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my basic view is there should be the fear of being hit, so much so that the kid will behave and not want to find out.
By having to do actual hitting its like admitting the kid dosent fear you. Then they just resent you and subconsciously lose respect for you.
It sorta reminds me of leave it to beaver. Beaver and wally were always so damn afraid of scewing up and getting a beating. But Ward never once laid a hand on them. The fear was there though.
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