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  • xenigo
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    • Jan 2001
    • 8067

    #1

    Women are confusing. Translate this for me:

    Her reply to me:

    It was nice meeting you too. I actually live really far from Tracy but next time I get up that way I'll give you a call



    My original message sent on Myspace:

    Hey it was great meeting you the other night! Maybe sometime this week or next week we can get together for lunch or something. I'd like to get to know you.

    Lemme know if that sounds like fun. There's also a bar in the city called Swig that really has a cool atmosphere and a good crowd. You might like it.

    (XXX)XXX-XXXX

    -Noah



    Any idea what that means? If I were interested in a chick, I'd certainly look at her location on Myspace. I figured that's easy enough right? I met this girl in Tracy. But I live near her in the city. It looks like she figured I was from around there. But I can't figure out if she's just trying to give me the soft let down.

    Any thoughts?
  • malakajoe
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    • Feb 2003
    • 1751

    #2
    If you met her in person it must not have been that great of impression man.

    Total brush off!
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    • Ayla_SquareTurtle
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      • Sep 2005
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      #3
      It's a soft let down. If she were into you, she would try to cement a date or at the very least say when she might be in the area again. just my

      ps this could potentially be wrong if the distance we are talking about is plane ride length. If it's 45 minutes or an hour drive or something, then I go with my original statement.
      gone. long gone.

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      • Tempest
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        • May 2004
        • 10217

        #4
        She's just not that into you...

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          #5
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          • L-Pink
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            • Mar 2005
            • 39151

            #6
            I think this sums it up .........

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            • Domain Diva
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              • Oct 2007
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              #7
              I would say that was a very polite soft let down

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              • brand0n
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                • Nov 2002
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                #8
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                • PandaFucker
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                  • Feb 2008
                  • 76

                  #9
                  Don't listen to these fucking idiots, who have probably never even stuck their dicks into a vagina before without paying.

                  This is what it means...

                  She wants you hard and fast, for all the 5.6 seconds you can give her... she also doesn't want to know when you're coming... shes spontaneous like that... she wants you to just look her up in the phone book, and then find her address..

                  wait outside her house and when she comes home from walmart, to jump on her from behind and judo chop that bitch in the neck so she passes out.... then you bone her while shes knocked out... sounds a little sick, right? nah.. not at all.. shes a freaky bitch like that... how do you think the sleep rape fetish sites were started? because she boned one of the webmasters and asked her to do that... thats how the fetish was discovered..

                  then after you are done boning her... you put a ski mask on, and just stand an inch away from her face until she slowly starts coming to..

                  then when she wakes up you turn on a chainsaw and run around the house screaming YOU'RE DEAD BITCH, IM GONNA FUCKING LIGHT THIS PLACE ON FIRE IF YOU DONT MARRY ME - I LOVE YOU AHHHHHHH


                  and that my friend... is how you steal her heart...

                  pfftt... anyone who has any game at all knows this, sonnnnnnnn

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                  • PandaFucker
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                    • Feb 2008
                    • 76

                    #10
                    btw... if that doesn't work... just tell her how big your postcount is

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                    • DigitalDruid
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                      • Oct 2007
                      • 647

                      #11
                      You are fired......

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                      • genoveze
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                        • Jun 2003
                        • 455

                        #12
                        hahahaha, thats a good one,pandafucker, man what it means is she is acting gray, you were nice , but you didnt make her want you, so be "cooler"
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                        • WiredGuy
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                          • Aug 2002
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                          #13
                          Its a nice way of saying she's not really that interested. In other words, she doesn't mind being friends, but don't expect to be banging her anytime soon.
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                          • helic0pter
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                            • Feb 2008
                            • 155

                            #14
                            Yea definitely a soft let down. Obviously you're a nice guy just not her type.

                            Oh and messaging a chick on myspace to ask her out on a date is a BIG no no. You definitely needed to have called her to have even had a chance.

                            In the future never ask girls out on dates via a myspace message.
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                            • PandaFucker
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                              • Feb 2008
                              • 76

                              #15
                              Originally posted by helic0pter
                              Yea definitely a soft let down. Obviously you're a nice guy just not her type.

