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  • wehateporn
    Promoting Debate on GFY
    • Apr 2007
    • 27176

    #61
    Originally posted by BigFurry
    Psychiatrists and the drugs they give work, they work for millions if people, why wouldn't they for you. Just try it.
    Yes, but avoid the drugs, they are linked to suicide

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    • Shap
      Confirmed User
      • May 2001
      • 8313

      #62
      Originally posted by Webmazter
      I could have posted it more official way, some of you know me, but I think that perhaps it's not a good idea and it will be better if I stay anon.
      Even though I'm very neutral person in here and in the industry and I have never had any conflicts with anyone of you. But it's better I stay anon so that If I will stay alive this won't affect how you will see me in future.

      Feel free to post anything you like as response, even if it won't be nice.
      I just would like to read what other people think about it, perhaps some of you have been in similar situation and survived it and you are fine now.

      Sorry for mistypes/errors, I don't feel like going back to correct them.

      I forgot to add that I had only one partner in my whole life, perhaps that's also why it's so devastating for me right now.

      Sorry to hear that. That's rough.

      If you want the truth email me your idea. I'll give you feedback and let you know whether you should pursue or not. I'll be honest. My gut tells me you may be hanging on to an idea that isn't as good as you may think it is or isn't realistically achievable.

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      • Shap
        Confirmed User
        • May 2001
        • 8313

        #63
        Originally posted by Matyko
        Completely Ignore the retarded replies like the robbery/kissthegun one.

        You should do something that needs your attention, and even a shitty temporary job will do it. I also suggest to talk with a pro, or if you have intelligent friends nearby who take this seriously and willing to help..

        When you are on the ground already, there is No Other Option but to Stand Up. I hate those who keep struggling and agonizing on the floor, instead of getting themselves together and make an effort. It is not that tough, and if you do it once in your life, the second one will be way more easy (life is long and this won't be the last similar case, don't be naive!) and also you will have the self-confidence from the past successes.

        Your age is indeed an important question, if you're young enough with dynamic comfort zone than moving to a different place on Earth could be good.

        Going back to your family seems to be not an option, if that home does not help you heal yourself than don't do that.

        Read a good book. Here's a short but very good one, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse . But there are plenty of good books for this state of mind.

        If you have experience with psychedelics, than some mushroom or acid can help, but Not Alone [!!] and if you are not experienced or ever had bad trip than this way is a no-no.

        Life is Beautiful, you always have to remember this. Shit happens, and will keep happening, but so mush happiness is wonderful things to be expected...

        What about instruments? Do you play on any? You should, it heals as well.

        Do Not Drink! It won't help but will make it worse. Obviously I mean don't start drinking for days. Getting wasted for one night could be OK, With [At Least One] Friend.

        Do you have a dog or a cat? They help too.

        Do Listen to music, but not (always) loud one, it won't help you find your Inner Peace.

        Do something GOOD. Do good to people around you. It will make you feel better and it is a good thing to do.

        Hey, no worries, you will be all right. Everything is gonna be all right!!


        Amazing advice!!!

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        • Shap
          Confirmed User
          • May 2001
          • 8313

          #64
          Originally posted by the Shemp
          There's tons of people a lot worse off than you...
          - be thankful that you dont have a terminal disease
          -be thankful that you are young enough to get back on track and do something with your life
          - be thankful that i took the time to read your post ...

          best regards,
          the Shemp

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          • ilnjscb
            Confirmed User
            • Jun 2009
            • 8972

            #65
            Originally posted by the Shemp
            There's tons of people a lot worse off than you...
            - be thankful that you dont have a terminal disease
            -be thankful that you are young enough to get back on track and do something with your life
            - be thankful that i took the time to read your post ...

            best regards,
            the Shemp
            Be thankful you didn't have kids with her,
            Be thankful you aren't in jail,
            Be thankful you don't have to live on $1 a day
            Be thankful you can write,
            You can get out.

            Go to a pediatric cancer ward. Watch the little children who can never leave that ammonia smelling ward and who can never be touched while they wait to die. Watch their parents cry. Be a real man and sing them a song or play a song on the guitar if you know how. Buy them a small present or a card. Go buy a cheap beer, dummy, and enjoy it. You're alive.

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            • VikingMan
              Exploiting human weakness
              • Jan 2008
              • 6857

              #66
              Ok I admit I did read the entire sob story and here are the cliff notes:

              1.He is a beta male and put his GF on a pedastal for their 10 year relationship but she began cheating on him with a guy who challenges her/is not such a nice guy so he makes her pussy wet. She kicked him out of their flat (flat is an apartment...for the stupid Americans who need a translation)

              2.He cunt afford another flat by himself in London. He has considered slitting his wrists like some dumb teenage girl who is seeking attention.

