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  • JFK
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    • Jan 2002
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    #51
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    • seeandsee
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      • Mar 2006
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      #52
      Originally posted by Libertine
      My current girlfriend is quite conservative, and I already knew that.

      However, I just found out just how conservative she is, when she told me the "shocking" story of how a friend of hers once told her about a threesome. That mere story shocked and appalled her.

      The sex talk continued, and she mentioned that she thinks everyone who's had sex with more than ~5 people is a disgusting slut, who doesn't respect his/her own body.

      So, how do I break it to her that I've slept with 100+ women, that I've worked in porn for 10 years, and that I've been a stuntcock a handful of times?
      Don't tell her
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      • ilbb
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        • May 2005
        • 3025

        #53
        Originally posted by RayBonga
        Make sure you tape her reaction.
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        • blonda80
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          #54
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          • CIVMatt
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            • Aug 2004
            • 13075

            #55
            Do you really want to be with someone so closed minded?

            There's a huge difference between a girl that doesn't want to have a 3-some and a girl APPALLED by the thought of a 3-some....

            know what I mean?
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            • cool1
              sex is good
              • Sep 2001
              • 24939

              #56
              Originally posted by Mr Pheer
              Am I the only one that can really see what you've got here?

              You've got a fucking get out of jail free card. An ace in the hole. Fuk man, are you blind?

              The answer is simple - you dont fucking tell her.

              Untill you are ready to get rid of her

              And then she will be gone... no stalking you, no calling you up crying, no begging you to come back.

              Fucking fantastic... Save it for when you really need it.
              Damn good answer, wish I had thought of that 2 marriages ago....lol

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              • tranza
                ICQ: 197-556-237
                • Jun 2003
                • 57559

                #57
                If she's so conservative, this will be a hard task! Maybe she can understant you work with porn, but maybe you shouldn't tell about the 100+ girls...
                I'm just a newbie.

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                • polish_aristocrat
                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 40377

                  #58
                  Originally posted by Libertine
                  The sex talk continued, and she mentioned that she thinks everyone who's had sex with more than ~5 people is a disgusting slut, who doesn't respect his/her own body.
                  give her Rhesus email addy ;)
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                  • polish_aristocrat
                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 40377

                    #59
                    did you really work in porn though?

                    typically, being just an affiliate is very far from being involved in producing porn
                    Last edited by polish_aristocrat; 08-15-2008, 05:57 AM.
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                    • 12clicks
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                      • Jan 2001
                      • 19814

                      #60
                      Originally posted by Libertine
                      My current girlfriend is quite conservative, and I already knew that.

                      However, I just found out just how conservative she is, when she told me the "shocking" story of how a friend of hers once told her about a threesome. That mere story shocked and appalled her.

                      The sex talk continued, and she mentioned that she thinks everyone who's had sex with more than ~5 people is a disgusting slut, who doesn't respect his/her own body.

                      So, how do I break it to her that I've slept with 100+ women, that I've worked in porn for 10 years, and that I've been a stuntcock a handful of times?
                      just force yourself to wake up before the dream ends
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                      • polish_aristocrat
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 40377

                        #61
                        Originally posted by Libertine
                        and that I've been a stuntcock a handful of times?
                        ok i missed this, but come on, this ain't bullshit? Last time I heard you were a philosophy student..
                        I don't use ICQ anymore.

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                        • Cyndalie
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                          • Jan 2002
                          • 3615

                          #62
                          The sex talk continued, and she mentioned that she thinks everyone who's had sex with more than ~5 people is a disgusting slut, who doesn't respect his/her own body.
                          5 in a day, month, or year?
                          surely she can't mean lifetime if she's over 21.
                          Last edited by Cyndalie; 08-15-2008, 06:26 AM.
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                          • Trixie
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                            • Oct 2002
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                            #63
                            Why would an adult want to be with a person with that mentality anyway? She's either very young or you're totally incompatible.
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                            • SilentKnight
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                              • Oct 2005
                              • 24812

                              #64
                              Dump the victorian tightass.

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                              • Libertine
                                sex dwarf
                                • May 2002
                                • 17860

                                #65
                                Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
                                ok i missed this, but come on, this ain't bullshit? Last time I heard you were a philosophy student..
                                I was rather wild as a teen. And by "wild", I mean the worst possible kind.

                                The stuntcock thing was entirely unrelated to my work selling porn. It was actually more related to a former hobby - coke. Long story short, I grew weed, sold it, made new "friends", did a shitload of stupid stuff.

