Would you marry a Thai girl??

hah it is more like : would you marry a girl that you know could sell her mother for a gram of ice ....

Doesn't matter if she is Thai or not it will always be cheaper to rent than marry.

Never marry one that is or has been a bar girl, unless you want to deal with the shit that comes with.

Sure there is always that small % of "normal" bar girls that want to marry and get out of that life, but the rest are the ones you read about on stickman, etc, bitching about being taken to the cleaners.

-N

I'm going to marry a Vietnamese girl.

meditate about this:

you can take a girl out of the bar but you cannot take the bar out of a girl


nuff said !!!

Send me a postcard from fantasyland while you are there. I'd like to see the pictures.

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shes looking to get married..
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It is great philosophical question, which smells better, excrement or feculence ?

And this is an important example of the cultural situation there...And it's the culture that drives the girls behavior more than any other factor.

There is no way that any Thai girl who is halfway good looking is going to work in a McDonalds when other girls there are in their eyes getting free money for just doing nothing. The girls gain face with each other by living off of their beauty and doing as little as possible. The beauties that get a good living off of Farangs are not really seen as hookers, they are seen as being worth what they are paid....almost as if they are getting tribute for their status.

And Face is everything in Thailand...more so than in China. If you wanna die then make a Thai man lose face in public. He will kill you.

No, but I WOULD Thai a married girl

what a idiot

they are pretty hot looking.

My thoughts exactly. Thank you Odie for bringing any kind of sanity to this thread. This just shows you how classless and pitiful most GFY'ers are. Seeing threads like this make me never want to visit GFY again or have anything to do with the adult industry at all.

are you sure you're not one of them? i see your long tongue licking in your adultwhoswho gallery

You just need to remember that poor countries with low wages, hookers or no hookers, it's easy for money be #1. This means that you as a person will never be #1 to them.

one of my firend have a thai in his life and dont have all those problems you are talking about (but shes live here in quebec canada )

This is a spot on post.

Never left your house or something?

To think that only GFYers and adult industry people fuck third world whores may be the most ridiculous thing I have ever read in my life.

Bingo.

It's all about money over here. Even with the good girls, it still revolves around money. No money = no honey.

I'd have to say neither, because they are both one and the same. Jealousy smells worse by the way.

no, no i wouldn't. They are kind of on the bottom of the asian ladder

While I do try to avoid buying sweatshop produce, I'm aware I'm just as guilty of this kind of exploitation as the next guy is.

However, there's something about sexual exploitation that makes it infinitely worse than the economic exploitation you mention above. A comparison between the two sorts, presented as if they're equal, can only be born in a pervert's mind like yours. Sexuality is naturally a psychologically intensive and sensitive issue. Sexual exploitation by sex tourists is not only bad because of the economic incentive these girls have to do something they don't like, there are also severe psychological implications.

DWB, if you acknowledge sex tourism is exploitation, why are you still so happy to keep on doing it? I think you're not that happy about it at all, but just a blunted and blinded slave of your own lustful hunger, insensitive to such important social issues because sexual consumption is now a 'habit', a 'routine'.

You're in a sad state. Basically your flawed rationality is the only difference between you and a low-grade animal that follows its instincts (but even animals don't lack the instinct of care for others). "That is life" is your justification for being the sexual predator you are. I can basically conclude you have no sympathy for any of the girls you abuse? If you had any, wouldn't you derive more pleasure out of doing something else with her than to exploit her? And if you don't have any sympathy for any of the "thousands of girls" you "did", how did you get in such a machine-like state? You're a sick man.

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yes they are so hot

I was married to one for nine years, and have a son with her, but I met her in the USA. The only problem I had was that she was really boring. She grew up poor and does not beleive in spending money for anything, including vacations.(some men would like that I guess)

I would not touch either with a ten foot poll. As was said here before, Thai/Vietnamese are the bottom of the Asian cesspool.

