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  • DickShoke
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    • Oct 2003
    • 1236
    #1

    If you've been dating this girl and...

    Say you've been dating a girl for a few months and because of the nature of her work (she's a bartender) she always gets things from guys who she gets to know from her work. they buy her presents and of course she takes them, i mean who woudn't! we all know they are doing this to try and get into her pants, i mean there is no other reason why they would do this. should you let this bother you? of course there will be some kind of animosity when you see these new presents she gets from guys, but is it even worth making an issue over it?
    in addition to this, she also meets new guys consistently and goes out to eat with them after work just as friends, even though we all know they have other things on their mind like hopefully scoring after that late night dinner. would this bother you? should you be selfish and make an issue out of it?
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    • DickShoke
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      • Oct 2003
      • 1236
      #2
      one other point to remember is that before you met her she was already a bartender and this was a normal thing for her...so telling her to stop because your her boyfriend now might be a little selfish???? or out of respect for you do you think she should stop accepting the gifts and going out to eat with guys she meets where she bartends?
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        • Voodoo
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          • Sep 2002
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          #3

          "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

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            • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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              • Oct 2002
              • 10581
              #4
              Trust your g/f and it wont matter.. she will be sharing those presents with you and bringing home damn good food for you to eat sometimes.

              Now if she isnt sharing , then you two arent the item you thought you are.

              Was always funny when I got taken to dinner by a so called customer.. ordering a steak
              and a side of lobter tail for take out....

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                • DickShoke
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                  • Oct 2003
                  • 1236
                  #5
                  Originally posted by Voodoo
                  LOL..i don't get it....care to explain what that image has to do with the situation?
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                    • GatorB
                      The Demon & 12clicks
                      • Oct 2001
                      • 18208
                      #6
                      Originally posted by DickShoke
                      in addition to this, she also meets new guys consistently and goes out to eat with them after work just as friends,
                      Whatever you have to tell yourself.

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                        • thehand
                          235 Pound Gorilla
                          • Apr 2003
                          • 3470
                          #7
                          Originally posted by DickShoke
                          in addition to this, she also meets new guys consistently and goes out to eat with them after work just as friends, even though we all know they have other things on their mind like hopefully scoring after that late night dinner. would this bother you? should you be selfish and make an issue out of it?
                          This is the part sucks - "friends" my ass - the guy is trying to get some
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                            • Voodoo
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                              • Sep 2002
                              • 10600
                              #8
                              Originally posted by Voodoo
                              Bar 1: Her Ex
                              Bar 2: YOU
                              Bar 3: The next guy (More money, better looking, nicer, badder, smells better etc...)
                              Bar 4: She hasn't met him yet

                              With this diagram you can clearly see how this would apply to you.

                              As she swings on her current bar, back and forth, she has a close reach to the one behind her and the one in front of her, just in case YOU don't work out.

                              And when she's tired of swinging, she just lets go of the bars, and spends some quality time with her girl friends. Have no fear, she'll be back on the bars in no time.
                              Last edited by Voodoo; 07-22-2008, 09:36 AM.

                              "I'm selflessly supporting the common good, but only coincidentally looking out for No.1."

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                                • DickShoke
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                                  • Oct 2003
                                  • 1236
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by GatorB
                                  Whatever you have to tell yourself.
                                  LOL...i guess your not okay with this then.

                                  I see it two ways. 1) If you don't make an issue of it out of actual good intentions of not trying to be selfish, the girlfriend might see it as your a pussy and have no spinal cord because your not making an issue out of it. A real man should bring it up and fight for his girl?

                                  2) If you make an issue out of it your insecure...

                                  I haven't brought it up yet to her because we aren't really that serious. It's only been two months, but when I think about it if I'm going to stay with this girl for a year or more, and seeing this consistently I don't think I'll be able to handle it.
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                                    • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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                                      • Oct 2002
                                      • 10581
                                      #10
                                      Originally posted by thehand
                                      This is the part sucks - "friends" my ass - the guy is trying to get some
                                      duh..arent all guys trying to get some..they only get some if she gives it to them.