                                Originally posted by Defiance Inc
                                The walls are going up.
                                Here's how your relationship will most likely continue. She's building these sexual barriers
                                with you by announcing how disgusted she is with x, y and z. These
                                barriers will continue to build because you don't want to rock the boat. She
                                will get a sense of power because she feels her opinion is absolutely right because
                                her own man doesn't even challenge her. Next you'll find yourself miserable and
                                in an affair with a prostitute cause she'll fuck like a angry dragon. Or you'll stick with it
                                and shut the fuck up cause its the best piece of ass you've ever had and don't want to
                                lose her. If that happens, time will pass and she'll talk shit about you to her girlfriends about how bad you are in bed cause you don't fuck her like she needs to be fucked.
                                She'll hit her peak and cheat on you cause she lost respect for you. You played it safe, wussed out, compromised your very being. You'll rot inside because you can't be who you are. I've seen it a million times

                                Here is how I've done it...
                                GF: '3 somes are disgusting!'
                                ME: 'I've done some, my ex and I were swingers.'
                                GF: 'Well I would NEVER DO THAT!'
                                ME: 'I didn't ask you to, did I? Besides, for me it takes a lot of trust to do that.'
                                ME: <watching the gears tick in her head>

                                Conversation is pretty much over cause I check mated her.

                                You must decide if you want to sacrifice your dignity.
                                Eh, yeah. Because relationships are all about checkmating your partner, and as long as you have a witty comeback, all is well. Real life doesn't exactly work that way.

                                Also, you seem to think that if a girl doesn't like promiscuity, she'll be a boring lay in a monogamous relationship. Let's just say that that's about as far from the truth as you can get.

                                Originally posted by Shey
                                Just break it to her like a reformed drug addict...

                                You: I did all these things but they are part of my past and they're not who I am anymore. I've changed, I don't miss those things and I just want to be with someone that gets me for who I am now and not what I've done in the past.

                                She'll go for it, trust me...
                                Good thinking, I'm gonna go with this one
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                                • beemk
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                                  #66
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                                  • The Duck
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                                    • May 2005
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                                    #67
                                    When you break it to her, the universe will probably implode into its own footprint. Like wtc building 7.
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                                    • ultimatebbwdotcom
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                                      • Mar 2006
                                      • 591

                                      #68
                                      Best not tell her....She likely wont understand, she doesnt have the same experiences and she'll get major retroactive jealousy.

                                      Of course, its a bit underhanded to not tell her because its bound to come out.

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                                      • woj
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                                        • Jul 2002
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                                        #69
                                        I don't see anything good coming out of telling her, I would just keep my mouth shut, in a few years you will probably be out of porn anyway..
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                                        • The Heron
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                                          • Apr 2001
                                          • 4496

                                          #70
                                          I generally start a first date with something over the top and offensive to an average female and see how it goes from there, since you failed to do that I have no real advice at this juncture.

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                                          • Lykos
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                                            • Apr 2003
                                            • 31027

                                            #71
                                            Just leave her,u would never be able to get along with her on that

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                                            • d-null
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                                              • Apr 2007
                                              • 13724

                                              #72
                                              I've seen girls like that before

                                              you might tell her and you might think that it is all ok and it is a relief, but it is like a tiny seed of poison that gets in her mind, and it never goes away, it festers and eats at her and creates a hatred for you

                                              I think that a relationship that starts out on deception has to continue that way, there is no way to fix that

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                                              • Big Red Machine
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                                                • Jan 2005
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                                                #73
                                                I would say always be truthfull but you don't have to reveal everything on the first date
                                                Last edited by Big Red Machine; 08-15-2008, 04:14 PM.

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                                                • Pornopat
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                                                  • Dec 2003
                                                  • 10598

                                                  #74
                                                  If you ever want to get married you better learn to lie ahead of time.
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                                                  • Spunky
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                                                    • Jun 2002
                                                    • 133978

                                                    #75
                                                    I'd rather be married to someone 100 per cent honest and has'nt any deep dark secrets.relationships are about trust.without it .it will never work

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                                                    • mikesouth
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                                                      • Jun 2003
                                                      • 6340

                                                      #76
                                                      if you are in this much agnst over having been in porn get the fuck out

                                                      this business has too many people who shouldnt be in it as it is, if you aint proud of it dont let the door hit you in your fucking ass on the way out.
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                                                      It's No wonder I took up drugs and alcohol, it's the only way I could dumb myself down enough to cope with the morons in this biz.

