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Originally Posted by tony286
How can you feel that if she is paying half the rent? Did you talk about everything with her about how you feel about things before doing this with her? Also it sounds like you know you are one who like to work alone, if so why did you ask someone to share the space with you?
I know my personality, I would rather having a smaller office alone than share.
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You have valid points.
It was a monetary decision. The workplace is huge, 4 rooms. Smaller did not equal cheaper.
I thought she worked alone, but her hubby is there 100% of the time walking around stealing things from other units in the villa (for which i am responsible).
As stated before, even though i am 40, i am new to sharing space;-). Only shared a house once for one year with the mother of my child; and working alone since 1996;-)
Obviously this is a learning curve, if i did not sit in a AAA-location i'd move away already.
I honestly think i am starting to become one of those "impossible to live with" persons;-)
Thanks again for the notes, i guess i am taking it up too much. I'll see how it goes in a few weeks and report back;-).
I'll try to adapt to not just myself, at the same time try to seperate my thoughts about this and focus more on the ideal workplace and just 'share' the kitchen together.
Since it is temporary, i'll never share again after this;-)