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Originally posted by berg.the.red
about the "talking thing" --women love to talk. about themselves or their interests usually. steer the conversation in that direction and you won't have to worry too much about participation. just nod your head or mumble something when it seems like she waiting for a response from you. this will also help take some of the pressure off of you about saying something stupid ...
if she catches you not paying attention and asks "are you listening to me ?!" just say "I'm sorry. I was just noticing at how beautiful your eyes are ...". remember that phrase --you can get a lot of mileage out of it later in life. don't talk about your work on the first date or so. "wanna be on one of my web sites?" probably wouldn't be a good ice breaker either ... 
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ohh man how many girl did you get to fall for that?
when i meet a guy i want him to tell me just a much about himself as i tell him about me. i want him to make me laugh an if you have forgotten... Girls like chemistry, and you will not be able to say that "there was chemistry between us tonight" if he just sit there nodding his head. Sorry that doesn't work.
and personally the eye thing doesn't work on the first date... to many people uses that one. unless he is really good at using his charm while he says it then it is gonna fall to the ground.
regards Pernille/vapser