I had to comment on some other things tootie:
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And don't worry about being shy. I am a woman who happens to think shy guys are very sexy. I know there are other girls out there like me. Find one.
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Shy guys attract two types of girls: Shy girls that are okay with shy guys because they're shy themselves. While finding these are okay for now, they won't help you get over your shyness much. Also, if you're both shy the chances of you getting together are extremely slim.
The other type of girl is the one who likes to be in control. The semi-manly BITCH that like their men obedient and pussy-whipped. You WILL attract these women with a shy attitude so get over your shyness instead and go for the women you really want (the feminine women - who almost all men are attracted to. What do feminine women want? The answer is simple: Masculine men!)
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Be very open, very honest, and most importantly, don't just talk about yourself. Ask her questions about HER.
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About being open: Don't be. Not too much, not in the beginning. Girls don't want to hear about your problems or bullshit. They want you to ask the right questions that allow them to run their mouths. So, ask her questions about HER: Good advice there tootie!
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Act like SHE is the center of the world.
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If you shower someone with attention, they will think and believe they deserve that, and the one giving it to them must be unworthy because she is getting so much praise (i.e. she's better than you!). Believe me, do NOT act like she is the center of the world. In fact, make her believe she is only one in 3 BILLION women, which is exactly the truth. If anyone deserves attention, it's YOU YOURSELF! By showing her YOU are a great guy, she will realize that you're the catch, not her. This is what women respond to.
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Be a perfect gentleman, treat her like gold
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Again, DON'T! Don't be afraid to bust a girls balls a bit. Don't be afraid to be cocky with her. She gets this drooling nice guy shit from so many girls already, she'll be happy to have found a man who isn't intimidated by her. NEVER put girls on their so called pedestals.
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If you're nice enough, the truly nice girls will probably ask YOU out. They'll respond to you if they think you're really interested but too shy to do anything about it.
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This is how the guy has been doing it for 25 years and it didn't work. DON'T wait for the girls to take initiative. Why? Because you'll end up with WHOEVER chooses YOU, while you should be the one to make that call. You decide who you approach and date.
Studies have shown that male animals without testosterone act passive towards females of their species. What happens? They DON'T find female and they DON'T get laid.
DO NOT be passive. You're a man so act like one