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                                                      • Z
                                                        Vidi Vici Veni
                                                        • Nov 2002
                                                        • 6308

                                                        #77
                                                        "It's been nice knowing you, I hope you have a nice life."

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                                                        • opulence
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                                                          • Feb 2005
                                                          • 273

                                                          #78
                                                          Yeah because you know, women always tell the truth. The story definitely 100% shocked and appalled her. It's not just some women's stupid way of seeing what your reaction to their reaction is.. /sarcasm

                                                          She's "conservative" as you say - or at least that's how she presents herself.

                                                          Maybe she was actually turned on or curious about threesomes but like some women/people, her only way of expressing that is by saying the complete opposite

                                                          And the "anyone who has slept with 5+ people is a disgusting slut that doesn't respect their own body" could easily mean that she's trying to hide the fact that all through highschool she was banging guys left right and center that were twice her age

                                                          I mean afterall, with your track record you've managed to get through this far without her raising any suspicion
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                                                          • man blast in your face
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                                                            • Jan 2008
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                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by opulence

                                                            And the "anyone who has slept with 5+ people is a disgusting slut that doesn't respect their own body" could easily mean that she's trying to hide the fact that all through highschool she was banging guys left right and center that were twice her age



                                                            I was thinking the same thing!

                                                            Just wait until she confesses to you that she is really a MAN who was a crack whore for 7 years in NYC. She/he will have so many great stories that will put yours to shame.


                                                            You will get what you thought you were going to give.

                                                            Good luck!

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                                                            • man blast in your face
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                                                              • Jan 2008
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                                                              #80
                                                              Originally posted by Spunky
                                                              I'd rather be married to someone 100 per cent honest and has'nt any deep dark secrets.

                                                              Even if the bitter whore is monsterously ugly and leaking puss?


                                                              For some reason I think maybe you might go for the super hot clean hottie who has a secret or two.

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                                                              • jonesonyou
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                                                                • Sep 2003
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                                                                #81
                                                                I just wouldnt tell her

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                                                                • Cyandin
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                                                                  • Aug 2008
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                                                                  #82
                                                                  Originally posted by Mr Pheer
                                                                  Am I the only one that can really see what you've got here?

                                                                  You've got a fucking get out of jail free card. An ace in the hole. Fuk man, are you blind?

                                                                  The answer is simple - you dont fucking tell her.

                                                                  Untill you are ready to get rid of her

                                                                  And then she will be gone... no stalking you, no calling you up crying, no begging you to come back.

                                                                  Fucking fantastic... Save it for when you really need it.
                                                                  Genius!

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                                                                  • MediaManiac
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                                                                    • Mar 2008
                                                                    • 622

                                                                    #83
                                                                    Originally posted by umbralui
                                                                    good one, it works on me LOL
                                                                    i agree with this one..

                                                                    i recognize this whole situation.. then at one point i had to choose between her and the adult industry.. well as you see you know wich dicission i made.

                                                                    good luck bro... you need it!



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                                                                    • DWB
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                                                                      • Jul 2003
                                                                      • 31779

                                                                      #84
                                                                      By girlfriend has slept with like 6 dudes before me. When she asked me how many I had been with, I said over 2000. She started laughing and said "no, really how many?" and laughed even more. I told her over 2000. Then she got angry with me for joking with her. I told her I was not joking, and it pissed her off even more. She thought I was lying to her in order to not tell her the real number.

                                                                      I said, ok, you got me. About 12. She got pissed that I had fucked so many.

                                                                      Sometimes we just can't win no matter what we do.

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                                                                      • Slap Dot
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                                                                        • Aug 2004
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                                                                        #85
                                                                        Sounds like she's fucking horrible in bed. Does she just lay there and make weird faces like she's grossed out?

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                                                                        • Nishville
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                                                                          • Jan 2008
                                                                          • 284

                                                                          #86
                                                                          If you can STFU just do that ... Don't fucking tell her anything. I couldn't do that tho.
                                                                          Being honest gets me in trouble usually. :S

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                                                                          • Nishville
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                                                                            • Jan 2008
                                                                            • 284

                                                                            #87
                                                                            I have an idea. Tell her a story about a friend who has a GF that he loves but he doesn't want to hurt her. Put yourself in a position of that imaginary friend and wait for her reaction. She's a girl so her answer will probably be: "Well... If she loves him and he's ready to change she will get over it and everything will be ok".

