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  • Barefootsies
    Choice is an Illusion
    • Feb 2005
    • 42635

    #1

    Have Your Ever Lost It All?

    We are headed for some wicked hard times. Some of us are already feeling the sting. Some of you are just getting out of college with a monster load of debt and are going to have a hard time finding a job. Some of you are going to lose your jobs and be out of work for quite a bit of time. Some of you are about to hit rock bottom. Some of you have hit it years ago. Some of you wont hit rock bottom for years to come.

    I hit rock bottom about 8 years ago. I was fired from my job and lived on credit cards for months while trying find another job. After several months of no luck and not being able to make credit card payments, the credit card companies started to close my accounts and send me to debt collectors. I soon was evicted from my apartment after missing payment(s).

    So there I was.. 25 years old, about 50k in debt with a lot of it being super high interest credit card debt spread among about 5 different cards, no job, no place to live and if that wasn?t bad enough I was also super fat.

    Rock bottom. I will tell you its the best thing that ever happen to me. Its when you hit rock bottom that you find yourself and it gives you an amazing education that is priceless. At the time it happens its very painful but if you can fight through it and do the hardwork that needs to be done the rewards will be that much sweeter on the other side.

    A lot of people ask me why I do not have super flashy cars or fly first class? or whatever super luxurious thing other cool people are doing? the answer is pretty simple. I have a hard time wasting money. I remember how much it sucked when I hit rock bottom and I never want to feel like that again. Some people might hear that then look at my h2 and think that is flashy?. guess what? Its a lease and it was practically free because we traded out work with the hummer dealership.

    Hitting rock bottom taught me the value of money. It also taught me to hustle. Most of all it taught me what truly matters in life is family and friends. After all it was my friend George Schaeffer who volunteered his couch for me to sleep on in Des Moines IA. which got me back on my feet and also made me not settle for a 9-5 job. Its also where I met my wife.

    A few years ago when we were killing it in the mobile space we were satisfied with success and not really challenging ourselves? then the mobile industry took a huge hit. We had to come up with something new. Because of the adversity AuctionAds was invented and in 4 short months we went from launch to selling the company.

    This of course put a bunch of green in our pockets and made us pretty happy with our success but it also meant we needed to come up with new revenue streams (or retire). I am not ready to retire yet so we started fighters.com, busted ass on the elite retreat, and started other ventures also.

    Some of the biggest success today came out of the worst dot com crash ever. (highly recommend you read that article). Google being the biggest example.

    Every time I have been hit with adversity it has opened up some amazing oppourtunities. Hang in there.

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    Enough Said.

    "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"
  • Barefootsies
    Choice is an Illusion
    • Feb 2005
    • 42635

    #2
    Should You Email Your Members?

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    Enough Said.

    "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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    • Sosa
      In Tushy Land
      • Oct 2002
      • 40149

      #3
      I read that earlier today. Shoe does have some good points

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      • Barefootsies
        Choice is an Illusion
        • Feb 2005
        • 42635

        #4
        Originally posted by Sosa
        I read that earlier today. Shoe does have some good points
        Yeah. I found it an interesting read as well.

        Eventually, when not stirring the pot or doing self promotion, he has a motivational thought.
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        Enough Said.

        "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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        • Lamis
          So Fucking Banned
          • Sep 2007
          • 961

          #5
          The EMPIRE is going down down...

          Who is guilty?

          Those of you who asked for a 1 million loan and could not pay it. Blame yourself guys.

          I am foreigner.

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          • Barefootsies
            Choice is an Illusion
            • Feb 2005
            • 42635

            #6
            Originally posted by Lamis
            I am foreigner.
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            Enough Said.

            "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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            • ultra100
              Confirmed User
              • Jun 2007
              • 1313

              #7
              Originally posted by Sosa
              I read that earlier today. Shoe does have some good points
              Definitely some good points there.
              Nice article.
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              • Darkland
                Confirmed User
                • May 2002
                • 1488

                #8
                Originally posted by Lamis
                The EMPIRE is going down down...

                Who is guilty?

