Originally Posted by timlover

I guessed you missed the point. Tellers asking you about your business on how you make your money isn't their job. She's choosing to let her personal curiousity interfere with her job. Their only job is to process your transaction. You don't have to explain shit to a bank teller. If there is an issue on the validity of your transaction, its the bank managers job. Even then, its only their job to inquire about the validity of the funds available for the incoming transaction. Not to inquire about how you make your money or the reasons why you are receiving your money.

There is nothing rude about telling somebody to mind their own business and that your private matters are none of their business. What is rude is thinking that your job entitles you to be nosey into your customers banking affairs, just because you facilitate their money movement.