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Sigh, I wonder if this is for real or just another character.
OK, I feel bad for anyone who is 25 and never had a girlfriend so let's assume you're for real.
1) Girls are people, too. Seriously. What are you intimidated by? The worst they can do is say no and maybe giggle at you. Fuck 'em.
2) Take them somewhere you are comfortable. A place you eat often or a club you are familiar with. Try to be polite. Don't let your urge to make a good impression get out of hand; keep the loud laughter and sexual innuendos to a bare minimum. Hold doors for her, smile a lot and don't stare. Ask questions about her and what she likes. If she likes or dislikes something that really disagrees with your own preferences, <B>don't</B> make a big deal out of it. Don't tell her she's crazy, don't act like her opnions are stupid, don't laugh at what she says unless it starts wiith "How many ____ does it take to screw in a lightbulb".
3) Not worthy? Have you met some of the girls walking around out there? Seriously, you need to drop that line of thought. If there's one thing women respond to above all else it's confidence. Unless you have the perfect puppy-dog-who-needs-love demeanor, women will respond negatively to a lack of confidence. Keepy our head up and your shoulders back and behave like you're in charge. <B>Don't</B> act like a tough guy, just act like you've been there and done that and you're on top of it.
SpaceAce
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