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  • C_U_Next_Tuesday
    WW4L
    • Oct 2002
    • 10581

    #51
    People I consider users are those that knowingly set out to use someone for a specific purpose to only benefit themselves. How does one say if the said user is using or not when the supposed victim is giving freely and wants to do so?

    I am not denying the fact that there are "users" out there, they are everywhere..especially in this industry (hypocrites stand up for your rights!).

    I am just trying to give the guy some perspective from a less jaded woman hating killem all whores! point of view. No need to get your thong twisted up your sphincter

    Call me a whore.. dont give a fuck.. I call myself a cunt..

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    • GatorB
      The Demon & 12clicks
      • Oct 2001
      • 18208

      #52
      Originally posted by selena
      If you are picking her up after work, you know who she is going home with.

      As a former bartender, I have a lot of pretty cool stuff that was given to me by my customers. Most of it is sports oriented, as they all knew who my favorite teams were.

      I never slept with any of them, and if they hoped that I would, they were never obvious about it.

      Stop and think about this industry. How many members shower solo girls with stuff off their wish lists? Do they think they'll really get a chance to fuck them? No, they are lonely guys, and the girl (if she's smart) knows how to play that to keep them coming back.

      There is not a vast difference between a solo girl who knows how to interact and retain her members and a bartender who knows how to be friendly and rake in tips. Well, there is the nudity difference, of course, but it is a business, and both women are there to make money.

      I'd not worry about it, were I you. If you do get to the point where you do care about her, and the dinners bother you, then you could and probably should ask her to not go to them.

      But to ask her to stop accepting presents from customers is overboard, imho.
      it's not just the gifts, she is going out on dates with other guys she met at the bar. How come no girls from the bar ask her to go out on the town? Hmmmm.

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      • Cyndalie
        Confirmed User
        • Jan 2002
        • 3615

        #53
        you need to make a decision - Are you insecure or is she disrespectful? She may like you but not ready to settle down period. Or you are simply a booty call and not good enough for her to spend all her time with.
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        • C_U_Next_Tuesday
          WW4L
          • Oct 2002
          • 10581

          #54
          Originally posted by thehand
          Who is talking about controlling??? If I read correctly , the guy is just asking if he should trust a the girl and the answer , from her actions is FUCK NO.
          never said he was controlling.. I was just putting out some advice for all to read..take it how you want it. Its true from my personal experience.

          Damn, I have met some jaded women in my life and times.. but some of you guys on here take the cake.

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          • selena
            Confirmed User
            • Aug 2004
            • 7995

            #55
            Originally posted by GatorB
            it's not just the gifts, she is going out on dates with other guys she met at the bar. How come no girls from the bar ask her to go out on the town? Hmmmm.
            I agree with you on that. If they are 'dating' and he doesn't like her going out to dinner with other guys, then they need to get that worked out on what is acceptable for the both of them.
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            • C_U_Next_Tuesday
              WW4L
              • Oct 2002
              • 10581

              #56
              Originally posted by GatorB
              it's not just the gifts, she is going out on dates with other guys she met at the bar. How come no girls from the bar ask her to go out on the town? Hmmmm.
              How do you know she isnt getting hit on by girls too?..You DONT KNOW. In fact, you seem to be more of an expert on this girl than the guy dating her..

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              • DickShoke
                Confirmed User
                • Oct 2003
                • 1236

                #57
                Originally posted by Cyndalie
                you need to make a decision - Are you insecure or is she disrespectful? She may like you but not ready to settle down period. Or you are simply a booty call and not good enough for her to spend all her time with.
                She is not disrespectful to me. She is actually far from disrespectful, this is actually why I am considering becoming a serious boyfriend with her even though the nature of her work. When we go out to eat when my glass is empty she always fills the glass up. She even cuts my steak for me before I start eating. On the other hand we already both agreed that we aren't really looking for anything serious (like marriage). I actually would be all fine and dandy with the current situation if I was just her booty call, but she was the one that kind of forced us into being a couple when she asked if I was her boyfriend. I actually didn't answer the question, I just said I don't know, but then she started calling me "honey" and telling her other girlfriends I'm her boyfriend where she works. I just think she wanted to claim me for herself, before I had a chance to bang her other friends who work at the bar.
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                • GatorB
                  The Demon & 12clicks
                  • Oct 2001
                  • 18208

