yeah, I wouldn't go 'wall' with it. Not even sure I want to approach it with him now, really.

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                                                            • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                              • Dec 2002
                                                              • 40077
                                                              #16
                                                              Originally posted by bm bradley
                                                              those are people that can be manipulated and exploited by the church... like any religion the church creates new lexicons to work with, "saved, reborn" etc..

                                                              so now this church as created 'sexually broken'. anyone that agrees with this term, then applies it to themselves is now pre-qualified for what ever game the church needs to run on their head.

                                                              why would you even waste time wondering what some boob at a church is up to?
                                                              Simply because that boob used to be a really good friend. Just shows you a lot can happen in a decade if you don't see somebody in that period.

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                                                                • John-ACWM
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                                                                    • Grapesoda
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                                                                      • Jul 2003
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                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                                                      Simply because that boob used to be a really good friend. Just shows you a lot can happen in a decade if you don't see somebody in that period.
                                                                      very true, however I'm sure the seeds of discontent' were there 10 years ago

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                                                                        • Iron Fist
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                                                                          • Dec 2006
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                                                                          Originally posted by Twistys Tim
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                                                                            • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                                              • Dec 2002
                                                                              • 40077
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by bm bradley
                                                                              very true, however I'm sure the seeds of discontent' were there 10 years ago
                                                                              Probably..I remember his step-dad wanting to throw him out when he heard he was in a gay relationship. He was ripe pickings for the guilt police.

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                                                                                • Vicious_B
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                                                                                  • May 2008
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                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                                                                  Yes, sad. From what I have seen from looking around it pretty much means gay.

                                                                                  *shakes head*
                                                                                  Most religious organizations that view homosexuality as a "sin" also believe that it is a choice. God gave us free will so by "choosing" to be gay they are "choosing" to go against gods will. I watched some documentary about churches that claim that they can "cure" gayness and in all the one they showed the common theme was that they werent gay because they were born that way, they were confused by society, recovering from abuse, had self hate issues ect. In other words broken. Im not suprised thats a term being used. Its sad that organizations based on the bible always seem to ignore one of the most fundemental teachings of the bible. It is not our place to sit in judgement of one another but our job to love each other.
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                                                                                    • Grapesoda
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                                                                                      • Jul 2003
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                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                                                                      Probably..I remember his step-dad wanting to throw him out when he heard he was in a gay relationship. He was ripe pickings for the guilt police.
                                                                                      sexual conduct is the key area religions and cults focus on to gain access to a persons psyche. it's our strongest leverage, and the easiest to manipulate.

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                                                                                        • Grapesoda
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                                                                                          Originally posted by 12clicksMichele
                                                                                          Most religious organizations that view homosexuality as a "sin" also believe that it is a choice. God gave us free will so by "choosing" to be gay they are "choosing" to go against gods will. I watched some documentary about churches that claim that they can "cure" gayness and in all the one they showed the common theme was that they werent gay because they were born that way, they were confused by society, recovering from abuse, had self hate issues ect. In other words broken. Im not suprised thats a term being used. Its sad that organizations based on the bible always seem to ignore one of the most fundemental teachings of the bible. It is not our place to sit in judgement of one another but our job to love each other.

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                                                                                            • GAMMA303
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                                                                                              That term is fuckin wack.
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                                                                                                • Kudles
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                                                                                                    • NicAngel
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                                                                                                      sounds like some people, religions, etc. are still in denial.
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                                                                                                        • Trixie
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                                                                                                          Good luck; that sounds depressing to find out a friend who was open-minded decided or got fucked-in-the-head enough to narrow his views so much. Maybe if he's still young there's hope for him to get on an even keel someday.
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                                                                                                            • Vicious_B
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                                                                                                              Originally posted by Trixie
                                                                                                              Good luck; that sounds depressing to find out a friend who was open-minded decided or got fucked-in-the-head enough to narrow his views so much. Maybe if he's still young there's hope for him to get on an even keel someday.
                                                                                                              Sounds like he wasnt open minded to begin with. He may have admitted his sexuality to himself but he obviously didnt want to accept it. The documentary I spoke of almost all of the participants in the "sexual rehab" had lived openly gay lives before deciding that god could "cure" them.
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                                                                                                                • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                                                                                  • Dec 2002
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                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Trixie
                                                                                                                  Good luck; that sounds depressing to find out a friend who was open-minded decided or got fucked-in-the-head enough to narrow his views so much. Maybe if he's still young there's hope for him to get on an even keel someday.
                                                                                                                  He is 31..year younger than me. He has always been a bit peer pressure prone (but then in high school so are a lot of people). So, I guess if the peers around him were all church people it would be easy to fall one way or the other. Oh, well, one day I hope he learns not to hate who is he and it doesn't all eat away at him inside while he has a 'godly' outside. He has like 3 kids now according to that profile so I hope they don't have a fallout down the line if he ever falls away from the church.

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                                                                                                                    • Sarah_Jayne
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                                                                                                                      • Dec 2002
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                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Originally posted by 12clicksMichele
                                                                                                                      Sounds like he wasnt open minded to begin with. He may have admitted his sexuality to himself but he obviously didnt want to accept it. The documentary I spoke of almost all of the participants in the "sexual rehab" had lived openly gay lives before deciding that god could "cure" them.
                                                                                                                      I have known about the church guys that claim to have been cured from being gay. I almost see them as victims of the church.

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                                                                                                                          It's this

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                                                                                                                            • Vicious_B
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                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by Sarah_MaxCash
                                                                                                                              I have known about the church guys that claim to have been cured from being gay. I almost see them as victims of the church.
                                                                                                                              I think anyone would agree that accepting yourself and not living in denial is the better thing but one could look at it if someone is so uncomfortable and unhappy with themselves that maybe "living a lie" is what actually makes them happier. I dont agree with that but if thats what gives him peace inside then maybe it is the better choice for himself.
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                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Twistys Tim
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                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by Twistys Tim
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                                                                                                                                          don't have any idea but I think It has something to do with Identity Crisis.
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                                                                                                                                            • Trixie
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                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by 12clicksMichele
                                                                                                                                              I think anyone would agree that accepting yourself and not living in denial is the better thing but one could look at it if someone is so uncomfortable and unhappy with themselves that maybe "living a lie" is what actually makes them happier. I dont agree with that but if thats what gives him peace inside then maybe it is the better choice for himself.
                                                                                                                                              If the guy is really bi it probably makes it easier for him to live straight . . . and to believe the bullshit the church rains down on him that it's a choice, etc. (for people like him who are bi, the way he lives probably *is* mostly a matter of choice). He might feel pretty okay with giving up the cock for awhile in exchange for feeling accepted by the church and getting to feel superior to others.
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                                                                                                                                                • Vicious_B
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                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by Trixie
                                                                                                                                                  If the guy is really bi it probably makes it easier for him to live straight . . . and to believe the bullshit the church rains down on him that it's a choice, etc. (for people like him who are bi, the way he lives probably *is* mostly a matter of choice). He might feel pretty okay with giving up the cock for awhile in exchange for feeling accepted by the church and getting to feel superior to others.
                                                                                                                                                  Maybe being accepted is what the motivating factor, especially by their family
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