                Those of you who asked for a 1 million loan and could not pay it. Blame yourself guys.

                I am foreigner.
                Then STFU....




                You don't have a clue


                "The towers are gone now, reduced to bloody rubble, along with all hopes for Peace in Our Time, in the United States or any other country. Make no mistake about it: We are At War now -- with somebody -- and we will stay At War with that mysterious Enemy for the rest of our lives." H.S.T. 09/12/01

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                • halfpint
                  GFY's Halfpint
                  • Jun 2007
                  • 15223

                  #9
                  We lost everything about three years ago. Our house, our car and most of our belonings.
                  I lost a very well paid job and could not get a job that paid the same amount of money. In the end we just could not afford to pay the bills we had coming in. Its a shit situation to get into and very hard to get back on top of things. We had to stay with my brother because we had nowhere to live. I will never go down that road again I dont even have credit cards anymore. I only have debit cards so I can only spend what I have. I will never buy a car on HP again. The current car I now have was bought with cash. The worst part of it was seeing my family with no where to live. The last Chritsmas we had in our old house was the worst Christmas my family has ever had. We had no money to even buy a chistmas dinner for our kids and if it wasent for family and friends who gave us hampers we would have had nothing. I will allways be in debt to those who helped us out and never forget what they did for us. But we have worked hard over the last 2 years and are now getting back to the life style we had before. I just do not buy anything on credit and If I cant afford something I save until I can afford it. You never know whats round the corner and if you are earning a good wage now like I was ..Dont waste it on needles things that you dont really need. I learned the hard way and It taught me to repect what I have and never take anything for granted.

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                  • Lamis
                    So Fucking Banned
                    • Sep 2007
                    • 961

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Darkland
                    Then STFU....




                    You don't have a clue
                    heh, sure dude..

                    I didn't say that, Bernanke and Paulson did.

                    u got owned, heh.

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                    • GrouchyAdmin
                      Now choke yourself!
                      • Apr 2006
                      • 12085

                      #11
                      I've reinvented myself a few times, but always end up back on top - it does take persistence and effort.

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                      • Agent 488
                        Registered User
                        • Feb 2006
                        • 22511

                        #12
                        read that whole thing thinking it was you.

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                        • GetSCORECash
                          Confirmed User
                          • Mar 2008
                          • 5527

                          #13
                          you always need to have a backup plan, that is what I keep in mind at all times.
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                          • RayBonga
                            too cool for highschool
                            • Nov 2005
                            • 12164

                            #14
                            Originally posted by budsbabes
                            read that whole thing thinking it was you.
                            me too

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                            • notime
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jun 2003
                              • 8027

                              #15
                              -Hitting rock bottom taught me the value of money.
                              -Most of all it taught me what truly matters in life is family and friends.
                              -It gives you an amazing education that is priceless.
                              -A lot of people ask me why I do not have super flashy cars or fly first class… or whatever super luxurious thing other cool people are doing… the answer is pretty simple. I have a hard time wasting money. I remember how much it sucked when I hit rock bottom and I never want to feel like that again.

                              Best wise words I ever read on GFY.
                              Respect
                              You know what you are talking about (let me sum it up for readers):
                              -never loose faith or give up
                              -always fight & be positive
                              -adapt or die
                              -never spend more then is wise unless it gains somehow
                              -be prepared to learn no matter what
                              -use money wisely and save for shitty times

                              But you also believe in "the secret" don't you ?

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                              • Mr. Cool Ice
                                Confirmed User
                                • Aug 2006
                                • 1289

                                #16
                                My friends dad has been a millionaire THREE times. Lost it all TWICE, third time is a charm I guess.
                                NUR COOL UND GEIL

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                                • notime
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Jun 2003
                                  • 8027

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Mr. Cool Ice
                                  My friends dad has been a millionaire THREE times. Lost it all TWICE, third time is a charm I guess.
                                  first time was ambition
                                  second time was experience
                                  third time was wisdom
                                  I guess your friend is still a millionaire now ?

