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Originally Posted by andrew1009
If there were actual "problems" from the start, I would let this go no problem. The haunting comes from how GOOD it was at the start, as short lived as it was.
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What you described are a ton of problems and basically two people who either aren't compatible, don't know what they want, or are not sure if they really want the other person. Sorry man but that's what it is. Trust me for a RELATIONSHIP things should go a lot smoother without all this drama. There are always little things but good relationships don't have all these problems and issues constantly. For a FB now that is a different story.
I learned this the hard way. I spent 7 years in a bad relationship which should have been aborted in the first week! Constant problems and issues, neither of us knew what we wanted or who we were. Constantly fighting in order to make it work. Square peg in a round hole (bad analogy there, my apologies!) That was when I was young and didn't know any better. Your 2002 join date suggests you're probably at least around 30 so I bet deep down you know it too. If not you'll probably know it soon. Good luck.