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                                        • thehand
                                          235 Pound Gorilla
                                          • Apr 2003
                                          • 3470
                                          #11
                                          Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                          duh..arent all guys trying to get some..they only get some if she gives it to them.
                                          So how many new gift bearing "friends" will she be dining with after work before she gives it up?

                                          I'm curious how he met her originally, was it in the bar?

                                          I'm not trying to be harsh, just realistic.
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                                            • DickShoke
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                                              • Oct 2003
                                              • 1236
                                              #12
                                              shit man...you hit the target. i had the exact same thoughts. i was think maybe i was better than the last guy, and when another guy walks into the bar that she sees more potential in than me i'd be dropped like a bad habit without a second thought.

                                              Originally posted by Voodoo
                                              Bar 1: Her Ex
                                              Bar 2: YOU
                                              Bar 3: The next guy (More money, better looking, nicer, badder, smells better etc...)
                                              Bar 4: She hasn't met him yet

                                              With this diagram you can clearly see how this would apply to you.

                                              As she swings on her current bar, back and forth, she has a close reach to the one behind her and the one in front of her, just in case YOU don't work out.

                                              And when she's tired of swinging, she just lets go of the bars, and spends some quality time with her girl friends. Have no fear, she'll be back on the bars in no time.
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                                                • GatorB
                                                  The Demon & 12clicks
                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                  • 18208
                                                  #13
                                                  Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                  LOL...i guess your not okay with this then.

                                                  I see it two ways. 1) If you don't make an issue of it out of actual good intentions of not trying to be selfish, the girlfriend might see it as your a pussy and have no spinal cord because your not making an issue out of it. A real man should bring it up and fight for his girl?

                                                  2) If you make an issue out of it your insecure...

                                                  I haven't brought it up yet to her because we aren't really that serious. It's only been two months, but when I think about it if I'm going to stay with this girl for a year or more, and seeing this consistently I don't think I'll be able to handle it.
                                                  Listen she may think these guys are just being nice, but they wants her ass. If she is stupid enough to think they are just friends she is stupid enough to be conned into fucking them. And if she is that stupid she is too stupid for me. Fact is though she isn't stupid.

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                                                    • MetaMan
                                                      I AM WEB 2.0
                                                      • Jan 2003
                                                      • 28682
                                                      #14
                                                      your girl is a slut for accepting gifts from random men, also means she is most likely a money hungry hoe.

                                                      one day cuss her out real hard to wear it hurts her deeply and somehow apply to all the "greaseballs" who are friends with her and buys her gifts, this way it will bring her down a peg, then make it up to her by telling her "you are the one who really cares about her" and do something nice to cheer her up.

                                                      this way she will always have an open wound to bring her down to your level and you can always be the guy "who likes her for who she really is".

                                                      then whenever something happens again you can put it in her face "see i dont have to do that because i like you for who you really are, these guys just want your pussy" then you will end up being the good guy and she will eventually hate all men for trying to "buy her love".

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                                                        • DickShoke
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                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                          • 1236
                                                          #15
                                                          Originally posted by thehand
                                                          So how many new gift bearing "friends" will she be dining with after work before she gives it up?

                                                          I'm curious how he met her originally, was it in the bar?

                                                          I'm not trying to be harsh, just realistic.
                                                          yes, i met her at the bar where she works....the thing is when i went there the first time i knew she liked me, we just talked the first time. second time i went there she gave me her number without even having to ask. third time the deal was sealed when we hit the sack, and afterwards she asked me if i was her boyfriend now. i usually don't get into relationships with girls that work at these types of places and try to not get attached but this girl is smoking hot.
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                                                            • ADL Colin
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                                                              • Feb 2001
                                                              • 11929
                                                              #16
                                                              What kind of presents?


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                                                                • klaze
                                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                                  • May 2008
                                                                  • 2167
                                                                  #17
                                                                  I've dated a few bartenders they are the WORST girlfriends.

                                                                  They work evenings and weekends, dress slutty and are around drunk idiots who think she's hot all day.

                                                                  The guys giving her gifts etc are her "regulars" those guys pissed me off A LOT while I date a bartender...

                                                                  I've always ending it after ravaging her asshole....

