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How to deal with people who are jelous of your success?

05-19-2008, 10:35 PM

I am having some massive issues with some people who are close to me right now. They(family, and [x]gf, friends) have become extremely jelous of my success. They are constantly trying to make me feel bad for it. It was always kind of there, but not this bad.

How do you deal with this shit?

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05-19-2008, 10:39 PM

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05-19-2008, 11:11 PM

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05-19-2008, 11:15 PM

ignore them and get rid of them. seriously. you dont want to deal with or trust people that are jealous of you.

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05-19-2008, 11:19 PM

I dont get it... what is success? Making money? Why do they have to know? Or are you spending it all on expencive cars and clothes?

My friends would never care if I had success or not. But if I start acting like a moron, I guess they would

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05-19-2008, 11:19 PM

Originally posted by ztik

I am having some massive issues with some people who are close to me right now. They(family, and [x]gf, friends) have become extremely jelous of my success. They are constantly trying to make me feel bad for it. It was always kind of there, but not this bad.

How do you deal with this shit?

most of my relatives just ask me for money ....

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05-19-2008, 11:21 PM

Odds are envy got you to were you are today. They just are handling it the wrong way and are not achieving it themselves.

Unless of course you do really flaunt it in their faces and belittle them in ways.

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05-19-2008, 11:22 PM

Why would you let shit like that affect you? They would obviously want to be were you are so fuck em! get yourself new friends and family .. ...

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05-19-2008, 11:23 PM

IGNORE those people who will pull you down, as long as you're not stepping on anybody then you're free to do what will make you succeed

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05-19-2008, 11:24 PM

Originally posted by xato

ignore them and get rid of them. seriously. you dont want to deal with or trust people that are jealous of you.

I agree...

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05-19-2008, 11:25 PM

Side note, your sig and your avatar leed me to wonder...

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05-19-2008, 11:52 PM

Originally posted by Rockatansky

I dont get it... what is success? Making money? Why do they have to know? Or are you spending it all on expencive cars and clothes?

My friends would never care if I had success or not. But if I start acting like a moron, I guess they would

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05-19-2008, 11:53 PM

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05-20-2008, 12:08 AM

So Ztik, what happened since the cops arrested you and your bud's at that house party?

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05-20-2008, 01:10 AM

people that dont have something and see that someone close to them does have it always will hate from inside even if they try not to show it.
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05-20-2008, 01:17 AM

Originally posted by ztik

I am having some massive issues with some people who are close to me right now. They(family, and [x]gf, friends) have become extremely jelous of my success. They are constantly trying to make me feel bad for it. It was always kind of there, but not this bad.

How do you deal with this shit?

Ditch everybody that misbehaves.
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05-20-2008, 01:57 AM

what are they doing exactly. Also glad to see you came along way from ztik dialer
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05-20-2008, 02:40 AM

Originally posted by qxm

Why would you let shit like that affect you? They would obviously want to be were you are so fuck em! get yourself new friends and family .. ...

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05-20-2008, 03:33 AM

Learn to laugh about it. It can be pain in the ass if your young and make a good coin, so you have to take a lot of fire from the community. Happends all the time. Not only the community cant handle it, friends start to freak out, girls just want to bang you for a dime, the car dealer treats you like a criminal. It happends everywhere. I dont have much contact to my family because of issues like that.
Just dont take it to serious. At the end of the day, you made your coin and they dont. So go figure..

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05-20-2008, 03:56 AM

I have had the same problem and that is why I have chosen to distance myself from those types of people. You can always tell who your REAL friends are and THOSE are the types of people that I choose to hang out with.

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05-20-2008, 04:07 AM

Ignored. that's the best thing you should do. those people are just trying to bring you down and after that they just laughed at you're miserable.

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05-20-2008, 04:54 AM

I have that also, thats why i have lowered my amount of friends drastically. Only a few good people who do the same what i do are my friends. Family i don't have, so saves me a lot of bullshit.

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05-20-2008, 04:56 AM

don't flaunt your success.

keep on the down low.
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05-20-2008, 04:57 AM

I have found that in life there are only a few people that are actually happy when you succeed. Some are family, some are true friends. The key is to do your best to surround yourself with people that are happy with your success, and those who are more successful than yourself.

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05-20-2008, 05:57 AM

dont tell them how much you earn always lie

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05-20-2008, 05:57 AM

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05-20-2008, 06:00 AM

If they can't spell, I do not worry about it.

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05-20-2008, 06:02 AM

I deal with them by not having any success...

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05-20-2008, 06:12 AM

Originally posted by Celeb Fan

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05-20-2008, 06:13 AM

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05-20-2008, 06:55 AM

if your friends act like that get new friends, my friends are happy for any success that i have.

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05-20-2008, 06:58 AM

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Odds are envy got you to were you are today. They just are handling it the wrong way and are not achieving it themselves.

Unless of course you do really flaunt it in their faces and belittle them in ways.

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IGNORE those people who will pull you down, as long as you're not stepping on anybody then you're free to do what will make you succeed

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05-20-2008, 07:19 AM

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05-20-2008, 07:33 AM

Originally posted by baddog

He lives in Nebraska. Nice things stand out.

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05-20-2008, 07:38 AM

Originally posted by ztik

I am having some massive issues with some people who are close to me right now. They(family, and [x]gf, friends) have become extremely jelous of my success. They are constantly trying to make me feel bad for it. It was always kind of there, but not this bad.

How do you deal with this shit?

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05-20-2008, 07:45 AM

Originally posted by baddog

He lives in Nebraska. Nice things stand out.

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05-20-2008, 07:45 AM

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05-20-2008, 08:00 AM

learn how to share the things you have right now for them to stop kicking your ass.

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05-20-2008, 08:15 AM

Ignore ignore ignore. Jealous people suck.

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05-20-2008, 08:41 AM

Go behind them and YANK their underwear up as hard as you can.

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05-20-2008, 08:42 AM

Take them out to dinner at a restaurant they can't afford. Play it off as no big deal. Let the envy consume them alive.

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05-20-2008, 08:45 AM

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05-20-2008, 08:53 AM

well as far as FAMILY goes, take your $50k car out of your parents garage and go get your own place... buy it with CASH, don't have a mortgage and dig yourself a moat, fill it with sharks with laser beams. THEN go buy yourself a second $50k car and drive them on alternating days.

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05-20-2008, 08:57 AM

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05-20-2008, 09:00 AM

Originally posted by xato

ignore them and get rid of them. seriously. you dont want to deal with or trust people that are jealous of you.

been there, done that, this is the best advice anyone could give you in that position.... fucking remove these assholes from your life. blood does not mean you HAVE to put up with abuse from family. and friends are there to support you no matter what, not bring you down. the ex's ignore them, all ex's are haters.
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05-20-2008, 09:52 AM

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05-20-2008, 11:00 AM

Don't talk about bizz and money with your family and friends. Just be you. Enjoy your friends and family. If they wonder why your house or car is big just say you work 7 days a week and 14 hours a day. Don't go in to any details.
Have BBQ's, play with the kids & get drunk like all normal people do
Never try to explain why you are successfull because people don't wanna hear it.
Call your friends and family, be interested ("listen") and care about this and don't interupt their story with things you wanna tell.
Make people feel important and loved ;)
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05-20-2008, 11:10 AM

move

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find some older friends

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