                  #58
                  Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                  People I consider users are those that knowingly set out to use someone for a specific purpose to only benefit themselves. How does one say if the said user is using or not when the supposed victim is giving freely and wants to do so?
                  Users often get people to give up things freeley that's why they can be users. They have that skill. The fact that she KNOWS she not giving up pussy and she KNOWS that's why she is getting the gifts and free diners by definition makes her a user. A non-user would delcine the gifts and dinners and tell those guys she would not want to lead them on.

                  You can paint a pile of horse shit yellow and call it gold, it's still horse shit and she's still a user.

                  I am not denying the fact that there are "users" out there, they are everywhere..especially in this industry (hypocrites stand up for your rights!).
                  yes yes porn is evil. blah blah blah.

                  I am just trying to give the guy some perspective from a less jaded woman hating killem all whores! point of view. No need to get your thong twisted up your sphincter

                  Please I'm just trying to give this guy a dose of REALITY. I've got no dog in this fight. Do I care if he gets used or not? I'm not in the situation so I think I have a better perspective than him. Right now he's got pussy blindness.

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                  • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                    WW4L
                    • Oct 2002
                    • 10581

                    #59
                    cuts your steak for you....shit..sounds like a keeper at the moment..enjoy the attention, she gets so much for others that doenst mean shit to her, she just wants to give...I can feel this girl totally.

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                    • GatorB
                      The Demon & 12clicks
                      • Oct 2001
                      • 18208

                      #60
                      Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                      How do you know she isnt getting hit on by girls too?..You DONT KNOW. In fact, you seem to be more of an expert on this girl than the guy dating her..

                      If she was going out with girls from the bar I assume the guy would bring it up. He didn't. I am going by the info given by him. If it is inaccurate blame him not me.

                      he's IN the situation he's emotionally involved that right there makes for bad decision making. I however not being involved have the ability to dismiss emotion and use pure logic, pure reasoning and pure intelligence because when you do that you will come to the correct conclusion the overwhelmingly vast majority of the time and that goes for everything in life. And that is FACT.

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                      • HorseShit
                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                        • Dec 2004
                        • 17513

                        #61
                        just fuck her and don't get serious, preferably get anal sex from her then leave her to accept gifts from guys on the side of the road

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                        • Furious_Male
                          Doing the grind since 99
                          • Oct 2003
                          • 16884

                          #62
                          I wouldn't worry about it to much. If she is into supplicating men she would be a rarity. She should continue to take the gifts from the poor saps and laugh. You should enjoy your relationship for what it is.
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                          • GTS Mark
                            Vrume Mark
                            • Jan 2001
                            • 20912

                            #63
                            Originally posted by Voodoo
                            Bar 1: Her Ex
                            Bar 2: YOU
                            Bar 3: The next guy (More money, better looking, nicer, badder, smells better etc...)
                            Bar 4: She hasn't met him yet

                            With this diagram you can clearly see how this would apply to you.

                            As she swings on her current bar, back and forth, she has a close reach to the one behind her and the one in front of her, just in case YOU don't work out.

                            And when she's tired of swinging, she just lets go of the bars, and spends some quality time with her girl friends. Have no fear, she'll be back on the bars in no time.
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                            • DatingGold
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                              • Feb 2003
                              • 13185

                              #64
                              If you want anything more with her than fucking, then she'll eventually have to quit being a slutty bartender. You should try taking a bunch of girls to lunch and see how she feels about it. If you can't find any then just make it up. give her a taste of her own medicine and see how that works out.

