I've spent $500 on the ring I gave to my gf. It has a small but nice diamond, and we are both central-european 'adults' and neither of us supports spending grands on a fancy ring.. I don't have an engage ring, some guys have one, I think its unnecessary and kinda gay too. The engagement is now 1.5 yr old, the wedding is not planned yet, we just want both our kids [2 girls] to remember and LOVE it, and as the younger one is just 2.5 nowadays we have time.. Also we have an 'agreement' to first finish our house and Then think about a date, etc... The building process has just began, we'll move in next summer, so no need to rush.. Long engagement rocks
