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#76

12-10-2015, 08:18 AM

Its not how you fall, but how you pick yourself back up! Any female that does that to you after 10yrs isn't worth crying or being depressed over!
Get out there and get a job or side job(s), it's nice to have a main project but you have to make sure you have money coming in and not rely on someone else to pay the bills while working on said project. Maybe start some small projects(sites)

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#77

12-10-2015, 08:34 AM

Originally posted by the Shemp

There's tons of people a lot worse off than you...
- be thankful that you dont have a terminal disease
-be thankful that you are young enough to get back on track and do something with your life
- be thankful that i took the time to read your post ...

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I understand the advice but life just doesn't work that way. Because somebody else has it worse than one person doesn't make his struggles any less to him.

I've known people with terminal illnesses and guys who've been dumped and the terminally ill usually deal with their predicament better than dumped men. Women rebound way faster from relationships. I bet this guy would handle a serious illness better than he is this.

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#78

12-10-2015, 08:37 AM

dude this happens to everyone. you need to experience a number of girls before you know what you really want and don't ever let a girl own you. find a girl who wants you. lots of different women out there to try out and see what you like. have fun!!! its all just life.

as for money, find some guy roomates or rent out a room from someone until you get on your feet. never give up, never stop trying to achieve more. sometimes it takes a long time and many missteps but persistence pays off.

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#79

12-10-2015, 08:57 AM

1. Take all her pictures, notes, or anything that reminds you of her and go to some sketchy area of London like Kings Cross and burn that shit. Say goodbye and walk away. Leave the ashes laying there in a spot you would never have a reason to visit.....like Kings Cross (bad memories there)

2. Wake up early and go get some jobs. Get anything you can to make money.

3. Find a place where you can sleep cheap so will be some sort of flat share with multiple people.

4. Spend an few hours each day dedicated to creating an income stream outside of your jobs. As you make more and more money then start quitting your jobs.

5. Date a female with a soul.

I have been in similar positions I think twice in my life when I was broken hearted and with hardly any money. You just need to get out there and do it.
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#80

12-10-2015, 09:00 AM

Originally posted by CDSmith

Sounds more like you were happy and she wasn't. Either you were oblivious to her unhappiness or it's a case of someone's true colors taking a decade to reveal itself.

Either way this will look a whole lot different a year or two from now. Doesn't help you now of course, but if you can't get a handle on the depression there's always good old Dr Zoloft.

She seemed happy for all those years and even a few months before the shit happened she was telling me she loves me and that she does not imagine life without me. So my surprise was big when the shit happened.

Originally posted by beerptrol

Its not how you fall, but how you pick yourself back up! Any female that does that to you after 10yrs isn't worth crying or being depressed over!
Get out there and get a job or side job(s), it's nice to have a main project but you have to make sure you have money coming in and not rely on someone else to pay the bills while working on said project. Maybe start some small projects(sites)

Well, I've been actually talking about 2 projects, one big I have been developing for 6 years that has to wait right now, and a smaller one that is already ready and just needs only 8-12 months to bring money that will be enough for making the living but at this very moment I can't do anything, I just need to stay strong and plan moving out cause I can't afford the rent.

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#81

12-10-2015, 09:10 AM

Originally posted by VikingMan

1. Take all her pictures, notes, or anything that reminds you of her and go to some sketchy area of London like Kings Cross and burn that shit. Say goodbye and walk away. Leave the ashes laying there in a spot you would never have a reason to visit.....like Kings Cross (bad memories there)

2. Wake up early and go get some jobs. Get anything you can to make money.

3. Find a place where you can sleep cheap so will be some sort of flat share with multiple people.

4. Spend an few hours each day dedicated to creating an income stream outside of your jobs. As you make more and more money then start quitting your jobs.

5. Date a female with a soul.

I have been in similar positions I think twice in my life when I was broken hearted and with hardly any money. You just need to get out there and do it.

Burning a tone of shit in the middle of Kings Cross? That would be funny indeed, I can imagine those crowds of people, I guess, though it wouldn't take long for the police to come and stop me. Probably less than 5 minutes.

As for the renting a small room somewhere else in the UK, I am considering it but I have lot's of stuff, plenty of computers and hardware, lots of stuff bound to my current address, moving and changing everything without anyone's help in so short time won't be easy but I am thinking about it.

As for the dating a female with a soul, no, thanks, not any more, at least not anytime soon.

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12-10-2015, 09:18 AM

i'd say start by growing some balls

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#83

12-10-2015, 09:19 AM

It is symbolic dude just burn one picture of her then.
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#84

12-10-2015, 09:56 AM

Originally posted by Coup

lmao if anyone reads all that bullshit

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#85

12-10-2015, 10:06 AM

you are a grown man.

shitting your diaper more isn't going to make mommy run faster to make everything better for you.

99% of your obstacles are self-created.

if something is in your way. get rid of it.

spend your day forcing yourself to do things you don't want to do until you are in a better space.

or alternately let the lower self of you win and suck dicks and the glass pipe until you od or die of aids in the street like a dog.
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#86

12-10-2015, 10:26 AM

Originally posted by Webmazter

I always cared only about her and i devoted my life to her

This is where you failed. Might as well just kill yourself now, this world don't need another loser.
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#87

12-10-2015, 10:29 AM

Originally posted by Webmazter

That is also what my best friend is telling me. That it?s better this way because she was only tormenting me? but still, I liked to be tormented by her. Love is blind and it doesn?t choose.

Kill her (before you kill yourself). You will feel much release.
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#88

12-10-2015, 10:50 AM

Originally posted by BigFurry

Psychiatrists and the drugs they give work, they work for millions if people, why wouldn't they for you. Just try it.

He's not clinically depressed. He's just momentarily depressed with good reason. Why alter the chemicals in his brain when they are perfectly fine and doing what they're supposed to?
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#89

12-10-2015, 12:12 PM

Originally posted by MakeMeGrrrrowl

He's not clinically depressed. He's just momentarily depressed with good reason. Why alter the chemicals in his brain when they are perfectly fine and doing what they're supposed to?

He wanted to commit a suicide so no, nothing is "perfectly fine".

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#90

12-10-2015, 06:54 PM

Originally posted by SpicyM

He wanted to commit a suicide so no, nothing is "perfectly fine".

People who want to commit suicide don't call their BFF and tell them that they're going to do it before they do.

They just do it. This is pretty common knowledge.

He's depressed because his life has been flipped upside down. He needs to feel his emotions so he can move on with life. It's the only way to do it.
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