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                                  • slapass
                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                    • Nov 2002
                                    • 14625

                                    #18
                                    Nope never have but I have risked it all several times. I am by nature frugal or used to be so I do have a nice cushion at most times for the unavoidable.

                                    I love how the writer thinks leasing a h2 is frugal....

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                                    • notoldschool
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Aug 2007
                                      • 5687

                                      #19
                                      nice thread.
                                      No doubt one may quote history to support any cause, as the devil quotes scripture.
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                                      • Barefootsies
                                        Choice is an Illusion
                                        • Feb 2005
                                        • 42635

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by slapass
                                        I love how the writer thinks leasing a h2 is frugal....
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                                        "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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                                        • _Richard_
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Oct 2006
                                          • 30989

                                          #21
                                          that's a good read

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                                          • _Richard_
                                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                                            • Oct 2006
                                            • 30989

                                            #22
                                            1 - ShoeMoney Petroleum Company -
                                            (I cant believe im actually telling these in public)
                                            Ok Follow me here -
                                            I want to purchase a Gas Station and Give away Free Gas
                                            The catch is like the gas would come out really slow and also you would be limited as to how much you could get per week. (Like max 50 gallons a week).
                                            How do I make money ? EASY - I would setup paintball guns around the gas station with webcams that would let people from the internet take shots at the people filling up there cars with gas. You could charge per shot or a xxxx amounts of shots per month for a set fee. PROBLEM - I talked to a city council member about this and he told me there was a ?no flying ordinance? or something rule within city limits however I could maybe do it in the country?
                                            if you build it.. they will come..

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                                            • bhutocracy
                                              Not making A Comeback
                                              • Dec 2001
                                              • 10218

                                              #23
                                              1 - ShoeMoney Petroleum Company -
                                              (I cant believe im actually telling these in public)
                                              Ok Follow me here -
                                              I want to purchase a Gas Station and Give away Free Gas
                                              The catch is like the gas would come out really slow and also you would be limited as to how much you could get per week. (Like max 50 gallons a week).
                                              How do I make money ? EASY - I would setup paintball guns around the gas station with webcams that would let people from the internet take shots at the people filling up there cars with gas. You could charge per shot or a xxxx amounts of shots per month for a set fee. PROBLEM - I talked to a city council member about this and he told me there was a ?no flying ordinance? or something rule within city limits however I could maybe do it in the country?
                                              Dear god... That is straight up genius. Best thing i've heard all week.

                                              But on topic.. There is a reason I drive a second hand Ford these days rather than the 5 Series BMW I used to have a couple of years ago. Business is going better than ever but fuck me if i'm going to piss it away like I did in my mid 20's.

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                                              • camperjohn64
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Feb 2005
                                                • 1531

                                                #24
                                                I'm doing really shitty right now. Haven't had a job in 4 years. Google adsense banned 4 of my accounts, and I can't generate traffic for shit.

                                                But I will never give up.
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                                                • d-null
                                                  . . .
                                                  • Apr 2007
                                                  • 13724

                                                  #25
                                                  I am a gambler deep down so money doesn't rule me

                                                  I am most inspired by stories like the professional poker player who was up a million and then lost it all and had to go home to tell his wife that they were flat broke

                                                  easy come easy go, why worry about it... as long as you have a vehicle you can sleep in if times get really bad then you will survive ok ( and a laptop with a strong wifi card )

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                                                  • Jayvis
                                                    Confirmed User
                                                    • Nov 2005
                                                    • 5430

                                                    #26
                                                    I am a young gun like you mentioned early in your post, found this thread very interesting. Reminds me a lot of Startup.com (the movie) if anyone here has seen it.

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                                                    • tony299
                                                      lurker
                                                      • Aug 2002
                                                      • 57021

                                                      #27
                                                      water always seeks its own level

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                                                      • xmas13
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Dec 2004
                                                        • 5176

                                                        #28
                                                        I lost my virginity.
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                                                        • nitroy2k
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Sep 2005
                                                          • 503

                                                          #29
                                                          man exelent find .. i wanted to post something big in here but i decided it's better to keep my hands of the keyboard ... but had similar situation...