                                                                  My suggestion to you is start treating her and the gifts and the other guys like you DO NOT GIVE A SHIT!

                                                                  If you start getting jealous and showing it you may as well just end it now..

                                                                  Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                  yes, i met her at the bar where she works....the thing is when i went there the first time i knew she liked me, we just talked the first time. second time i went there she gave me her number without even having to ask. third time the deal was sealed when we hit the sack, and afterwards she asked me if i was her boyfriend now. i usually don't get into relationships with girls that work at these types of places and try to not get attached but this girl is smoking hot.
                                                                  I've dated a lot of girls and the ones who act like you are describing always end up as trouble.. You are better off just fucking this girl and treating her like she doesn't matter or breaking up with her and finding someone better suited for you...
                                                                  Last edited by klaze; 07-22-2008, 09:49 AM.

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                                                                    • thehand
                                                                      235 Pound Gorilla
                                                                      • Apr 2003
                                                                      • 3470
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                      yes, i met her at the bar where she works....the thing is when i went there the first time i knew she liked me, we just talked the first time. second time i went there she gave me her number without even having to ask. third time the deal was sealed when we hit the sack, and afterwards she asked me if i was her boyfriend now. i usually don't get into relationships with girls that work at these types of places and try to not get attached but this girl is smoking hot.
                                                                      Smoking hot????

                                                                      Pound it out but don't get to attached buddy
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                                                                        • DickShoke
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                                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                                          • 1236
                                                                          #19
                                                                          Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                          Trust your g/f and it wont matter.. she will be sharing those presents with you and bringing home damn good food for you to eat sometimes.

                                                                          Now if she isnt sharing , then you two arent the item you thought you are.

                                                                          Was always funny when I got taken to dinner by a so called customer.. ordering a steak
                                                                          and a side of lobter tail for take out....

                                                                          i take it your female. it shows how different girls and guys think. your reply is the complete opposite from all the posts made by males.

                                                                          no offense of course, just funny to see the conflicting opinions when it comes to a guy and a girl.
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                                                                            • Grapesoda
                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                              • Jul 2003
                                                                              • 46234
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                              one other point to remember is that before you met her she was already a bartender and this was a normal thing for her...so telling her to stop because your her boyfriend now might be a little selfish???? or out of respect for you do you think she should stop accepting the gifts and going out to eat with guys she meets where she bartends?
                                                                              pretty simple really; deal with it or move on. -bmb

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                                                                                • _Richard_
                                                                                  Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                  • Oct 2006
                                                                                  • 30989
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  sounds like you have some issues man.. you need a steak and blow job day

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                                                                                    • dav3
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                                                                                      • May 2007
                                                                                      • 7348
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                      so telling her to stop because your her boyfriend now might be a little selfish???? or out of respect for you do you think she should stop accepting the gifts and going out to eat with guys she meets where she bartends?
                                                                                      You are setting yourself up for a bad relationship. She's going to dinner with dudes=She is shopping around for some one better.

                                                                                      Save yourself the trouble dude.
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                                                                                        • DickShoke
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                                                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                                                          • 1236
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          Originally posted by thehand
                                                                                          Smoking hot????

                                                                                          Pound it out but don't get to attached buddy
                                                                                          LOL...trust me that's what i'm doing now, but when you have sex with a chick on numerous occasions of course the feelings start playing a role. in addition, she asked me to sleep over at her place a few times already, and that just adds to start getting attached. i guess i'll just have to find a second one so i won't get so attached with this one.
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                                                                                            • klaze
                                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                                              • May 2008
                                                                                              • 2167
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              I should prolly add I am totally being negative and generalizing and assuming...

                                                                                              Your girl could be totally cool and honest and you have every right to trust her.. Who knows...

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                                                                                                • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                  WW4L
                                                                                                  • Oct 2002
                                                                                                  • 10581
                                                                                                  #25
                                                                                                  Originally posted by thehand
                                                                                                  So how many new gift bearing "friends" will she be dining with after work before she gives it up?

                                                                                                  I'm curious how he met her originally, was it in the bar?

                                                                                                  I'm not trying to be harsh, just realistic.
                                                                                                  HOw the fuck am I supposed to know..Im not her.

