I am so fucking done with American women.

this post is so much bullshit and likely written by someone that is justifying to themselves the position in life that they have gotten themselves entangled into

I've been through that route a few times, and it gets to be so restrictive.... the only one that can make you truly happy in the world is yourself, and compromising yourself to another is giving up your liberty, which is the most important thing we can have... FREEDOM. No matter how great a partner may be, it still becomes a burden on one's mind and the longer it lasts the more it starts to drag down on your psyche, where some may brainwash themselves (such as in the thoughts expressed in the quoted post) to thinking that their compromising of themselves and their freedom is somehow a better path...

for those that haven't gone through it, don't fall for the illusion, because that is what it is...

american girls is crazy like britney spears!

the point in all this is that the values of american women suck ass. so it's very much about "values"

i've been all over the world and would never think about marrying an american woman. that's not to say that there aren't good women here... of course there are. but most other countries place a higher value on family, relationship and marriage and being a "good wife" while expecting the man to be a good husband.

who the fuck wants a woman that expects the world to be handed to her while telling you that cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, paying for something or even giving a blowjob or anything else, is not her "job"?

until most people lived somewhere where the focus is on building a happy, strong, caring and loving relationship and family is placed above ALL other things... they will understand what they've missed out on in life.

we don't have such a high divorce rate in the US "just because"

its because we have lost our sense of values and family values

Yes what about me? My husband does not take care of me. I make plenty of my own money and I did before I met him. To generalize all American women because you have met some bad one's is just stupid.

anyone that would be with you needs to have their head examined for tolerating your stupidity and bitterness.

every stripper who's been molested as a child prides themselves on their "independence" - but only because they are emotionally damaged, bitter, angry, defiant and incapable of forming healthy emotional relationships with males (assuming the abuse was done by a male)... don't think of your "independence" as a gift... let's call it what it is... a symptom.

Oh please nothing sadder than a person in porn thinking they can psych people. If that is the career you want go back to school and become one. If not then shut the fuck up. You have no idea what the hell you are talking about. If you are talking about me being a stripper, I have never been one and I was never abused. You are so full of shit it is funny.

Seems most guys here want a woman who feels she is beneth than him so he can feel like the big man. Time to grow up, boys.

Hey where is Achmed, I feel like he could offer up some great advice on this.

yeah right... no one here thinks you are totally unhinged emotionally and quite possibly retarded.


i'm the only one.

Who cares what you think. You seem to think everyone on here cares about everything you say. Sorry to inform you many don't give a shit. You are not a psych, you have no medical training. You pull your information from out of your ass, anyone can do that. I also could care less about that picture. It is a three year old picture with a bad chop job. Glad to see you are still so easily amused. Must be fun to have the mental level of a 5 year old.

"Wake me up when robot wives are both cheap and effective."

"But trying to find a place for yourself in this world
Is like trying to make a wife of an American girl"


lol just throwing some fuel on the fire here.

Does this post help anyone be productive ?

you are gonna love Brazilian women!!!

That's my outward impression too. For the record, I don't know any strippers or performers.

Been my experience as well, but many I've crossed paths with are incapable of forming a healthy emotional relationship with anyone... Not just males...

Brother, we gotta talk. There are women here capable of not being bitches, but as a rule it is easier in a few other countries

Are you still with Krusty?

And pro you may try with Croatian females,but make sure your pockets are deep first :D
There is one folk song which goes:and girl doesnt wanna cool man,and girl doesnt wanna singer,she want a gentleman with deep pockets.

wth.... where's all the posts from lonely dudes trying to win brownie points by jumping to the defense of female webmasters/affiliate reps ?

for a lot of reasons you should look here, and specifically for the filipinas from the provinces, not urban areas (i.e. farm girls), they make the best wives and mothers in the world, are low maintenance, can do anything, are culturally conditioned to mate for life, and will fuck your brains out.

thank me later:
www.cherryblossoms.com

Ive only been with americans

those kind of chumps know better than to post in my threads

pimp's up, american ho's down

Sorry to hear that...

Or they're mature enough to not bother.

damn that chick is hot

virtual hi-five 4 that one Ms PK LOL... I always laugh when I see guys (not talkin about you specifically you pr0..ur cool in my book.. fuck a Japanese girl for me ) complaining about greedy stupid uneducated women then I meet the 21 year old stupid slutty bitches they hang out with and just laugh.. I think theres good people and shitty people no matter where ya go.. you just have to look for the genuine people and surround urself with them

All bullshit aside its hard for a guy to want to settle down in these days pussy is way too easy and even those who settle down dont last long

I'll make you sandwiches, I've been trained

I thought I was the only who thought this way about American women

http://dontgetmarried.proboards75.com/

Read some of the stuff that are posted on this board. In my experience, women only want to be treated equally when it suits them - the second a woman can't handle or doesn't want to do something, she wants to go back to the "traditional" ways.

is there a song about AMERICAN WOMAN?

