Same here... actually been going on for years.
Luckily I have a pocket of friends here that don't have kids and all a bit older in their late 30's early 40's... I'm mid 30's myself.
My ex wanted to have kids, but NO WAY could I go through with that.
I'd still like to have a kid (with a normal spouse haha), I think it would be fun, but after seeing what so many people go splitting up and having their kids used as weapons, it's a hard decision to make.
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