I would have just told her upfront she is shooting a hardcore set and a tease set. It shouldn't matter where it is going as long as the model agrees to shoot the sets. Tell the girl up front what she is shooting and tell her you have the right to sell it where ever you want. Bang Bros says this on camera on their exit interviews before the girl gets paid. They all agree that Bang can resell the scene and post it in any form they want even if they want to sell it non exclusive. They probably never do this but they reserve the right to do what they want. I would avoid shooting girls with Diva attitudes like this. If anything she is showing to other producers how difficult she is to deal with.
This situation reminds me of the Chaisey Laine meltdown where she flipped out when she was told they were going to shoot still of her sex scene.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=OZvsWKn6nzM
I guess in her hayday producers didn't shoot stills except for Boxcovers. Jayden is just another washed up porn star and should be lowering her rates if anything. Just because you are a high end hooker doesn't make you special in the adult biz.