Stay away from Indian chicks,they are good until they get marrid then they turn out to be like their mother. Speaking from experience.

I see where is this going women and men are slaves of their own society and there are some things that you should understand.

People until now and further into the future will be slaves of money, every decision people make in their entire life is somewhat mixed with money.
There are no real values, everything that is touched with money becomes corrupt, there is no purity in this world only little kids are pure.
So if you want a wife you should find a women that loves anything you have and everything about you, your bad habits, even to like your cat though she hates it, a women doesn't need to have the looks to become a wife she needs to have a kind heart, and not a soul that is rotten in the inside and has all kinds of malicious and perverse thoughts in her head...

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A public service announcment for guys about marriage
Date: 2005-12-30, 10:04AM EST


OK guys, I was talking last night and we got a consensus of at least ten guys that the following is what lies ahead for you in marriage. So think carefully before you pop the question.

Year one: Sex, sex, sex. All you could want. On the floor, in the woods, the car, the beach. Every time you?re alone, you?re banging like rabbits. Nothing is off limits. Nowhere either one of you won?t lick, tickle or tease. Each time you look at her naked body, you are filled with gratitude that God has given you this woman.

Year two: It slows down, but you try to keep it hot just out of fear. You don?t want to become one of those couples. But now there?s no more spontaneous blowjobs. Things are more routine, but that?s OK because you?re still getting it regular and you?re happy.

Years 3-5: Along comes the house and kids. Through it all, you find less and less time or reason to have sex. You go from 7 or more orgasms a week down to probably once a month. You get a bloated beer belly and your love handles turn into big bulges. She gets flabby with baby weight that just won?t go away. The second kid is even worse. She refuses to get stitched up after the second kid and so she?s now so loose you can?t even come inside her. When you do have sex, it?s like fucking a bowl of pudding.

Years 5-7: You decide to get back in shape, to try to revive your sex life. You get trimmed down at the gym, almost to where you were before marriage. She gives it a half-hearted effort, but can?t make much progress. She refuses to wear any lingerie you buy her, instead coming to bed in a T-shirt (if you?re lucky) or a torn up set of PJs. And you now have to beg and schedule sex, which is cold and automatic. You now are masturbating regularly. In the shower, in the bathroom at work, anywhere, anytime you have a private moment. But the effect is minimal and you are constantly horny. For the first time, you will contemplate divorce. You?ll visit web sites about it and perhaps skim a book in the bookstore about divorce.

Years 7-9: You find yourself staring in amazement at this woman and trying to remember when she was hot. Want a preview? Picture your girlfriend, now thicken up her arms by a third. Picture her ass all flattened and her legs thicker and more muscular. When you do convince her to make love, she usually quickly gets on her knees for you to enter her from behind and asks you not to fuckup her cold cream while you?re doing her. She?s dry as a bone and the scent of unwashed ass wafts up as you?re trying to bang her. She is hoping for another baby, but it seems unlikely. Your stomach churns at just the thought. By now you?ve had an affair or two. Maybe a crazy chick at the office or a couple hookers now and then, but the stress of it is too much. You are in disbelief that you are actually now masturbating in bed beside her as she snores.

Year 9: It?s over. You occasionally score some outside poontang, but it?s expensive. Your wife now openly scorns any advances you make. If you suggest she get in shape, she labels you a woman-hater. Real men like women with curves, not sticks. Curves, sure, you think, but not roll after roll of blubber. She has stopped shaving, so that if you try to go down on her the hair is everywhere, matted and full of snarls. You hope to God she?s banging someone on the side, but you know it?s unlikely. You try to titty fuck her, but she doesn?t like that. There?s now no way to have an orgasm while you?re actually touching her.

Year 10: You can?t sleep through the night. Even masturbating doesn?t help. You surf the Web or drink into the wee hours, praying for death?s sweet release to come and take you or her. You?ve talked with a lawyer, but after he lays out the reality for you, you know that can?t afford divorce unless you?re prepared to live in your parent?s basement while all your income goes toward maintaining your wife and kids. Plus, you love the kids. You can?t bear the thought of splitting up their family. Your future stretches before you like a desert, baking and sucking the life out of anything that tries to cross it.

I hope you're trolling, because that made you sound like a control freak who wants a woman to be little more than a blow-up doll puppet who does whatever you say (seriously - you're even threatened by GAY men? Or by a woman being able to use a computer? What the fuck is wrong with you?). I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years, we both have close friends of both sexes, it's not an issue because neither of us are cheating/dishonest fuckheads or prone to unnecessary jealousy.

I've never cheated on anyone, but I have found that almost WITHOUT FAIL - the overly controlling guys who are super worried about MY guy friends always end up being the ones who are shady and messing around on the side; they're projecting their guilty conscious onto me because they can't grasp that just because THEY'RE dishonest and shady, it doesn't mean that I am as well. So for me, an man who wants me to disconnect with gay or male friends is usually a biiiiiiiig red flag that he's no good and will probably end up fucking me over.