                                                                                                  I quit when I quit working in the bars....there was only one good customer I hung out with after that. He had met the hubby and we got together for smoke outs and lunch on occasion.

                                                                                                  The guy was lonley and loved to smoke weed with me..what can I say.


                                                                                                  When you start trying to control someone by telling them what they can and cannot do.. things are not good. You should just trust your partner to make the right decisions..if you cant.. relationship is doomed.

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                                                                                                    • AnniKN
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                                                                                                      • Feb 2008
                                                                                                      • 1682
                                                                                                      #26
                                                                                                      If I was you, I would talk to her and tell her your worries and facts and what you would like her to do, but never lose your temper even if she does. That's bound to make her actually think about it and either do something or not do it or bring it up again for further clarification... what happens will depend on the kind of person she is...

                                                                                                      Or, I would just go everyday to the bar and stare murderously at the guys when they approached her lol...

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                                                                                                        • PLATINUMPORN
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                                                                                                          • May 2008
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                                                                                                          #27
                                                                                                          Really to make an accurate decision we need to see some pics of her........LOL

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                                                                                                            • GeoAdultKiel
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                                                                                                              • May 2008
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                                                                                                              #28
                                                                                                              Originally posted by SBR Richard
                                                                                                              sounds like you have some issues man.. you need a steak and blow job day
                                                                                                              ...shit I forgot all about that Holiday? What day is it supposed to be on?
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                                                                                                                • DickShoke
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                                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                  • 1236
                                                                                                                  #29
                                                                                                                  Originally posted by ADL Colin
                                                                                                                  What kind of presents?
                                                                                                                  LOL..fuck i don't even want to see what it is. all i know is when i pick her up after work she has a bag of gifts. i just say "so you got another gift from your boyfriends huh?" and crack up. end of story. i don't want to make an issue out of it or even see what it is.
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                                                                                                                    • DickShoke
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                                                                                                                      • 1236
                                                                                                                      #30
                                                                                                                      Originally posted by PLATINUMPORN
                                                                                                                      Really to make an accurate decision we need to see some pics of her........LOL
                                                                                                                      you got it! next time we're in the sack i'll take a pic of her naked. she won't mind, i already joked about it one night and she just cracked up like it would be okay to take a picture of her naked while in bed. and if things go bad i'll post them in this thread. LOL
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                                                                                                                        • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                          WW4L
                                                                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                          • 10581
                                                                                                                          #31
                                                                                                                          Originally posted by dav3
                                                                                                                          You are setting yourself up for a bad relationship. She's going to dinner with dudes=She is shopping around for some one better.

                                                                                                                          Save yourself the trouble dude.
                                                                                                                          some of you guys are so clueless by lumping girls into categories.

                                                                                                                          Just becuase a female goes to eat with a guy does not mean that she is shopping for a fucking partner.. it just might mean she is hungry and doesnt want to pay for her food that day. Or better yet, she enjoys said mans company but not in a sexual way. It doesnt fucking matter if the guys are trying to get in her panties.. most females know this and just tend to not pay attention to it if we dont plan on sleeping with that person.

                                                                                                                          Most females know when we are going to spread the legs for a guy almost right after meeting him.

                                                                                                                          If she is inviting you to sleep over , that means she doesnt have guys over there all the time and that she picked you to come over. Enjoy it and see where it goes, if it doesnt work out..then it just doesnt work out.

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                                                                                                                            • DickShoke
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                                                                                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                              • 1236
                                                                                                                              #32
                                                                                                                              Originally posted by SBR Richard
                                                                                                                              sounds like you have some issues man.. you need a steak and blow job day
                                                                                                                              ya i do. it's not a real big issue yet though since we've been together for only a short length of time. i could easily end it with her without a second thought right now, but i know if i stay with her a bit longer there will start to be feeling soon since i'm already posting shit like this on GFY
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                                                                                                                                • DickShoke
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                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                  • 1236
                                                                                                                                  #33
                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by AnniKN
                                                                                                                                  If I was you, I would talk to her and tell her your worries and facts and what you would like her to do, but never lose your temper even if she does. That's bound to make her actually think about it and either do something or not do it or bring it up again for further clarification... what happens will depend on the kind of person she is...