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                                                                            • AdultMovies.bz
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                                                                              #88
                                                                              You work in porn = no need for honesty as you're evil and already going to hell
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                                                                              • Ecchi22
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                                                                                • Nov 2005
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                Originally posted by Nishville
                                                                                I have an idea. Tell her a story about a friend who has a GF that he loves but he doesn't want to hurt her. Put yourself in a position of that imaginary friend and wait for her reaction. She's a girl so her answer will probably be: "Well... If she loves him and he's ready to change she will get over it and everything will be ok".
                                                                                I think it is best idea so far

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                                                                                • MediaManiac
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                                                                                  • Mar 2008
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by DirtyWhiteBoy
                                                                                  By girlfriend has slept with like 6 dudes before me. When she asked me how many I had been with, I said over 2000. She started laughing and said "no, really how many?" and laughed even more. I told her over 2000. Then she got angry with me for joking with her. I told her I was not joking, and it pissed her off even more. She thought I was lying to her in order to not tell her the real number.

                                                                                  I said, ok, you got me. About 12. She got pissed that I had fucked so many.

                                                                                  Sometimes we just can't win no matter what we do.


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                                                                                  • Ecchi22
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                                                                                    • Nov 2005
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by AdultMovies.bz
                                                                                    You work in porn = no need for honesty as you're evil and already going to hell
                                                                                    That's BS. Helping people fulfill their fantasies isn't evil at all

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                                                                                    • Holly
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                                                                                      • Jun 2003
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by CIVMatt
                                                                                      There's a huge difference between a girl that doesn't want to have a 3-some and a girl APPALLED by the thought of a 3-some....
                                                                                      Ding, ding, ding.
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                                                                                      • theharvman
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                                                                                        #93
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                                                                                        • LAJ
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Originally posted by BVF
                                                                                          You grow a pair, go up to her and say, "I've slept with 100+ women...I've worked in porn for 10 years...And I've been a stuntcock a handful of times"....

                                                                                          Then when she walks out the door, thank your lucky stars that you got rid of Mary Poppins early....


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                                                                                          • Kudles
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                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            Punch her in her mouth and tell her to get over it
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                                                                                            • MetaMan
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                                                                                              • Jan 2003
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                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              I am personally honest and open with everything and anything, i dont do anything that i am ashamed of so i dont care if others may think what i do is right or wrong.

                                                                                              my golden rule is to always be upfront and truthful, it saves you alot of headache and i have never found a single girl that does not thank me for being upfront and open.

                                                                                              if its not meant to be its not meant to be, dont sacrifice who you are or be ashamed of who you are just to please someone else or because of their "ethics". you will not be happy in the long run and a relationship never works unless both people are truly happy anyway.

                                                                                              i personally love dating a chick who is "innocent" and i am the one who turns them freaky, i have found alot of women will display a front and are just looking for someone trustworthy/real to let their freaky side out. all women have it, its just whether or not you have the game to get it out of them.
                                                                                              Last edited by MetaMan; 08-19-2008, 11:43 AM.

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                                                                                              • ali25extreme
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                                                                                                • Mar 2008
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                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Originally posted by Libertine
                                                                                                Sluttiest... no. They tend to only have sex in very serious relationships.

                                                                                                Wildest fucks... absolutely. Even when they don't actually fuck, but just give head because they're "saving themselves for marriage". The thinking behind it might not make sense, but with 3 blow jobs a day, who's complaining
                                                                                                I have to agree. When you only have sex with one person and your together for a long period of time you tend to give him great blow jobs and be very kinky in bed. It is more personal so it makes it more pleasurable.

                                                                                                If you tell her she will forever think about you being with other women and lots of them..DO NOT go into detail if she asks. Tell her she is the best and more that you could ever hope for. Ask for her to love you unconditionally like you do her. But ask this question first..do you love me unconditionally? Then you can go from there...
                                                                                                good luck bud..you will need it in this case.

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                                                                                                • Telly
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                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  if she slept w/ you before marriage then she cant be that conservative. just tell her and be cool about it, you set the tone.

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                                                                                                  • sniperwolf
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                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    Originally posted by madawgz
                                                                                                    you cant be who you truly are around her until you let her know


                                                                                                    And if you're not ready to tell her the truth then hide. But remember, the result will get worst as it takes time. It's your choice.
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                                                                                                    • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      The only girls that care about what you do are the ones that are not getting their share...

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