Honestly, whenever I see people bitching about this sort of thing, man or woman, I find it's usually the person complaining who is the source of the problem. You'll notice that even while people bitch about how "American women" have too many male friends/want to be treated like princesses/want to be in a financially secure relationship, usually the person bitching ALSO feels like they're entitled to such things - you know you'd be pissed if your GF tried to isolate you from your friends or treated you like crap or never did ANYTHING for you, so why is it that only you are allowed to have needs/wants/friends but the woman is supposed to just suck it up (literally) and just cater to you while ignoring anything she wants?

There's supposed to be balance in relationships, that's what makes a healthy relationship work. Mutual trust, give and take, both contributing, that sort of thing. If you think I'm just being naive, I'd say that you just haven't made it there yet and/or you're seeking out all the wrong kinds of people.

Oh, and whoever earlier made the comment that women should just be happy to come home to a man who doesn't beat them - that is disgusting. The attitude that a women should be GRATEFUL if the man doesn't decide to abuse her is really scary; men who abuse women should be the fucked up exception, not the rule that women should "just be happy" that they're not experiencing.

I'm probably wasting my energy even trying to explain this, though. Bottom line: if you feel that you need to control, monitor, and abuse a woman, the problem most likely lies within YOU. Get over your selfishness and jealousy issues and go after women that are more than just superficial arm candy and women who don't actively try to create drama in their relationships; they are out there, but they usually only go for guys who have their mental shit together as well.

And honestly, trying to say it's just American women is false. American guys can be just as obnoxious; one thing I've noticed from not only my own relationships but also seeing the things that go on with both my male and female friends...

For some reason in this culture, there's this weird expectation/need for drama in relationships. I've known people who start fights just because they feel like they need that excitement, hell I actually got broken up with once because I was, and I quote, "too laid back" and wouldn't buy into his constant fishing for drama (I tended to always try and logically explain away whatever crazy bullshit he was trying to instigate, but since he wanted a fight, not a logical resolution to the "issue", that wasn't okay). These are the same people that will whine about you not catering to their every need or having opposite gender friends (or, hell, even having any friends, period); it's not that there's actually a real issue, they just want to have some sort of problem to whine about and talk shit about to their friends and make them feel like they're living on some crappy television show. As a culture, we're addicted to drama, both men and women.

If you're with someone who you're ACTUALLY compatible with, the extra shit isn't necessary.

women and their platonic guy friends

agreed, women like that are nothing but a headache

I think that is so much of a telling trait that is American vs. women in say latin american or asian countries, girls in those cultures don't have a half dozen guy friends on the side in a relationship, it just isn't right

?A foolish man tells a woman to stop talking, but a wise man tells her that her mouth is extremely beautiful when her lips are closed?

?No matter how good she looks - no matter how sweet she talks - somebody, somewhere is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.?

Ice Cube felt as you do many moons ago

Almost EVERY straight guy on this planet will agree with what I said and almost every female will say exactly what you just said, there is no surprise here. But you decide to start yapping about abuse and being a control freak, its not about that its about finding a girl that will least likely be a fucking headache, do you not understand that?

And this is a thread about finding a female not a male, now I understand the truth hurts and I bet your lovely boyfriend will agree too but ofcource should you show him this thread he will say "these guys are crazy and hes SO not like that".

And if your boyfriend dont mind that you have a ton of guy friends he mostlikly is fucking all types of things all over the place and your in one of those relationships that yes you have been with him for 2 years but hes been with you 1 month you just haven?t realized yet that he moved on a long long time ago.

The only time a guy says that its perfectly ok for you to have and talk on the phone all day to Joey, Frank, Jimmy and Johnny and he is the type that is trusting so your guy friends don?t bother him is either:

a) on the first or second date before he got in your pants and hes saying whatever you want to hear

or

b) He really could give a fuck about you because hes fucking so many girls and your just another booty call in the book or maybe even a charity booty call where he don?t even want to sleep with you but he feels bad for whatever reason.

Good luck with "YOUR" relationship

its understandable that women will circle the wagons and fire back while feeling like they are being attacked.

the simple point of the thread and discussion is that if you want to find a relationship with someone who wants to center their life on the health of the relationship, strength of family and happiness at home and who flat out think the idea of feminism is retarded, silly and self destructive to family... then the US is not a great place to find those types of women.

that doesn't mean you can't... but the fact of the matter is that the USA is a VERY poor place to find someone who shares those values.

if you want to find a goofy, fake cunt who can't make up her mind whether or not she is offended because you opened the door for her or flattered.. who gets offended that you tried to pay for dinner as if you've somehow insulted her, that places a higher value on her own career, than raising a family and that has a general attitude of "i don't need to be dependent on anyone to be ok" and where you have a 70% chance of being divorced in less than 10 years.... then you can find that anywhere and everywhere in this country.

goodluck on searchin' pro!