                              Oh and messaging a chick on myspace to ask her out on a date is a BIG no no. You definitely needed to have called her to have even had a chance.

                              In the future never ask girls out on dates via a myspace message.
                              Chicks these days would get creeped out if a friend of a friend who they only met once just called them out of the blue..

                              maybe back in the day maybe it would work... but not nowadays..

                              heres my advice...

                              personally i think you would have had a way better chance if you didn't ask her out right away... and i think that alone will have killed any chance of it developing in the future...

                              but in the future, if you meet a chick you really like... don't give them too much attention... and if shes a friend of a friend it'll be a lot easier... whenever you are talking to that mutual friend, and he/she invites you to wherever you are going.. you can find out if that chick you like will be there...

                              then just go out as often as you can when you know that chick will be there, a chat here and there.. don't show her you're really into her.. yet anyways

                              keep doing this till you are in her comfort zone, and you guys are able to talk more comfortably and joke around with her a lot... making a girl laugh a lot is like a key to her heart..

                              now a common mistake is becoming TOO much of a friend, and then you make the girl view you only as a friend... so be cool with her, but dont get TOO comfortable around her that you do embarrasing stuff that makes you look like a dork..

                              if she you notice she starts to act like shes liking you, don't jump in head over heels and act like you were waiting for her to come around, cause something i've learned is that when girls KNOW they can get you, they lose interest somewhat..

                              follow those basic guidelines and i think you'll have a way better chance of hookin up with a girl like that...

                              but honestly bro, i don't think its gonna happen with this chick

                              i'm not a huge mack, but i have a shitload of hot ass girl - friends and i was in a relationship for 5 years while i was friends with these chicks, so i never hit on them and they became really really good friends.. and now i know what girls wanna hear... and what they look for..

                              good luck in the hunt

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                              • CDSmith
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                                • May 2001
                                • 51460

                                #16
                                Get on with your life.

                                If she calls, she calls. If not.... next.
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                                • Socks
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                                  • May 2002
                                  • 8475

                                  #17
                                  fuck the hand man, fuck the hand.

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                                  • PandaFucker
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                                    • Feb 2008
                                    • 76

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by CDSmith
                                    Get on with your life.

                                    If she calls, she calls. If not.... next.
                                    As much as a fucking homo i think you are, and as much as i dislike you... i'm going to have to agree with you on this one

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                                    • Naja-ram
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                                      • Aug 2006
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                                      #19
                                      don't try to understand money eaters .. i mean girls.
                                      just fuck'em and dumb'em - that's the kind of men they like anyway.
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                                      • da man
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                                        • Nov 2005
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                                        #20
                                        she is probably just trying to be polite...
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                                        • O MARINA
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                                          • Mar 2003
                                          • 13794

                                          #21
                                          you are all wrong

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                                          • Brother Bilo
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                                            • Jun 2007
                                            • 4193

                                            #22
                                            My guess is a soft let down with the potential for a booty call if she's in town and doesn't find someone she wants more.

                                            At least there's a chance dude.

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                                            • Elli
                                              Reach for those stars!
                                              • Apr 2003
                                              • 17991

                                              #23
                                              I'd say that was a rough translation of

                                              "Thanks for giving me your number that I didn't really ask for even when I was face to face with you. I'll file it appropriately."
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                                              • Paco, of Large Cash.
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                                                • Jun 2002
                                                • 2267

                                                #24
                                                Odds are it's all just a game to her and now that you've bit it is on to the next.

                                                Either that or she is the proverbial sack of hammers kinda gal and later realized you two do not live within the same zip.

                                                I am stunned by the fact that people actually get together with those they've yammered with on the web (MySpace etc)? I guess predators and stalkers do not leave a lasting impression.