                              Not too much wrong with being a bartender, but going to lunch with a bunch of guys you don't know isnt cool.
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                              • klaze
                                So Fucking Banned
                                • May 2008
                                • 2167

                                #65
                                Originally posted by DickShoke
                                She is not disrespectful to me. She is actually far from disrespectful, this is actually why I am considering becoming a serious boyfriend with her even though the nature of her work. When we go out to eat when my glass is empty she always fills the glass up. She even cuts my steak for me before I start eating. On the other hand we already both agreed that we aren't really looking for anything serious (like marriage). I actually would be all fine and dandy with the current situation if I was just her booty call, but she was the one that kind of forced us into being a couple when she asked if I was her boyfriend. I actually didn't answer the question, I just said I don't know, but then she started calling me "honey" and telling her other girlfriends I'm her boyfriend where she works. I just think she wanted to claim me for herself, before I had a chance to bang her other friends who work at the bar.
                                How long did you know her before you fucked? She asked you if you wanted to be her S.O right after fucking?

                                Her telling other people you are her BF is a key thing.

                                I was in the exact same position a few months ago... super hot bartender, lots of "regulars" as friends always getting gifts and emptying phone numbers out of her pockets.. and I just didn't trust her...

                                It had nothing to do with her being a slut because she wasn't I just did not trust her..

                                So you also gotta becarful that yer not just a paranoid idiot..

                                One thing I noticed is you said you may as well just get another gf to take off the pressure..

                                Well thats what I used to do to get rid of the jealous, paranoid feeling I had with all of my gfs..

                                and I realized... No wonder i'm fucking paranoid of girls cheating on me.. I am fucking cheating on them!

                                I have pushed away a lot of awesome girls because of being jealous/paranoid/untrusting..
                                Last edited by klaze; 07-22-2008, 10:19 AM.

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                                • DickShoke
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Oct 2003
                                  • 1236

                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by klaze
                                  How long did you know her before you fucked? She asked you if you wanted to be her S.O right after fucking?

                                  Her telling other people you are her BF is a key thing.

                                  I was in the exact same position a few months ago... super hot bartender, lots of "regulars" as friends always getting gifts and emptying phone numbers out of her pockets.. and I just didn't trust her...

                                  It had nothing to do with her being a slut because she wasn't I just did not trust her..

                                  So you also gotta becarful that yer not just a paranoid idiot..

                                  One thing I noticed is you said you may as well just get another gf to take off the pressure..

                                  Well thats what I used to do to get rid of the jealous, paranoid feeling I had with all of my gfs..

                                  and I realized... No wonder i'm fucking paranoid of girls cheating on me.. I am fucking cheating on them!

                                  I have pushed away a lot of awesome girls because of being jealous/paranoid/untrusting..
                                  the third or fourth time i visited her at the bar was when we did the deed. i already knew she was interested though the first time i went to the bar and talked to her. second time i went back to the bar she gave me her number. i didn't call her though, i just visited her again at the bar the next week, and this is when we slept together.

                                  maybe i do think about what the fuck is going on too much, or over analyze things, but just the situations of getting presents and her going out to eat with guys she just meets at the bar would make any guy question the girl i think.
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                                  • ADL Colin
                                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                                    • Feb 2001
                                    • 11929

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by DickShoke
                                    the nature of her work. .
                                    ???

                                    It's not like she is a stripper. You need to get tougher skin.


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                                    • DickShoke
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Oct 2003
                                      • 1236

                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by ADL Colin
                                      ???

                                      It's not like she is a stripper. You need to get tougher skin.
                                      that probably came out wrong. i meant the current situation of getting presents from guys, and going on late night dinners with guys she just meets from her work. these dinners are at like 2am or 4am, not the regular dinners.

                                      i'd be fine if she was just a bartender. and getting presents actually doesn't bother me that much either. it's the going with the guys she meets after her work that's the one that really gets to me.

                                      in actuality, i think i've handled the situation maturely so far. i haven't even brought this up to her yet. it's just something that's been on my mind.
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                                      • O MARINA
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                                        • Mar 2003
                                        • 13794

                                        #69
                                        Bartenders & Hairstylists are like therapists.. professional listeners
                                        She is just offering a therapeutic service ;)

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                                        • HorseShit
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Dec 2004
                                          • 17513

                                          #70
                                          Have you fucked her in the ass yet?