Poor dog. I hope they did no serve it to you as dinner later.

aren't you from the former ussr?

At least you "try" not to exploit people from devolving countries. That is mighty white of you.

I don't see it that way. Exploitation is exploitation in my book. Make my clothes, suck my cock, build my chairs, clean my room... to me it's all the same. Any time you are taking advantage of a situation, you are exploiting someone. In my mind there is no level of exploitation. It simply exists and that's it. Much like death. Either you're dead or you're not.

Though I can respect your views towards one side, I do not agree with them. This has nothing to do with my lifestyle or me trying to justify it, it is just the way my brain is wired.

I'm not happy or sad about it. It simply is what it is. I take things for what they are and act accordingly.

While I am a slave no nothing other than Uncle Sam, I feel no remorse for my actions. Of course I seek pleasure in every aspect of my life. Why would you want to live otherwise and deny yourself all the pleasures and spoils life has to offer? If I have a fantasy I want to fulfill, I do it. If there is something I want to see, I see it, something I must do... I do it. This is MY life, I will live it how I choose. There will be no regrets when this guy kicks the bucket. None.

Without question I am a hedonist. I live for pleasure. If that pleasure sometimes comes as indulging in the world of third world prostitution, so be it. Both she and I get what we want.

One thing I can assure you is that I do not fuck sex slaves. I have been around enough to be able to tell who is doing it on their own free will and who is not. If she is not, I pass. However if she chooses to earn a living that way, I'm paying.

And if you feel sorry for these whores you are kidding yourself. They can go work somewhere else if they want, but the truth of the matter is they are lazy. Whores are lazy, there is no way around it.

LOL Just the opposite. You can't wipe the smile off my face most days. A "flawed rationality" is relative to where you are standing. And in regards to your animal comment, of course I am an animal. We all are. When we deny those natural instincts is when we get off track.

And your point is what? I deal with the real situations of the world and enjoy my life in the process. If I see a deal, I'm going to buy and I will do so without thinking of the sellers feelings. Do you think about the little kids working in the sweat shops of Manila when you buy the latest pair of Nikes? Didn't think so.

LMAO. Why would I have any shred of sympathy for them? Because they are too lazy to work a real job or because it doesn't earn enough money to have the latest cell phone, I am supposed to feel sorry for them? HAHAHAH!!! Not a chance.

If you're looking for someone with a heart who can play Captain Save-A-Ho and feel sorry for the women who CHOOSE to sell their pussy, you're looking at the wrong guy. I have no sympathy for them. NONE. These dumb bitches either give all their money to their boyfriends, their parents or spend it on dumb shit, gold or drugs. 95% of the whores out there are just as broke today as they were before they started selling their ass. And you want me to feel sorry for them? You are a class act.

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO HELP A SINGLE ONE OF THEM?

The answer is nothing so I'll tell you what, get some real life experience and come back and have this discussion in a few years after you have seen first hand what they do with their money. See what is really going on out there.

Either do something about all of this and stop buying foreign products or shut the fuck up. You want to make a difference, come build a shelter for your little angels over here and "save" them from the horrible monsters like me. Spend your money to help them out and get them out of the bars and force their lazy asses to go work at 7-11 or back on the farm. It's not gonna happen. Many have tried before you and they all fail. The fail because they whores don't want to stop making easy money. They don't want to work normal jobs. They prefer to lay on their backs and get fucked night after night. They want to have babies who can grow up and give them money so they don't have to work when they are old, just like their parents before them. It's a cycle that you have to see to believe. THAT is the cold hard reality of it all. And I am supposed to feel bad for a culture of people who don't even care about themselves and only care about how their son or daughter is going to send them money?

True story: My assistant here is from the poor north. She used to work in the bars but now she doesn't have to and I pay her on salary MORE than most Thais with a college degree have. She gets paid on the 1st of every month and by the 10th she is dead broke. However, normal people who make WAY less than she does can milk their money all month.

