IM Heading To China For the Olympics! And to get our DAUGHTER!

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  • wargames
    Kliris
    • May 2003
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    #51
    Congrats brother

    u2 will make great parents
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    • boneprone
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      • Jan 2001
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      #52
      Originally posted by AZ_Sarah_Maxcash
      Wow, congratulations to you & your family on your newest addition!
      Have a safe trip there & home
      Hey, where's my BP4L pic!

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      • boneprone
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        • Jan 2001
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        #53
        Originally posted by wargames
        Congrats brother

        u2 will make great parents
        Thanks dude...... Ill tell the wife you said that.

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        • shermo

          #54
          Originally posted by boneprone
          I dont know if I can reconmend it at this time. With the Olympics and with all the shit the government over there is trying to hide its backlogged the whole system. Its up to a THREE YEAR wait right now..

          Horrible.

          Id wait till after the olympics. Maybe next year this time and see if things have been speeding up. The whole system is on a hault right now.

          Unless you are willing to go the special needs route right now, its a very long wait.

          It used to be 1 year. Now its up to 3. However Im thinking that once the public eye is off China, they will start opening the doors again to the overpopulated hidden orphanages.
          WOW..That is quite a wait. Pretty odd considering there is such an overabundance of female orphans.

          I think we'd be looking more seriously into this about a year from now. Maybe some things will change and the process won't be as daunting.

          The special needs route seems a nice way to go as well. Any idea what the plastic surgery for that condition runs and if there are any long term effects that might need to be taken into account?

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          • TDF
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            • Mar 2002
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            #55
            thats awesome bone...congrats
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            • boneprone
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              • Jan 2001
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              #56
              Originally posted by Socks
              Yes it's very sad.. Sorry BP, wasn't trying to take a shot, just last night I watched an investigative reporting thing on the pollution in China, and how bad it really is. Mostly from mining plants apparently, and the government's antiquated ego where nothing matters to them but money. They're using that red water to irrigate their plants, then they eat the plants, get cancer, have growths all over them, it's nasty.


              Good on you for doing all the necessary work to make this a reality. I have a 3 month old baby myself, and it's amazing!
              NP. I knew you were just bustin balls. Its all good.
              Yep sad over there.


              Lets talk sometime dude and catch up.

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              • tical
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                • Feb 2002
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                #57
                are there any types of documentaries on this issue in china? i hear about it but definitely would like to watch something
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                • Slick
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                  • Feb 2001
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                  #58
                  Congrats man !!! Do you get to see pictures of the baby before you get it or is it just like "you want a girl, here's a girl".

                  My wife and I thought about adopting another child. We have 3 right now, after the 3rd one, my wife got her tubes tied, then about a year ago, she was having problems with a low iron in her blood, so the doctor recommended a hysterectomy, so now there's no way we can have any more kids.

                  Sometimes we think it'd be for the best to not have any more, we have our 2 boys and 1 girl, but sometimes we see little ones and wish we could have another.

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                  • seeric
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                    • Aug 2004
                    • 41917

                    #59
                    have fun man. take pics.

                    prob will be the best coverage we'll get over here since the chinese govt will prob censure everything.

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                    • Slick
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                      • Feb 2001
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                      #60
                      Woooops, I just re-read my post and messed up. My wife had a very low blood count, NOT low iron in her blood, ha ha.

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                      • C_U_Next_Tuesday
                        WW4L
                        • Oct 2002
                        • 10581

                        #61
                        congrats!

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                        • Socks
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                          • May 2002
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                          #62
                          Originally posted by Slick
                          Woooops, I just re-read my post and messed up. My wife had a very low blood count, NOT low iron in her blood, ha ha.
                          Man, did you check your closets for vampires?

                          Under the bed?

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                          • NickB.
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                            • Aug 2001
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                            #63
                            congrats bro!

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                            • SCOOTER
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                              • Oct 2001
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                              #64
                              Congratz and good luck on your trip – Give the wife a big Kiss from me.
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                              • Supz
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                                #65
                                congrats, great thing you are doing!

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                                • Slick
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                                  • Feb 2001
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                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by Socks
                                  Man, did you check your closets for vampires?

                                  Under the bed?

                                  rofl, ha ha, actually I didn't even think that could be why. I'm gonna go check right now, ha ha.