                                                                                                                                  Or, I would just go everyday to the bar and stare murderously at the guys when they approached her lol...
                                                                                                                                  honestly, doing this in my opinion gives the girl the upper hand, and i don't think i can do that. it shows that she is in control of the relationship and makes the decision whether or not she should stop her actions. i know for a fact she is already wondering why i'm not getting jealous about her eating out with other guys or getting presents from other guys. sometimes when i'm dropping her to work she just sits in the car in complete silence all the way to work while i'm driving like something is wrong. i know she's probably wondering why i'm not acting like every other selfish boyfriend she had in the past, maybe thinking I think she's not good enough to even make it an issue. lol
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                                                                                                                                    • GatorB
                                                                                                                                      The Demon & 12clicks
                                                                                                                                      • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                                      • 18208
                                                                                                                                      #34
                                                                                                                                      Even if she's not fucking these guys, she knows that's what they want and she stilll takes the gifts and the free dinners. So therefor she is a user and most likely using you too. To be honest she is mostly likely fucking some of these dudes too. The fact you appear not to care she goes out on dates with other guys tells her that A) you don't give a shit about her or B) you're a pussy that'll let her do whatever she wants. Either way that's not good for you. If she really likes you then she'll be disappointed you appear not to give a shit. If she's using you, she'll keep you around because she knows you're fucking retarded.

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                                                                                                                                        • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                          WW4L
                                                                                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                                          • 10581
                                                                                                                                          #35
                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                                                                          i take it your female. it shows how different girls and guys think. your reply is the complete opposite from all the posts made by males.

                                                                                                                                          no offense of course, just funny to see the conflicting opinions when it comes to a guy and a girl.
                                                                                                                                          Im a female with experience in this area..HELLO. Im giving you the perspective from her point of view (possibly).

                                                                                                                                          Some of these bozos have ZERO experience with women..fact.

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                                                                                                                                            • DickShoke
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                                                                                                                                              • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                              • 1236
                                                                                                                                              #36
                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                              some of you guys are so clueless by lumping girls into categories.

                                                                                                                                              Just becuase a female goes to eat with a guy does not mean that she is shopping for a fucking partner.. it just might mean she is hungry and doesnt want to pay for her food that day. Or better yet, she enjoys said mans company but not in a sexual way. It doesnt fucking matter if the guys are trying to get in her panties.. most females know this and just tend to not pay attention to it if we dont plan on sleeping with that person.

                                                                                                                                              Most females know when we are going to spread the legs for a guy almost right after meeting him.

                                                                                                                                              If she is inviting you to sleep over , that means she doesnt have guys over there all the time and that she picked you to come over. Enjoy it and see where it goes, if it doesnt work out..then it just doesnt work out.

                                                                                                                                              one thing your not taking into account is that it's multiple guys, and guys that she just met at the bar. she hasn't even know the guys for even a month. so you can't really say it's because she enjoys their company, because she doesn't even really know them on a personal level.
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                                                                                                                                                • dav3
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                                                                                                                                                  #37
                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                                  some of you guys are so clueless by lumping girls into categories.

                                                                                                                                                  Just becuase a female goes to eat with a guy does not mean that she is shopping for a fucking partner.. it just might mean she is hungry and doesnt want to pay for her food that day. Or better yet, she enjoys said mans company but not in a sexual way. It doesnt fucking matter if the guys are trying to get in her panties.. most females know this and just tend to not pay attention to it if we dont plan on sleeping with that person.

                                                                                                                                                  Most females know when we are going to spread the legs for a guy almost right after meeting him.

                                                                                                                                                  If she is inviting you to sleep over , that means she doesnt have guys over there all the time and that she picked you to come over. Enjoy it and see where it goes, if it doesnt work out..then it just doesnt work out.

                                                                                                                                                  i've learned to see through bs over the years, not justify it.