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                                          • Doctor Dre
                                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                                            • Jan 2001
                                            • 51692

                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by MetaMan
                                            your girl is a slut for accepting gifts from random men, also means she is most likely a money hungry hoe.
                                            I know personally every hot bartenders in my city and I don't know many that are getting gifts from her clients... the ones that are going to 'eat' with the clients normally often end up in bed with them.

                                            She sounds more like a stripper then a bartender.
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                                            • Vicious_B
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • May 2008
                                              • 2564

                                              #72
                                              I was a bartender for 9 years. Usually regulars take care of you by being consistent good tippers, by coming in on your shifts and generally being nice to you. I have regulars that I have gotten to be friends with (it was a lil local bar) that for b-days and Christmas might get me a card with either cash or a gift certificate in it. People that I was that friendly with though would also know more about what was going on in my life and if I did have a boyfriend would meet and get to know them. I have also gone out to eat with some of my regulars but more often in a group and also someone I knew pretty well. If some random dude asked me out at 3am Im thinking he is looking for more than bacon and eggs.

                                              Its not just her actions but the context. If she is introducing you to these people, is fine with you being at her work, and is open about being in a relationship then its no big deal. If she is saying to you that she has to keep you down low or it could hurt her money or shit like that kick her to the curb. None of my regulars ever "punished" me because I had a boyfriend.
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                                              • dav3
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • May 2007
                                                • 7348

                                                #73
                                                Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                getting presents from guys, and going on late night dinners with guys she just meets from her work. these dinners are at like 2am or 4am, not the regular dinners.
                                                they are always catching the chicken taco and tubesteak specials.
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                                                • Vicious_B
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • May 2008
                                                  • 2564

                                                  #74
                                                  Originally posted by DatingGold
                                                  If you want anything more with her than fucking, then she'll eventually have to quit being a slutty bartender. You should try taking a bunch of girls to lunch and see how she feels about it. If you can't find any then just make it up. give her a taste of her own medicine and see how that works out.

                                                  Not too much wrong with being a bartender, but going to lunch with a bunch of guys you don't know isnt cool.
                                                  Bartender does not automatically equal slut. You can be a librarian and be a slut and take guys for their money and cheat. Its all about doing your job with integrity.
                                                  In all my years bartending I never once led a guy to believe he had a chance in order to get more money off of them, I never served someone that shouldnt be served in order to make more money off of them and on more than one occasion if someone was banged up and gave me an over the top tip I would double check with them to make sure they realized they did that (ie gave me a $50 and told me to keep the change on $3 drink)
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                                                  • GatorB
                                                    The Demon & 12clicks
                                                    • Oct 2001
                                                    • 18208

                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by 12clicksMichele
                                                    Bartender does not automatically equal slut.
                                                    he didn't say that. He said she has to stop being a slutty bartender. That in no way infers that all bartenders are sluts. All he is saying is that she can be bartender stop being a slut. Since she is appearantly using her job as a bartender to get her men then it's proper to mention her job. If I said Bush needs to stop being a shitty president, I am not saying all presidents are shitty.

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                                                    • Supz
                                                      Arthur Flegenheimer
                                                      • Jul 2006
                                                      • 11057

                                                      #76
                                                      shes really a stripper

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                                                      • Andy Servers4Less
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                                                        • Apr 2007
                                                        • 922

                                                        #77
                                                        Get out of there homeboy... or disconnect emotionally
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                                                        • who
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Aug 2003
                                                          • 19593

                                                          #78
                                                          You've got a keeper ... not.

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                                                          • The Heron
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Apr 2001
                                                            • 4496

                                                            #79
                                                            Enjoy the ride but don't expect it to last forever.

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                                                            • Holly
                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                              • Jun 2003
                                                              • 10017

                                                              #80
                                                              Nothing wrong with having guy friends.

                                                              Showing up with sack loads of presents from them, is a whole different story. That's stripper mentality. As long as you're not trying to make her "the one", then go for it.

                                                              I say let her keep taking the presents from the dumb dumbs and then fuck her in the ass until somebody better comes along. It's a win-win.
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                                                              • BradM
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                                                                • Dec 2003
                                                                • 3397

                                                                #81
                                                                Originally posted by Holly
                                                                Nothing wrong with having guy friends.

