alright, so I got this male 'friend' who ive known for 2 years. About 8 months ago, we started hanging out like 5 hours a day, everyday, going to clubs, movies, just hanging out all the time(no, were not gay). he was really cool.
But I noticed everytime we were around other people like at parties and shit, he would always buddy up to them, but then when they were gone, he would talk so much shit about them. There was not a person he would not spare, and he would usually do it in front of other people...So I figured he is doing it for attention(which he was)
So since about 2 months ago, Ive totally stopped hanging out with him, and he has been calling me once a week since, and ive never returned his call or anything. Well, he called yesterday, and I accidentally picked up the phone and he said he and his girl are gonna get married soon, and that i should come to the wedding...but i was not acting too intereted in the conversation, and so he said something like 'whats up man, you never return my calls, we dont hang out.."
He kept pushing the issue, and so I told him I didnt like the fact that he was two faced and always talked shit, and acted like he was better then everyone else...after a long conversaion bout that, he said he realises all these things, and will "make a commitment to change" and he wants to be friends again and hang out.
I really dont wanna hang out with him, but this guy will just not go away...but at the same time, i feel bad for him, cause he said "he'll change"...I just don't know what the fuck to do...hehe...anyone had a situation like this?
But I noticed everytime we were around other people like at parties and shit, he would always buddy up to them, but then when they were gone, he would talk so much shit about them. There was not a person he would not spare, and he would usually do it in front of other people...So I figured he is doing it for attention(which he was)
So since about 2 months ago, Ive totally stopped hanging out with him, and he has been calling me once a week since, and ive never returned his call or anything. Well, he called yesterday, and I accidentally picked up the phone and he said he and his girl are gonna get married soon, and that i should come to the wedding...but i was not acting too intereted in the conversation, and so he said something like 'whats up man, you never return my calls, we dont hang out.."
He kept pushing the issue, and so I told him I didnt like the fact that he was two faced and always talked shit, and acted like he was better then everyone else...after a long conversaion bout that, he said he realises all these things, and will "make a commitment to change" and he wants to be friends again and hang out.
I really dont wanna hang out with him, but this guy will just not go away...but at the same time, i feel bad for him, cause he said "he'll change"...I just don't know what the fuck to do...hehe...anyone had a situation like this?
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