Her parents are (were) rice farmers. She bought them BOTH cell phones a while ago but her rice farming father (who insisted she come to work in the brothels to begin with) became angry with her when the new video phones came out and she didn't send him one. She had to buy him a video phone to make him happy. Then the brother wanted one, who she also supports. He is young, able and living off of her. Now her mom, dad and brother all quit their jobs and live totally off of her income and leave her dead broke 10 days into each month. When she asks them for help, they don't help her. They just tell her to work more. She sends them all her money with a smile on her face, month after month. I've seen her buy TVs, phones, radios, laptops, gold (lots of gold), a car and a motorbike for them. She says it is her duty to do this.

THAT is a typical story of a working girl from the north east in Thailand. I am supposed to feel bad for people like this? If you want to lecture someone, go talk to these girls parents.

Thanks, I'll take that as a compliment. I'll fuck some poor farm girl extra hard in the ass tonight just for you. As you lay in bed tonight dreaming about a life you will never have, know that as some little Thai whore is wincing in pain with a fat 8 inch cock up her ass, it's all because of you. I usually don't like anal sex, but tonight... I will do it for you Rhesus, the savior of whores.

I don't know what world you are living in Rhesus, but I'm glad I don't live there with you. I prefer to enjoy my life and not cry about how others are living theirs.

you said it all , i couldn't have said it better

hit me up on PM sometime to get a drink around ratchada ...

Yes most come from Issan but there are HUGE numbers that come from all other corners of Thailand including Bangkok. I'm into the lighter skin girls and most of them come from Bangkok or places like Chiang Mai. Truth of the matter is, it's an easy way out for girls from anywhere in the country.

Not always true. SOME do this. Sometimes it's the family who sends them out to work. More often than not once she gets money the family stops working and bleeds her dry.

Anyone can sell a t-shirt, work in 7-11 or any other of no brain jobs that plenty of girls with no education go to work instead of laying on their back.

It doesn't matter the country, selling ass is the easy way out. While there are some woman that really don't have a choice, that does not hold true to the bulk of the women. If it was the case, they would not blow the money on shoes, gold and drugs.

AND... don't even get me started on the insane amount of poor farm girls who go to the male bars to PAY THAI MEN TO FUCK THEM!!! What's up with that? Go sell your ass because you are broke and desperate and then take than money and spend it on a Thai man to fuck you without a rubber and put you at high risk fr HIV.

Yes, they give it to their non working families, dead beat brothers and sisters. Every now and then they will put someone through school but more often than not, they just support a lazy family.

True. However, lets also mention that these same girls will get knocked up, WANT TO GET KNOCKED UP, only to ship the baby home so her mom and dad can raise the baby until it gets old enough to make money for the mother. They see their baby at best a few times a year, by their own choice.

Indeed. For most it is the easy way. I respect those who are in the same situation and actually get a real job, even if that means they don't earn enough money to get the lasted phone or get a new gold bracelet every 2 months.

Ehhhh. I would say some. If they really wanted to keep the man then they would be faithful to him. I have nailed so many girls with husbands and boyfriends over here the DAY the guy leaves for the airport. I have 2 different regular girls who call me the minute he leaves and she comes and stays with me and laughs about how dumb he is.

I have seen so many girls fuck up their relationships over nothing it leads me to believe that it is simply impossible to have anything serious with a girl who ever worked in a bar or sold her ass, thought about selling her ass or has friends who sell their ass.

It's a sad state of affairs all over the world. At least they can eat and are not in some God forsaken place like Somalia. If you guys want to feel sorry for people, feel sorry for people who honestly don't have a choice and have been left to die. The people in Thailand, even the poor, should be thankful for what they do have because it could be a lot worse.