              3.He is asking for advice.

              My advice is the MAN THE FUCK UP. Get 3 jobs. Work your fucking ass off and save money.

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              • blackmonsters
                Making PHP work
                • Nov 2002
                • 20960

                #67
                Give up on your "project" and get a job.

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                • L-Pink
                  working on my tan
                  • Mar 2005
                  • 39151

                  #68
                  You're here whining because a relationship ended?

                  That's some funny shit man.

                  As for your project, take Shap's offer before you waste any more of your life.

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                  • Struggle4Bucks
                    Sieg Hi!
                    • May 2011
                    • 3615

                    #69
                    I thought: here comes a story about a terrible disease plus a donation request...
                    Half troll half amazing!

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                    • Webmazter
                      Registered User
                      • Aug 2011
                      • 61

                      #70
                      Originally posted by Ferus
                      Enough with the crybaby attitude - you sound like a 17 year old girl on her period.

                      You ended up where you are now, because you dident take care of your relationship. Accept it -> Learn from it -> move forward
                      Many of you wondered how old I am, I?m over 30. I have never been a crybaby before even when many bad shit happened to me. I always endured it without shedding a tear.

                      Originally posted by The Porn Nerd
                      They don't accept pussies? Imagine that.
                      It's more about my age, nationality and physical condition, I don't think I can run 2km in 10 min without prior training.

                      Originally posted by BigFurry
                      Psychiatrists and the drugs they give work, they work for millions if people, why wouldn't they for you. Just try it.

                      Get some simple job with little stress, a change of environment with new people will do you good. I doubt they want a nice CV in a café or whatever.

                      As I understand you're a foreigner in London - it might also be an easy way to get a job if you find people from your country there. I'm sure they have a Facebook group, just ask there if they have something for you.

                      Then when you're in a better place mentally, you can think about getting a good job or continuing your project.
                      Originally posted by Matyko
                      Completely Ignore the retarded replies like the robbery/kissthegun one.

                      You should do something that needs your attention, and even a shitty temporary job will do it. I also suggest to talk with a pro, or if you have intelligent friends nearby who take this seriously and willing to help..

                      When you are on the ground already, there is No Other Option but to Stand Up. I hate those who keep struggling and agonizing on the floor, instead of getting themselves together and make an effort. It is not that tough, and if you do it once in your life, the second one will be way more easy (life is long and this won't be the last similar case, don't be naive!) and also you will have the self-confidence from the past successes.

                      Your age is indeed an important question, if you're young enough with dynamic comfort zone than moving to a different place on Earth could be good.

                      Going back to your family seems to be not an option, if that home does not help you heal yourself than don't do that.

                      Read a good book. Here's a short but very good one, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse . But there are plenty of good books for this state of mind.

                      If you have experience with psychedelics, than some mushroom or acid can help, but Not Alone [!!] and if you are not experienced or ever had bad trip than this way is a no-no.

                      Life is Beautiful, you always have to remember this. Shit happens, and will keep happening, but so mush happiness is wonderful things to be expected...

                      What about instruments? Do you play on any? You should, it heals as well.

                      Do Not Drink! It won't help but will make it worse. Obviously I mean don't start drinking for days. Getting wasted for one night could be OK, With [At Least One] Friend.

                      Do you have a dog or a cat? They help too.

                      Do Listen to music, but not (always) loud one, it won't help you find your Inner Peace.

                      Do something GOOD. Do good to people around you. It will make you feel better and it is a good thing to do.

                      Hey, no worries, you will be all right. Everything is gonna be all right!!
                      Originally posted by the Shemp
                      There's tons of people a lot worse off than you...
                      - be thankful that you dont have a terminal disease
                      -be thankful that you are young enough to get back on track and do something with your life
                      - be thankful that i took the time to read your post ...

                      best regards,
                      the Shemp
                      Thank you.

                      Originally posted by deonbell
                      Focus on a job and place to stay.

                      She has probably been waiting 10 years for you to become a millionaire. And got tired of waiting.

                      Find a shit job to support your big idea. Find a new girl. Swallow your pride, and find a fat girl with a good job to support you and your big idea.

                      Not judging you buddy. We are all lazy dreamers here.

                      Originally posted by Oracle Porn
                      you should be the one kicking her out of the flat and no her, you sound like a bitch and bitches don't like men bitches, so she found herself someone to man handle her...learn and dont make the same mistakes again


                      Originally posted by Shap
                      Sorry to hear that. That's rough.

