I'm at the stage now where every conversation leads to the inevitable "so when are you guys going to have kids" question. Been married for 1 year now, turning 31 next month and my response is always the same.. "we're not".
I think it's very rude of people to ask that question but apparently in North America it's very common and people don't think twice about asking it, regardless if they know your situation or not. For all they know, we may not be able to have kids and its a hurtful thing to say, this isn't the case, we simply don't want kids but still, the ignorant fucks who continue to ask me that, don't know this.
TL;DR: I'm not having kids, ever!
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