Ok so who do I have to blow around here -

She didn't say she was any good at blowing.

OK, that...is simply amazing!!!!

Good point and nothing worse than a bad BJ.

I didn't jump on your ass when I got hurt (only few hundred) with one of your past recommendations and sat on the sidelines for the other issues thankfully.

You have gone through hell in the past 7 or 8 years and my constructive recommendation was from the heart.

Sit down with a headhunter or big HR person and hear what they have to say about your "brand".

You are fishing with old worn out bait in a dieing pond. Admit failure with the old ways, design a new bait (including getting new skill sets like some basic programming) for the old pond that will also function when you travel to one of the new main streams.

Sorry, but I would never hire you with the way you present yourself now.

This is extremely informative and things I have done and tried to do and so on - because I have in my head that the majority, if not every single word, that you are saying here are tools I have used and continue to.

The trouble is, and this is not to say some of the newer startup companies I have settled in with are bad, some are very good, mean well and have every good intention - and some couldn't be further from any of that. But, having said this..

Some of us know what the hell we are talking abut - MY end game is to always be a team player and work as hard as I can and run as hard as I can toward branding and making it my life's mission to know as much about them as I possibly can, about their business, genre and so on - so I don't have to be one f those reps that have to go ask someone over every little thing.

I couldn't agree more also with the getting the current people to leave their very high paying deals to come over and pay attention to me - they need incentives and some of these new upstarts I have worked with a) either do NOT want to hear it, or b) they don't have the funds or staff or whatever to do that very thing - or c) they somehow think that because they built it, they will come - even if they have absolutely NOT one incentive to work with for a Rep worth their salt - if this one is the case, NO rep can push that program/company to the future of profitability.

The program owners and reps have GOT to get on the same page and listen and learn, none of us are perfect or we'd all be millionaires, it takes a TEAM f people and a team that can function as a team and not as a bunch of arrogant fools that spin their wheels in one place to the point that when they look up after the foot stomping, they are broke and have nothing to show for it.

They ALSO have to learn and listen that when you get a Rep, the best rep in the industry cannot turn a total upstart of people that are not known by ANYONE and make it turn into black overnight or even in a month or 2 months, it takes TIME. All of the threats, all of the stomping feet and all of the money in the world isn't going to make a program produce profits in a matter of a couple of weeks - no matter how much screaming and yelling is done.

In closing, I couldn't agree with you more on almost literally everything you say - and if you have a good and cohesive team of people, which is needed - ONE person can't do it, no matter what! But you put a team together that can work together and support one another, you can brand and sell literally ANYTHING, but without that, you may as well go sit with your pennies in front of the tv and get a big fat ass, because that's all you will accomplish. A good TEAM!!

What I am seeing a GREAT deal of right now and have started and stopped a few jobs because of it are a) people thinking it is a get rich quick thing (HAHAHAHAHAHA) - b) people thinking they can hide and cheat and scam and they won't get caught - c) people who think that they can rule with an iron fist and threaten people to make them money - d) people who just don't take it serious and realize this is porn, sure, but it is a LOT of very very hard work and a LOT of discipline is needed and patience - so they all walk or they lose perfectly good reps - and then there are just sometimes when you have a perfectly good company and a perfectly good rep - but for whatever reason, they didn't mesh together so they part ways and remain good friends and in some cases, they get down the road and find a perfect way to work together.

Either way it goes - I am just a little over being the Industry Washing Machine - so I am at a point now where you are going to have to show ME that you are legit - and that you aren't going to take another single one of my affiliates for a ride and that is getting tougher and tougher - in some cases..

But what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger - as reps and human beings - I've been tested and tested again and I somehow manage to stay steady - I don't run and hide - it's not my style - I love this industry and the people in it, even the bad ones, they test me and keep me on my toes. lol

I (Reps in General) are your front people, they know what's going on, they know what is needed, they know who will do what, when, where and how - if they even wake up in the morning, they know this and if they don't then they need to go learn it - but if they are your front, it is their JOB and they should have the respect of knowing what your people want and need, they are the ones in the trenches, so to speak!

