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Originally Posted by Bladewire
Nobody can really help with you being so cryptic. Spill the beans Martha!
Generally speaking separate your friend from his current scenario to spend a few hours on an excursion. Get him out of his normal environment and pattern. Have a few drinks, maybe smoke a joint, and tell him your concern ;)
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Confidentiality and all that - Remember that I was a nurse in a previous life - It comes naturally to protect 'the patient' and not give away to much info when asking 'hypotheticals' like this...
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Originally Posted by Colmike7
When you approach the situation, make it calm and seem like you're on his side and trying to help. Some people go about situations like this too aggressively and makes the other person feel like they're being yelled at or in trouble and makes things worse..
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I am generally a fairly calm person in this sort of situation - Again it comes from my background - I can lose it, but only when people deserve it.....