                                                                                                                                                  sorry.
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                                                                                                                                                    • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                                      WW4L
                                                                                                                                                      • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                                                      • 10581
                                                                                                                                                      #38
                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by GatorB
                                                                                                                                                      Even if she's not fucking these guys, she knows that's what they want and she stilll takes the gifts and the free dinners. So therefor she is a user and most likely using you too. To be honest she is mostly likely fucking some of these dudes too. The fact you appear not to care she goes out on dates with other guys tells her that A) you don't give a shit about her or B) you're a pussy that'll let her do whatever she wants. Either way that's not good for you. If she really likes you then she'll be disappointed you appear not to give a shit. If she's using you, she'll keep you around because she knows you're fucking retarded.


                                                                                                                                                      accepting gifts knowing she isnt going to give up the pussy makes her a user... good grief.. grow up.

                                                                                                                                                      oh the male psyche runs wild sometimes

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                                                                                                                                                        • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                                          WW4L
                                                                                                                                                          • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                                                          • 10581
                                                                                                                                                          #39
                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                                                                                          one thing your not taking into account is that it's multiple guys, and guys that she just met at the bar. she hasn't even know the guys for even a month. so you can't really say it's because she enjoys their company, because she doesn't even really know them on a personal level.
                                                                                                                                                          I dont know her, correct. But you are making this into far more than what it really is.

                                                                                                                                                          Is she married?.. Have you declared her your girlfriend officially? My bet is if she declares you her "boyfriend" ..she wont be going out to eat after work with many guys, maybe a few on occassion..she will be racing home to you to get a good pussy pounding then fall asleep.

                                                                                                                                                          I wonder what the opinions would be if the guy was the bartender going out and the girl was the part time almost girlfriend

                                                                                                                                                          Seriously, my hubby and I have been together for 13 years..going on 14.. I danced , bartended and worked in the porn industry for all of those years...he is secure and I have been faithful. I guess I must be the whore excpetion

                                                                                                                                                          Hell, the man lets me fun wild at festivals with boys half my age.. but he knows who I come home to and he trusts me not to fuck it up.

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                                                                                                                                                            • klaze
                                                                                                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                                                                                                              • May 2008
                                                                                                                                                              • 2167
                                                                                                                                                              #40
                                                                                                                                                              CU_Next_Tuesday you are definately an exception..

                                                                                                                                                              You wouldn't believe how girls act these days...

                                                                                                                                                              Often regular girls I meet are bigger whores than their porn counterpart..

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                                                                                                                                                                • Sosa
                                                                                                                                                                  In Tushy Land
                                                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2002
                                                                                                                                                                  • 40149
                                                                                                                                                                  #41
                                                                                                                                                                  sounds like trouble at some point in time

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                                                                                                                                                                    • thehand
                                                                                                                                                                      235 Pound Gorilla
                                                                                                                                                                      • Apr 2003
                                                                                                                                                                      • 3470
                                                                                                                                                                      #42
                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                                                                                                      i guess i'll just have to find a second one so i won't get so attached with this one.

                                                                                                                                                                      BRAVO - there in lies the answer!!!!
                                                                                                                                                                      Theers no more money in porn - I got the last of it.

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                                                                                                                                                                        • HorseShit
                                                                                                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                                                                                          • Dec 2004
                                                                                                                                                                          • 17513
                                                                                                                                                                          #43
                                                                                                                                                                          lock her in a cage and do not let her out for a few weeks

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                                                                                                                                                                            • thehand
                                                                                                                                                                              235 Pound Gorilla
                                                                                                                                                                              • Apr 2003
                                                                                                                                                                              • 3470
                                                                                                                                                                              #44
                                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                                                              HOw the fuck am I supposed to know..Im not her.

                                                                                                                                                                              I quit when I quit working in the bars....there was only one good customer I hung out with after that. He had met the hubby and we got together for smoke outs and lunch on occasion.

                                                                                                                                                                              The guy was lonley and loved to smoke weed with me..what can I say.


                                                                                                                                                                              When you start trying to control someone by telling them what they can and cannot do.. things are not good. You should just trust your partner to make the right decisions..if you cant.. relationship is doomed.
                                                                                                                                                                              Who is talking about controlling??? If I read correctly , the guy is just asking if he should trust a the girl and the answer , from her actions is FUCK NO.
                                                                                                                                                                              Theers no more money in porn - I got the last of it.