Fuck me - It's like a wall of words - I have marked this thread as something to do when I am sober...

Let's be honest, all the other times I have come here and asked in a very professional way, humble, strong, every which way I could think of and all of the previous times in a very professional manner, did you ever one time offer me a job then? Nope, you didn't - I love you, always have and I hate that someone I was around ever ripped anyone off, but I didn't do it -

And I also have taken assessment tests on a few local jobs I have applied for and they have been very impressed with my communication and other skills - and I was just me - I can be me and a good brand of me and any other brand is fake and untrue - I am not that person - I am who I am, you like e or you hate me - some have done both at the same time but at the end of the day they know I am who I am and they get honest and forward with me.

There was a time, when you felt the same way, you told me this yourself, just be who you are - that's how I know to be!

HE started the wall of words - bad person to start that with I guess - lmao

Sorry hon.

WOW!!! you're that hot? wait... what?




















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Yayyy - you found a picture that wasn't hidden - I knew you was a smart guy!!

Awesome post, thank you.

Come now, let's not underestimate the power of the blowjob. Plenty have hired for side perks over pure profit.

Im sorry, I must have fallen asleep and woken up in a world where profits CANT by blow jobs anymore ;)

What exactly do you imagine the hot secretary wages are for?

Helloo? Anyone hoome?

OR you must be married - rotfl

SO SO Sorry, I couldn't walk away form that one, and I seriously tried. lol

12 clicks cash is hiring

If that's the alternative then I would recommend going back to Blow Jobs...

eheh oh eddie....

You can skype us anytime, we're in Spain living on only our own income, bills to pay, plenty of content, a program wanting to make money while giving people what they want

Good luck on your work hunt hun x

CamTraffic, I'll remember not to sign up to cam with your traffic, if this is the stupid trolling you do on a business thread. Considering Tam looks more sexy than most of the girls on most of the cam sites these days

Given her multiple mental disorders, she should apply for social security disability insurance.

Very sweet of you, thank you very much.

Very sorry to hear about your bad luck in this business. Hope you may find a patron that suits your profile. Good luck.

Saw this post and thought it must have been something replied to from the 90's Was like watching a rerun of the Andy Griffith show, yes old and you have seen it many times but the outcome always comes out the same.. Heya Suesheboy long time old friend

Thanks hon - things work out as they should and they are this time as well.... but thanks for your support.

Kicky kicky!!

A few potentials, waiting for that perfect perfect fit. ;)

Probably could have made a months wages in blowjobs by now.

here you go girl

http://gfy.com/showthread.php?t=1151410

This is the best post in this thread.

This is the second best post.

Thanks hon - I put my resume in with that one as well - although one of those are alittle suspect to me - so I also put out a bit of a warning.

Looking for a designer that get things done ASAP? <--- sig.

/thread.

to be successful you have to be willing to do what others are not willing to do

I second that

Exactly - and to do this, sometimes you have to be willing to get out of the box to get a bit of attention that you were not otherwise getting! I've never been one to do things the conventional way - who wants to be part of the crowd, I want to get out ahead of it.

Terrific post.

If you are "support", the same rules generally apply, usually all that changes is you need to show employers how you can save them money vs how you can earn them money, with greater efficiency, saved time or other ways to conserve resources.

If after 7 years in business you still need to ask to get hired you are doing something wrong dear, beach, or how ever you want to be called. Just my 2

How do you propose I get a job if I don't ask for one - regardless of how long I've been working or not working? I thought to get a job you have to apply/ask for one - but maybe I am doing something wrong all these years?

nevermind..

My thoughts exactly. Hard to trust Reps that've been going from one program to another... many times over.

No offense Tam, but asking for a job on GFY is probably not the smartest thing to do.


When you're a good Rep and without a job, you usually get contacted. Shit, you even get contact even if you have a job.
Did you try getting in touch with Eddie from xindustryjobs ? I've met him a couple of times at shows, real nice guy, you should email him.