                      If you want the truth email me your idea. I'll give you feedback and let you know whether you should pursue or not. I'll be honest. My gut tells me you may be hanging on to an idea that isn't as good as you may think it is or isn't realistically achievable.
                      The idea of this site is good and unique Shap, and it's already done but not launched "live".
                      With 8-12 hours of maintaining daily it should bring over 1 milion uniques per month in a year from the lauch. Adult seo targeted traffic. Should be enough to make a living at least? I guess even despite the ratios in affiliate business are poor now.
                      I analyzed all aspects of it. But no offense, I would not tell it anyone here unless that person wouldn't be directly in same business and had proven track of trust. I know you are retired now and that you are millionaire already but still I would not risk it because if I will keep alive then I'm going to push it forward.


                      Originally posted by ilnjscb
                      Be thankful you didn't have kids with her,
                      Be thankful you aren't in jail,
                      Be thankful you don't have to live on $1 a day
                      Be thankful you can write,
                      You can get out.

                      Go to a pediatric cancer ward. Watch the little children who can never leave that ammonia smelling ward and who can never be touched while they wait to die. Watch their parents cry. Be a real man and sing them a song or play a song on the guitar if you know how. Buy them a small present or a card. Go buy a cheap beer, dummy, and enjoy it. You're alive.
                      I know it can always be worse, I know.

                      Originally posted by VikingMan
                      Ok I admit I did read the entire sob story and here are the cliff notes:

                      1.He is a beta male and put his GF on a pedastal for their 10 year relationship but she began cheating on him with a guy who challenges her/is not such a nice guy so he makes her pussy wet. She kicked him out of their flat (flat is an apartment...for the stupid Americans who need a translation)

                      2.He cunt afford another flat by himself in London. He has considered slitting his wrists like some dumb teenage girl who is seeking attention.

                      3.He is asking for advice.

                      My advice is the MAN THE FUCK UP. Get 3 jobs. Work your fucking ass off and save money.
                      Yes, you are 100% right expect it wasn't to seek attention.
                      My fucking sig.

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                      • Webmazter
                        Registered User
                        • Aug 2011
                        • 61

                        #71
                        Originally posted by Struggle4Bucks
                        I thought: here comes a story about a terrible disease plus a donation request...
                        Nope, I don't want anyone's help. I've always done everything on my own not even asking own parents for any help and this should stay this way. I don't like to owe anyone anything and I prefer to stay anonymous.
                        I just wanted to hear what other people think about it all.
                        My fucking sig.

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                        • Best-In-BC
                          Confirmed User
                          • Jun 2002
                          • 9511

                          #72
                          Suicide is the cowards way out, its being glorified and I personally am sick of loosing friends to it.
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                          • Mickey_
                            • Nov 2005
                            • 4238

                            #73
                            After having skimmed through what you wrote, some friendly advice, condensed:

                            There are plenty of fish in the sea. There's more than you have time for, actually.
                            Focus on quantity. Enjoy every single one of them. Collect experiences. Based on what you wrote, there's definitely room for exploration in your life.
                            You'll not only bounce back, but you'll grow as a person. You'll most likely kick yourself while muttering "what was I thinking?"

                            If you're having trouble dealing with all this and/or you're busy feeling sorry for yourself, consider the following:
                            How much time do you have left on this planet if all goes well and life doesn't throw you a curveball, like an illness? Can you afford to waste even a portion of that time crying over this? Should you?

                            If you're still having trouble processing it, consider whether any of this will matter in 5 years. It won't. So don't waste your time and enjoy your life. You have the privilege to choose freely. Take advantage of that privilege.

                            ps. Regarding your professional life -- Scale down your lifestyle (if you're broke don't try to live in London). Get a job, be scrappy, resourceful and hustle to build your business on the side.


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                            • j3rkules
                              VIP
                              • Jul 2013
                              • 22111

                              #74
                              Originally posted by The Porn Nerd
                              They don't accept pussies? Imagine that.

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                              • CDSmith
                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                • May 2001
                                • 51460

                                #75
                                Originally posted by Webmazter
                                10 years of happiness and now suddenly a surprise SHIT.
                                Sounds more like you were happy and she wasn't. Either you were oblivious to her unhappiness or it's a case of someone's true colors taking a decade to reveal itself.

                                Either way this will look a whole lot different a year or two from now. Doesn't help you now of course, but if you can't get a handle on the depression there's always good old Dr Zoloft.
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