Thailand, Cambodia, Laos, Burma, Vietnam and the list goes on and on. That is without even bringing up the poor in our own countries. It's not a perfect world, never has been and never will be but we all have a choice in what we do. I would say there are few exceptions to that unless they have been kidnapped or literally forced into sexual or labor slavery (which happens all over the world, including the USA).

The million dollar question...

Would you rather dig ditches for minimum wage and struggle to get by... or take cocks up your ass every day and give every penny you make to your probably dead beat family who leaves you for broke and only asks for more, more, more?

If you choose the later you will still struggle anyway PLUS put your self at risk for STDs, HIV/AIDS, pregnancy and rape. You may even end up a drug addict or kidnapped and forced into sex work in another country. You may even get murdered by some wack job who gets off killing whores.

I'd dig ditches. However, millions of women around the globe would rather do it the easy way. I'm not mad at them for choosing that life, but I can't feel sorry for them either.

For the first few years of coming to Thailand I did feel for them. I thought the same way many of you feel now about it. But after living here and seeing the other side to it all, my compassion for them went out the window. It's an ugly cycle between them and their families and it's not going to end anytime soon.

Just be lucky you were not raised in Thailand. Your life would be totally different than it is now.

amen !!!!!!

wow

DWB, great post

i read all and i agree with about 99.9% of what you said

Rhesus, have you ever left your country? i didnt think so, so you have absolutely no credibility in this matter, so do us all a favor and shut the fuck up

ratchada, thats where i live man

wow this was a delayed response...yes, most of what you are saying is true but the problem has perpetuated itself and is worse than ever with a huge increase in child prostitution. Makes me fucking sick.

I was speaking from my own experiences while I was home visiting MY OWN family. My aunt is 80 y/o (obviously she wouldn't work) but instead every morning she goes into her garden, picks her vegetables and takes them to the market to sell. My 13 year old cousin goes to private school and wants to be an english teacher whiloe her mother and father live/work in China at a greenhouse. This is not your usual story but there ARE decent people who live there.

Ever since the war, Thailand has become a horrible place to live as a native. Wneh you try to blend OLD world views/culture with NEW world ways, it tarnishes everything it touches. There was a time when prostitution wasn't the only driving force behind tourism.

All that said, I don't feel sorry for the girls who CHOOSE to do what they do. Hell, I nearly got the shit kicked out of my while shopping in a mall in Pattaya WITH my parents b/c they originally thought I was Phillipino and I cut them down in Thai. Shameful that a country with so much beauty, culture, and promise won't come out of this ahead.


fyi: Issan is a type of people...not a region. issan are ppl who originally came from Laos during the war and settled in the northeast of Thailand.

It is u awesome up north, away from all the massive amounts of tourism, to gain space and fresh air, me and a friend are heading up there next month to Udon and Khon Kaen

DWB, thanks for your elaborate reply and I'm sorry I haven't responded earlier. I have to agree with much of what you say, but it's evident nonsense you're not exploiting the situation and that there would not be a degree of exploitation.

And jscott, your idiocy and misguidedness makes me laugh. If you didn't notice from my sometimes poor grammar, I'm not a locked-up-in-his-own-country american, quite the contrary. Yes, I've talked to hookers in Thailand too. I have (or had?) a filipino girlfriend, and to answer the thread starter's question, if it weren't for some unrelated problems we have, yes, I'd happily marry her.

No way ...

asians don't cut it for me.

You have to be very careful with Thai women. I live in Bangkok and I've heard horror stories. I also know many guys that are very happy after many years of marriage. As for the bar girls, some of those make good wives too, but I wouldn't recommend it. That's where most of the horror stories come in. If you meet a girl that you really like and you think you want to marry her, you can always hire a PI to check her out. I would suggest that. I once had a girlfriend for two and a half years and after we broke up I came to find out that she had been hooking on the side for over a year when I wasn't in town (which wasn't much at the time, since I stayed in the states). Just be careful out there and if you have any other questions about Bangkok, hit me up. Do you live here?