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                                                          • pigman
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Aug 2006
                                                            • 760

                                                            #30
                                                            To have nothing is the best motivation builder you can ever get.
                                                            Suffering arises from attachment to desires.
                                                            Suffering ceases when attachment to desire ceases.

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                                                            • Barefootsies
                                                              Choice is an Illusion
                                                              • Feb 2005
                                                              • 42635

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by bhutocracy
                                                              fuck me if i'm going to piss it away like I did in my mid 20's.
                                                              Amen Bro..
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                                                              Enough Said.

                                                              "Would you rather live like a king for a year or like a prince forever?"

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                                                              • SeanLEE
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Feb 2006
                                                                • 1556

                                                                #32
                                                                Im in the process of losing it all... Car- apartment... I have no family or friends-- and everyday I think my mental state is getting worse.... I AM ANGRY!!! Suicide is an option.


                                                                I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD GO HUNGRY- but food is limited--- Death to Amerikkka--- If I make out of this one it will be a miracle.

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                                                                I spammed in threads!

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                                                                • Bojangles
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Apr 2007
                                                                  • 5419

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Great fuckin' post.

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                                                                  • Jens Van Assterdam
                                                                    The Dupre Pimp
                                                                    • Feb 2008
                                                                    • 6677

                                                                    #34
                                                                    A couple of years ago.....
                                                                    But without losing everything i woudn´t be where i am today.
                                                                    Kinda everyone i meet with money lately, has lost it all once..
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                                                                    • buzzy
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • May 2007
                                                                      • 2606

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by halfpint
                                                                      We lost everything about three years ago. Our house, our car and most of our belonings.
                                                                      I lost a very well paid job and could not get a job that paid the same amount of money. In the end we just could not afford to pay the bills we had coming in. Its a shit situation to get into and very hard to get back on top of things. We had to stay with my brother because we had nowhere to live. I will never go down that road again I dont even have credit cards anymore. I only have debit cards so I can only spend what I have. I will never buy a car on HP again. The current car I now have was bought with cash. The worst part of it was seeing my family with no where to live. The last Chritsmas we had in our old house was the worst Christmas my family has ever had. We had no money to even buy a chistmas dinner for our kids and if it wasent for family and friends who gave us hampers we would have had nothing. I will allways be in debt to those who helped us out and never forget what they did for us. But we have worked hard over the last 2 years and are now getting back to the life style we had before. I just do not buy anything on credit and If I cant afford something I save until I can afford it. You never know whats round the corner and if you are earning a good wage now like I was ..Dont waste it on needles things that you dont really need. I learned the hard way and It taught me to repect what I have and never take anything for granted.
                                                                      That's life in pompey folks...j/k

                                                                      Respect

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                                                                      • MrMaxwell
                                                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                        • Jul 2005
                                                                        • 10057

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Look it, don't ever drink, don't buy the finest automobiles, don't trust human beings outside of good hard reason

                                                                        At one time I was making more than probably 90% of you and now I make probably less than 90% of you.. If you fuck around playing games you might fall, you might not make it back up either. I was young when I made mine. I never bought a car over $5000.. one smart thing I did. Thanks to that I survived alot longer than I would have when I fell off.

                                                                        Poverty hurts like words can't say.
                                                                        Let's do it like this, it feels like a reverse blowjob.

                                                                        Be cool and play your position, don't worry about Mr. Jones with a better car, don't trust the wrong woman, DO NOT DRINK

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                                                                        • MrMaxwell
                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                          • Jul 2005
                                                                          • 10057

                                                                          #37
                                                                          I never made millions but I made good and I was too young for an example I had a 30k month and it was all gone in a couple more man, was doing about half that almost every month and I was a young ass, but so stupid, don't ever stay two bit- build some thing solid. Grey area bullshit doesn't last.

                                                                          I still eat pretty good and enjoy alot of blowjobs but I don't even own a home, now, that drinking will bring you down, that and wasting money are the two killers if a scandalous ass bitch like I got ahold of doesn't do it. She didn't get a dime of mine but I became a drunken maniac when she was gone, man, never saw any of it coming I was so drunk.

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