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                                                • CDSmith
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                                                  • May 2001
                                                  • 51460

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by O MARINA
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                                                  • Global Accés Delgado
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                                                    • Feb 2008
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                                                    #26
                                                    I'd translate that into a polite let down too ;(
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                                                    • EuroRev_Stacey
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                                                      • Dec 2007
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                                                      #27
                                                      Dummy myspace?
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                                                      • Iron Fist
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                                                        • Dec 2006
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                                                        #28
                                                        i like waffles

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                                                        • DjiXas
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                                                          • Sep 2007
                                                          • 1108

                                                          #29
                                                          Hm... Not sure about that. How was a date? Any body language signs?

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                                                          • DjiXas
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                                                            • Sep 2007
                                                            • 1108

                                                            #30
                                                            Lol at panda fucker

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                                                            • Spunky
                                                              I need a beer
                                                              • Jun 2002
                                                              • 133978

                                                              #31
                                                              It means you're ugly and probably gay,fuck off

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                                                              • Jens Van Assterdam
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                                                                • Feb 2008
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Spunky
                                                                It means you're ugly and probably gay,fuck off
                                                                coudnt say it better
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                                                                • carol.prime
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                                                                  • Jul 2006
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  i beg to disagree guys. not all women are like that.
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                                                                  • Eva PSC
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    she is just not interested.

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                                                                    • Got Porn?
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                                                                      • Nov 2005
                                                                      • 1264

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by xenigo
                                                                      It was nice meeting you too.
                                                                      Translation: You creeped me out a little, but we have a mutual friend and I feel obligated to respond to you.

                                                                      Originally posted by xenigo
                                                                      I actually live really far from Tracy
                                                                      Translation: I know it's only a 20 min drive but I don't like you that way.

                                                                      Originally posted by xenigo
                                                                      next time I get up that way I'll give you a call
                                                                      Translation: If your lucky we can all go out as friends again. But this will just be a group of friends going out together. Please don't confuse this as being a date.
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                                                                      • Eva PSC
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by Got Porn?
                                                                        Translation: You creeped me out a little, but we have a mutual friend and I feel obligated to respond to you.



                                                                        Translation: I know it's only a 20 min drive but I don't like you that way.



                                                                        Translation: If your lucky we can all go out as friends again. But this will just be a group of friends going out together. Please don't confuse this as being a date.
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                                                                        • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                          • Dec 2004
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by DigitalDruid
                                                                          You are fired......
                                                                          !

                                                                          That's a polite brush off...

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                                                                          • CaptainHowdy
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                                                                            • Dec 2004
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by O MARINA
                                                                            you are all wrong
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                                                                            • Linguist
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                                                                              • Apr 2004
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              "soft let down"? Dude she just told you to fuck off plain and clear, forget and move on
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                                                                              • Grapesoda
                                                                                So Fucking Banned
                                                                                • Jul 2003
                                                                                • 46234

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by xenigo
                                                                                Her reply to me:

                                                                                It was nice meeting you too. I actually live really far from Tracy but next time I get up that way I'll give you a call



                                                                                My original message sent on Myspace:

                                                                                Hey it was great meeting you the other night! Maybe sometime this week or next week we can get together for lunch or something. I'd like to get to know you.

                                                                                Lemme know if that sounds like fun. There's also a bar in the city called Swig that really has a cool atmosphere and a good crowd. You might like it.

                                                                                (XXX)XXX-XXXX

                                                                                -Noah



                                                                                Any idea what that means? If I were interested in a chick, I'd certainly look at her location on Myspace. I figured that's easy enough right? I met this girl in Tracy. But I live near her in the city. It looks like she figured I was from around there. But I can't figure out if she's just trying to give me the soft let down.

                                                                                Any thoughts?
                                                                                it means never again

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                                                                                • ultimatebbwdotcom
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                                                                                  • Mar 2006
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by xenigo
                                                                                  My original message sent on Myspace:

                                                                                  Hey it was great meeting you the other night! Maybe sometime this week or next week we can get together for lunch or something. I'd like to get to know you.

                                                                                  Lemme know if that sounds like fun. There's also a bar in the city called Swig that really has a cool atmosphere and a good crowd. You might like it.