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                                  • Elli
                                    Reach for those stars!
                                    • Apr 2003
                                    • 17991

                                    #67
                                    Wow, that's amazing what you and your wife are doing. That little girl is about to be given a one-in-a-million chance. I wish you all the very best. Your generosity makes the world just that much better to live in.
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                                    • 421Fill
                                      So Fucking Banned
                                      • Nov 2001
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                                      #68
                                      it is very very cool of you and your wife to adopt a girl from China. I was reading something online about the problem there recently, and I was almost in tears. thank you for helping someone for life.

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                                      • OzMan
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                                        • Sep 2003
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                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by tical
                                        are there any types of documentaries on this issue in china? i hear about it but definitely would like to watch something
                                        There was a documentary on Australian TV a couple days ago about this. Not sure if it is showing in the US but you might be able to get it off a torrent as that's where I got it from...

                                        Oh and congrats Boneprone very impressed. That Smiles show always gets to me too...I have friends that just adopted their second Chinese orphan and apart from the paperwork, would highly recommend it.

                                        By one estimate about 70,000 children are kidnapped and sold on the black market in China each year.

                                        Untold thousands of other people are tragically affected by the trade? this film features remarkable access to those at its core: desperate parents searching for a stolen son; a trafficker who brokers deals and who sold his own child; a young couple having to give away their newborn daughter; a private investigator who hunts for stolen children; a boy rescued from traffickers.

                                        In modern China, baby girls can be sold for as little as $500. Boys cost $1000-plus. "China?s Stolen Children" intimately reveals the depth of this tragedy and explores the connection between child trafficking, an alarming shortage of girls and the country's stringent birth control policy. It's a link the Chinese Government rejects.

                                        This documentary shows a side of China that authorities would rather keep hidden ? at any time, and especially in the long run-up to the Olympics. Its makers worked undercover, posing as tourists, constantly moving hotels and changing their telephone simcards.

                                        "China's Stolen Children" recently won a Royal Television Society Award and won the best international current affairs documentary at the BAFTAs on Sunday 20 April. Narrated by Sir Ben Kingsley, made for Channel 4 and HBO.

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                                        • boneprone
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                                          #70
                                          Originally posted by Elli
                                          Wow, that's amazing what you and your wife are doing. That little girl is about to be given a one-in-a-million chance. I wish you all the very best. Your generosity makes the world just that much better to live in.

                                          Any chance you could move in for a month and be our Red Headed sexy nanny?

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                                          • NinjaSteve
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                                            • Dec 2003
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                                            #71
                                            Is it a more or less expensive process to adopt from China vs. the US? Did you look at other countries or just China?
                                            ...

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                                            • Stephen McTowelie
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                                              • Nov 2006
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                                              #72
                                              Congrats man So sad whats happening in China my fiancee is from Hong Kong she gets very upset seeing whats going on there especially as she has some family still there.

                                              Well good on you and your wife.
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                                              • RyuLion
                                                • Mar 2003
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                                                #73
                                                Originally posted by boneprone
                                                Any chance you could move in for a month and be our Red Headed sexy nanny?

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                                                • Violetta
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                                                  • Jul 2004
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                                                  #74
                                                  wow,... congrats!
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                                                  • boneprone
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                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by NinjaSteve
                                                    Is it a more or less expensive process to adopt from China vs. the US? Did you look at other countries or just China?
                                                    A lot cheaper to adopt in the US.
                                                    For China its going to total us around 40k total from start to end. Not including the medical/surgery required for going the special needs route we chose to do.

                                                    Price wasnt the issue with us though. China is something we have always wanted to do.

                                                    As for the USA domestic adoption, it too is a great program.. But it does have some very disturbing laws attached to it that has been pushing away prospective adoptive parents.

                                                    In the US the biological mother has a lot more rights, even though she "gave up" her child she still has some rights and can even cause legal troubles if she all of a sudden "changes her mind" and wants the baby back. You see this happening all the time in the news. Whats worse courts supporting this behavior. As a result it has discouraged many many good families from adopting domestically.

                                                    No adoptive family wants to be looked at as the bad guy for taking away a child from the biological mother.

                                                    The domestic system needs to be fixed.
                                                    Domestic adoption is a great thing, but the horror stories have pushed some away.
                                                    Last edited by boneprone; 04-25-2008, 08:34 AM.

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                                                    • Anal Hobbit
                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                      • Aug 2001
                                                      • 2308

                                                      #76
                                                      Why dont you guys have your own kid? Something wrong with you?