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                                                                                                                                                                                • DickShoke
                                                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                                                                                                                                  • 1236
                                                                                                                                                                                  #45
                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by jdavis
                                                                                                                                                                                  lock her in a cage and do not let her out for a few weeks
                                                                                                                                                                                  LOL..your scaring me. you got some psychotic tendencies huh?
                                                                                                                                                                                  Last edited by DickShoke; 07-22-2008, 10:33 AM.
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                                                                                                                                                                                    • GatorB
                                                                                                                                                                                      The Demon & 12clicks
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                                                                                      • 18208
                                                                                                                                                                                      #46
                                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday


                                                                                                                                                                                      accepting gifts knowing she isnt going to give up the pussy makes her a user... good grief.. grow up.
                                                                                                                                                                                      yeah pretty much.

                                                                                                                                                                                      user
                                                                                                                                                                                      2. a person who uses something or someone selfishly or unethically [syn: exploiter]

                                                                                                                                                                                      ex·ploit
                                                                                                                                                                                      2. to use selfishly for one's own ends:


                                                                                                                                                                                      Where am I wrong?

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                                                                                                                                                                                        • ADL Colin
                                                                                                                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                                                                                                                          • Feb 2001
                                                                                                                                                                                          • 11929
                                                                                                                                                                                          #47
                                                                                                                                                                                          Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                                                                                                                          LOL..fuck i don't even want to see what it is. all i know is when i pick her up after work she has a bag of gifts. i just say "so you got another gift from your boyfriends huh?" and crack up. end of story. i don't want to make an issue out of it or even see what it is.
                                                                                                                                                                                          Has she been wearing a lot of new jewelry lately?


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                                                                                                                                                                                            • GatorB
                                                                                                                                                                                              The Demon & 12clicks
                                                                                                                                                                                              • Oct 2001
                                                                                                                                                                                              • 18208
                                                                                                                                                                                              #48
                                                                                                                                                                                              Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
                                                                                                                                                                                              Im a female with experience in this area.
                                                                                                                                                                                              A what being a whore?

                                                                                                                                                                                              Oh and before you go telling me to grow up I turn 40 this year so yeah I think I know a thing or 2 on how the world works. You women always have to defend each other no matter what don't you? Quit getting offened because some other chick got caught being called out for what she is.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                • selena
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Aug 2004
                                                                                                                                                                                                  • 7997
                                                                                                                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                                                                                                                  Originally posted by DickShoke
                                                                                                                                                                                                  all i know is when i pick her up after work she has a bag of gifts.
                                                                                                                                                                                                  If you are picking her up after work, you know who she is going home with.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  As a former bartender, I have a lot of pretty cool stuff that was given to me by my customers. Most of it is sports oriented, as they all knew who my favorite teams were.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  I never slept with any of them, and if they hoped that I would, they were never obvious about it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  Stop and think about this industry. How many members shower solo girls with stuff off their wish lists? Do they think they'll really get a chance to fuck them? No, they are lonely guys, and the girl (if she's smart) knows how to play that to keep them coming back.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  There is not a vast difference between a solo girl who knows how to interact and retain her members and a bartender who knows how to be friendly and rake in tips. Well, there is the nudity difference, of course, but it is a business, and both women are there to make money.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  I'd not worry about it, were I you. If you do get to the point where you do care about her, and the dinners bother you, then you could and probably should ask her to not go to them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                  But to ask her to stop accepting presents from customers is overboard, imho.
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                                                                                                                                                                                                    • selena
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Aug 2004
                                                                                                                                                                                                      • 7997
                                                                                                                                                                                                      #50
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Originally posted by GatorB
                                                                                                                                                                                                      yeah pretty much.

                                                                                                                                                                                                      user
                                                                                                                                                                                                      2. a person who uses something or someone selfishly or unethically [syn: exploiter]

                                                                                                                                                                                                      ex·ploit
                                                                                                                                                                                                      2. to use selfishly for one's own ends:


                                                                                                                                                                                                      Kinda sounds like the porn industry.
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