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It depends on the kid and the kids biological father.
If the dad was killed or was respectable in some way or form, then yes.
If the dad comes from a less than favorable race or background then run, that kids going to be just a problem down the road.
Even though I fully understand evolution and human behavior and the rationale of why people do things the way they do them, it doesn't mean I'll have sympathy for a girl with that.
I just finished up a relationship with an Italian girl who had a kid. She really started to dig into me and it was mostly because she's 27 now, has a kid and for a woman that's not good. For the most part the only men she could get aren't very good, and I was a diamond in the rough.
Depends on what you want in the end, make your own decisions as that's the most important skill you can have in this situation.
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