                                                                Showing up with sack loads of presents from them, is a whole different story. That's stripper mentality. As long as you're not trying to make her "the one", then go for it.

                                                                I say let her keep taking the presents from the dumb dumbs and then fuck her in the ass until somebody better comes along. It's a win-win.
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                                                                • tranza
                                                                  ICQ: 197-556-237
                                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                                  • 57559

                                                                  #82
                                                                  She goes out to eat with these guys, as "friends" only and they always pay?

                                                                  Seems like bullshit to me. She's probably cheating you.

                                                                  I wouldn't tolerate that for a second.

                                                                  I'm just a newbie.

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                                                                  • SCORE Ralph
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                                                                    • Mar 2003
                                                                    • 2090

                                                                    #83
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                                                                    • Penny24Seven
                                                                      So Fucking What
                                                                      • Jun 2007
                                                                      • 6287

                                                                      #84
                                                                      did you buy her gifts and take her out like these guys do? It really shouldn't matter though unless she left her last bf for you for that reason. I would be helping her say the right things to get the most from these guys. I dated a stripper for a couple years and often told her what to say to get the most from these idiots who think with their cock. I even became the brother to get a few good deals myself hahaha.
                                                                      if you can't trust them it is pointless anyway.
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                                                                      • Kimo
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                                                                        • Jan 2006
                                                                        • 11542

                                                                        #85
                                                                        Originally posted by klaze
                                                                        CU_Next_Tuesday you are definately an exception..

                                                                        You wouldn't believe how girls act these days...

                                                                        Often regular girls I meet are bigger whores than their porn counterpart..

                                                                        aint that the truth
                                                                        ...

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                                                                        • HomeFry
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                                                                          • Jun 2006
                                                                          • 1062

                                                                          #86
                                                                          If you are female, and you are ugly... You have guy friends.
                                                                          If you are female, and you are hot... You have guys that want to fuck you.
                                                                          If you are male, and you are ugly... You have girls that are friends that you want to fuck.
                                                                          If you are male, and you are hot... You have girls that you do fuck, and others that want to be your friend so they can fuck you later.

                                                                          But, don't get me wrong... If you are female and ugly... Most guys will still fuck you given the right circumstances.
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                                                                          • Kudles
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                                                                            • Feb 2003
                                                                            • 5477

                                                                            #87
                                                                            I wouldn't worry
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                                                                            • fujiko
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                                                                              • Jan 2008
                                                                              • 566

                                                                              #88
                                                                              break the relationship .. Or keep fucking her without getting attached.
                                                                              I would personally just break it up.
                                                                              goodluck.
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                                                                              • mikesouth
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                                                                                • Jun 2003
                                                                                • 6340

                                                                                #89
                                                                                just remember before you met her there was some poor son of a bitch out there whose life she had made miserable

                                                                                Guess who's next
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                                                                                • DickShoke
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                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                  • 1236

                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by supzdotcom
                                                                                  shes really a stripper
                                                                                  jeez...she's not a stripper. she's a bartender at a bar. why would i bullshit about that on my first post?? if she was a stripper i would have said she is a stripper. why would i hide that on GFY??
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                                                                                  • DickShoke
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                                                                                    • Oct 2003
                                                                                    • 1236

                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by Brian837
                                                                                    did you buy her gifts and take her out like these guys do? It really shouldn't matter though unless she left her last bf for you for that reason. I would be helping her say the right things to get the most from these guys. I dated a stripper for a couple years and often told her what to say to get the most from these idiots who think with their cock. I even became the brother to get a few good deals myself hahaha.
                                                                                    if you can't trust them it is pointless anyway.

                                                                                    i haven't bought her one single gift or present yet...but of course when we go out to eat i always pay, i think it's just gentlemen to do. i wouldn't let a female pay for the meal if we just started dating. maybe down the road if we were serious i would let her pay because we felt more comfortable together.
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                                                                                    • Defiance Inc
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                                                                                      • Apr 2008
                                                                                      • 142

                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by jdavis
                                                                                      Have you fucked her in the ass yet?

                                                                                      Nice! Keep your priorities straight!

