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Originally Posted by Paul
..I do agree that too many people want an excuse or something to blame for their problems.
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I agree that many do use things as excuses (poor me I drank because of blahblah situation, poor me I took heroin because of my mixed up childhood, etc etc), but there's a distinction between an excuse and a reason.
As someone said already, the thing is to take responsibility, which is a huge move forward imo - this doesn't mean that valid reasons can be just brushed aside as merely excuses.
As you've stated, it isn't black & white - nothing concerning human brains ever is