                                                      And if you do choose to adopt why China of all places..

                                                      And why adopt a retarded looking kid with Cleft?? Why wouldnt you adopt a healthy one?

                                                      I just dont get it.

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                                                      • FreeHugeMovies
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                                                        • Dec 2001
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                                                        #77
                                                        Hope all goes well in China Bone

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                                                        • Joe BrainCash
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                                                          #78
                                                          Boneprone, being a dad myself and knowing what's coming for you, I wanna congratulate you and wish you and your family a happy life...It's all that matters...Health, hapiness...and if you're stinking rich I guess it doesn't hurt!
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                                                          • Elli
                                                            Reach for those stars!
                                                            • Apr 2003
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                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by tical
                                                            are there any types of documentaries on this issue in china? i hear about it but definitely would like to watch something
                                                            Check out "China from the Inside" by PBS. It's a four parter, and the second part is all about women in China. It's amazing that the cameras got so much access for the show, actually.
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                                                            • Elli
                                                              Reach for those stars!
                                                              • Apr 2003
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                                                              #80
                                                              Originally posted by boneprone
                                                              Any chance you could move in for a month and be our Red Headed sexy nanny?
                                                              I would love to! I would snuggle and love the little darling all day long.

                                                              Are you going to teach her Chinese?
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                                                              • boneprone
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                                                                #81
                                                                Originally posted by Elli
                                                                I would love to! I would snuggle and love the little darling all day long.

                                                                Are you going to teach her Chinese?

                                                                She is going to teach us Chinese....

                                                                And how to make Nike Shoes..

                                                                I hear the CHinese kids are very talented over there. IF they arent in some orphanage, they are working in the Nike Factories.

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                                                                • Pics Traffic
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                                                                  #82
                                                                  are you going to name her anal hobit?
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                                                                  • AK
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                                                                    • Nov 2003
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                                                                    #83
                                                                    good for you. congrats!
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                                                                    • montel
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                                                                      • Jul 2001
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                                                                      #84
                                                                      boneprone, i thought you were a dick for along time but i have changed my mind! i know myself how adoption can change people's lives...

                                                                      congrats on starting a family! i wish you all the best!
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                                                                      • WebairGerard
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                                                                        #85
                                                                        great news, congrats!

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                                                                        • boneprone
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                                                                          #86
                                                                          In less than 3 hours from now we will have our daughter.

                                                                          Im here in China now. Sitting in a hotel room counting down the minutes.

                                                                          What an experence thus far. Going to be an emotional day.

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                                                                          • RevengeBucks_Monica
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                                                                            #87
                                                                            Good luck to you and your wife! I can only imagine how much better your little girl's life will now be than if she were stuck orphaned in China, especially with a cleft lip. She will be a darling!
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                                                                            • tical
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                                                                              • Feb 2002
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                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                              In less than 3 hours from now we will have our daughter.

                                                                              Im here in China now. Sitting in a hotel room counting down the minutes.

                                                                              What an experence thus far. Going to be an emotional day.
                                                                              congratulations man, i hope everything works out well for everyone including your new girl!
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                                                                              • baddog
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                                                                                • Apr 2001
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                                In less than 3 hours from now we will have our daughter.

                                                                                Im here in China now. Sitting in a hotel room counting down the minutes.

                                                                                What an experence thus far. Going to be an emotional day.
                                                                                Congrats and good luck again.

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                                                                                • PersianKitty
                                                                                  Meow Media Inc.
                                                                                  • Jul 2001
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Okay I can't resist...


                                                                                  This thread needs pictures!!! Boneprone get to work with that camera! We all want to see this new addition to your family!

                                                                                  I'm so excited! Congrats!

                                                                                  PK

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                                                                                  • ExLust
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    ^ I second to that. Good people deserves good luck.

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                                                                                    • shermo

                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by PersianKitty
                                                                                      Okay I can't resist...


                                                                                      This thread needs pictures!!! Boneprone get to work with that camera! We all want to see this new addition to your family!

                                                                                      I'm so excited! Congrats!

                                                                                      PK
                                                                                      I third that!

                                                                                      How did it all go?

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                                                                                      • Manowar
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                                                                                        • Dec 2003
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                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by boneprone
                                                                                        Old article from 2001...

                                                                                        ITs gotten worse................

                                                                                        Hopefully with the spolight on China during the Olympics some more light will be on this epidemic of an issue over there.
                                                                                        that's fucked up

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