                                                                                  (XXX)XXX-XXXX

                                                                                  -Noah

                                                                                  Any thoughts?
                                                                                  Meeting for lunch is too "nice" - the only people you should go to lunch with is co-workers and grandparents. If you want to take someone out on a date id at least recommend making sure there was enough chance to get into some trouble and have a laugh.

                                                                                  Which of course you did with the recommendation of going to Swig, but by then its two options and sounds a bit like youre grasping.

                                                                                  I've got no idea what your first impression was like though, you could have suggested anything and it would have been "no" whatever you said.
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                                                                                  • payd2purv
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                                                                                    • Jan 2008
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    I am going to have to say she just simply lives too far away to make plans for lunch with you. She didn't say No Thanks! she said.. I Live too far... And she actually said when she's in the area she'd give you a call..

                                                                                    Now she didn't ask for your number.. so.. heh.. *shrug*

                                                                                    You also came off very strong / demanding / eager right away.

                                                                                    Instead of trying to read too into it and get all insecure.. You *COULD* send a casual message back mentioning where you live...

                                                                                    You met the girl once and you are already pushing her for lunch that week and drinks at a bar.

                                                                                    You really shoulda made more communication with her before straight up asking her out and telling her you want to get to know her.

                                                                                    I dunno the details on how you met or where etc.. so it's impossible for us to really say..

                                                                                    Not to mention you messaged her through MySpace you may have had a better chance going through the friend.

                                                                                    Personally I never would have done what you did.. But after that response i'd just drop it completely until the next time i see her in person and i'd try to make more of an impression on her..

                                                                                    it's a game.. and you have to go against everything your mother told you..
                                                                                    Last edited by payd2purv; 03-07-2008, 09:08 AM.

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                                                                                    • D Ghost
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                                                                                      • May 2006
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
                                                                                      It's a soft let down. If she were into you, she would try to cement a date or at the very least say when she might be in the area again. just my

                                                                                      ps this could potentially be wrong if the distance we are talking about is plane ride length. If it's 45 minutes or an hour drive or something, then I go with my original statement.
                                                                                      I agree

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                                                                                      • payd2purv
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                                                                                        • Jan 2008
                                                                                        • 2727

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Prolly 1/2 of the girls i've dated were not into me right away and even some girls i've dated I was not into right away.

                                                                                        Just cause she didn't make plans to drive an hour to go to lunch with this guy doesn't mean he is 100% out of luck.

                                                                                        He can still keep communication open to plant a seed for later.

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                                                                                        • sniperwolf
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                                                                                          • Mar 2005
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          yeah, they're correct -- it's a soft let down. she's just being nice to you.
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                                                                                          • moeloubani
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                                                                                            • Dec 2007
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Bro what the fuck are you trying to read into, she tells you exactly what she meant, it was nice meeting you and next time she's around there she'll call you.

                                                                                            Why are you being such a bitch dude ;) Just take it at face value that way you can't be wrong!

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                                                                                            • strobi
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                                                                                              • Nov 2002
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by Brother Bilo
                                                                                              My guess is a soft let down with the potential for a booty call if she's in town and doesn't find someone she wants more.

                                                                                              At least there's a chance dude.
                                                                                              spot on!

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                                                                                              • mona
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                                                                                                • Feb 2008
                                                                                                • 1940

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                I'm confused...She's from Tracy and you guys met in Tracy but you both live in the city??

                                                                                                Anyway, I'm a girl from CA, and CA guys are wacko!!! Californians are obsessed with having their cake and eating it too. Sure, let's have sex and hang out and watch movies but I am NOT your boyfriend because I am committment shy. I mean, there are freaking people dying from starvation and random bombs all over the world and you're scared of a freaking committment...For the love of God!

                                                                                                I live in Panama now and guys here actually tell you if they like you and don't try to play games...Pretty crazy! If you like someone, ask them out on a date. I know, forward thinking stuff...

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                                                                                                • Kelli58
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                                                                                                  • Aug 2006
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Very simple and easy solution - write her back letting her know you are from her area and that you would like to take her out for lunch. See what she says. Her response to that will be more revealing.
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                                                                                                  • st0ned
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Nice way of saying no.
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