                                                                                      Seriously tho, obviously it bothers you or else you wouldn't be asking
                                                                                      a bunch of strangers wtf. It has nothing to do with insecurity, and everything
                                                                                      to do with self respect. If its not something YOU want in a relationship
                                                                                      the tell her gtf out! If you had a gang of hot chicks
                                                                                      giving you presents and taking you out to dinner, she would be having a shit
                                                                                      fit.

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                                                                                      • DickShoke
                                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                                        • Oct 2003
                                                                                        • 1236

                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        GFY has spoken! and the verdict is:

                                                                                        i'm not going to take this relationship seriously. it's hard to get emotionally involved if your banging the chick a few times a week, so i think i'm gonna start banging another chick on the side so i won't get emotionally attached. i didn't want to do this just out of respect for her because i wasn't sure if i wanted a serious relationship with her or not, but since GFY has helped me make my decision, i guess it's okay now. LOL

                                                                                        also, i'm not gonna get her any gifts or presents, but i do think i should still be a gentleman and pay for meals when we go out. at least if she still stays with me i know she likes me for who i am and not because i would be buying her shit. and if shit hits the fan and things get fucked up because a fault of hers i'll just get her back by hitting on one of her coworkers...i know she would hate that. she never wants to let them ride in my car with us when we go out. i don't think she wants me to get personal with her coworkers.
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                                                                                        • Dirty F
                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                                                          • 59204

                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          She most likely sucks some cock here and there as well.

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                                                                                          • Gunni
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Apr 2003
                                                                                            • 2385

                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            personally I wouldn't mind about the gifts, going out to eat with them after work on the other hand...

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                                                                                            • l0lf4c3
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Feb 2008
                                                                                              • 574

                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              Unfortunately the one and only thing you need to keep in your mind is that every woman is a b.i.t.c.h.

                                                                                              No matter if 16 or 32, age does not matter, no matter if bartender or CEO, job does not matter, no matter if ugly or hot, look does not matter.

                                                                                              THEY ARE ALL WOMAN AND ALL THE SAME.

                                                                                              Youre fucking a bartender now, who 'dates' new "friends" all the time, (WHAT THE FUCK FOR ?!) decide if you want her for the rest of your life, and then you can tell her to stop meeting guys and accepting gifts. IF you dont want her for the rest of your life, dont give a shit, fuck her a couple of more times and move on (USE CONDOM, probalby she fucks here and there alot). The other thing after you got clear with yourself, is to ask if she wants you for the rest of her life (usually the answer doesnt matter, cause woman are mastering the lies, but can make things easier for you if she answers a direct NO).

                                                                                              Cheers

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                                                                                              • HomeFry
                                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                                • Jun 2006
                                                                                                • 1062

                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                Originally posted by Defiance Inc
                                                                                                If you had a gang of hot chicks
                                                                                                giving you presents and taking you out to dinner, she would be having a shit
                                                                                                fit.
                                                                                                Fucking TRUTH!

                                                                                                Jealousy would kick in on her part (if she really cared), and she would have a total fit if you had chicks bringing you gifts. I fucking HATE that shit. Most of the women I know do this bullshit, they act one way, but then when you do the EXACT same thing back to them, they get fucking bent, and can't handle it.
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                                                                                                • Fetish Gimp
                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                  • Feb 2005
                                                                                                  • 1699

                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  Beat her a couple of times a week with a car antenna, take her gifts and cash and voilá, you can now call yourself her pimp.
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                                                                                                  • nico-t
                                                                                                    emperor of my world
                                                                                                    • Aug 2004
                                                                                                    • 29901

                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    sounds to me like she is a whore.... if she goes out with some guy on a late night dinner ofcourse the guy tries to fuck her. And the fact that she just plays along shows that she wants it too and does it, or she is just cheap as fuck wanting free dinner. Or both. What a whore.

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                                                                                                    • HeavenLeeGoddess
                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                      • Jan 2006
                                                                                                      • 428

                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      If you trust her you won't say anything to her.

                                                                                                      She's been doing this since before she got with you, so yeah it will be selfish to ask her to stop doing what she loves to do.

                                                                                                      That's my
                                                                                                      I am no ANGEL

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