Originally Posted by Rochard

Years ago my mother in law got breast cancer. It was right around Christmas.

It was nearly comical. Her husband - my father in law - spent the entire Christmas holiday bitching and crying like a six year old about how the family had one drama after another, etc etc etc. He failed to understand that during a forty year marriage, there was gonna be some drama. Meanwhile, my mother in law handled the situation. It was incrediable really - She stood up and faced it and had no fear.

My point is you either handle things or get handled.

Good luck man.