My shrink is out - please help me (my mom cheated on my dad)
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This actually is real. I am going to keep quiet and mind my own beezwax0r.Originally posted by HollyI never know if you're lying or not, but if this is real, then keep your mouth shut. Absolutely *nothing* good can come from you telling.
Feels bad though, my poor little sis is totally torn up about it. Poor kid.Comment
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I'm no shrink.
I don't play one on TV.
But this is what I'd do.
Suck it up. Ignore it. And let them deal with it.
Unless you live with them.
Then suck it up. Ignore it. And get out of the house as much as possible.
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Approach your mom about it. Tell her how uncomfortable it makes you feel to know this. Tell her how you feel. Tell her how much you dislike her for doing this to your father. Tell her you're angry at her. Tell her to 'fess up and stand up for what she has done. The ensuing drama after that will probably be hard, tumultuous and difficult to deal with as they try and use you as a safety net.
However, in the end, confrontation always leads to resolution.Your post count means nothing.Comment
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Does this have anything to do with this thread?http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showthread.php?t=533765
no, you don't tell your dad. He will hate you for telling him, your mom will hate you and you will bring all kinds of drama and bullshit into your family situation. If you can calmly talk to your mom about it, then that may be ok. Don't be confrontational, as you don't know what's going on between your mom and dad - they may be having problems in their relationship, they may even have an open relationship where they can both fuck around on each other. The world's a crazy place now - you never know what's going on with people. So don't judge and it's not your place to get involved, unless you want to talk it out with your mom in a calm and rational way.
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I've learned that it's better to keep your nose out of couple problems. Maybe the best thing is talk with your mom, after that it's up to her if she want to talk with your dad or no. Pretty hard situation but good luck with everything.Comment
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Ouch man...
Would insist that mom tell him. Imagine how your Dad would feel later on if he found out that you helped keep that secret from him.
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Originally posted by BradMI don't live with them Alien.
My mom told my sister, who was supposed to keep a secret.
No offence to anyone at all Brad but how dare your mother put your sister in a predicament like that? Fuck sakes. Parents are suposed to shield their children from emotional trauma.Comment
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If I'm posting on this board when I'm 55 years old, someone please promise me they'll shoot me in the fucking face."Every man think that his burden is the heaviest"
"Whosoever diggeth the pit, shall fall in it"
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But seriously...tough spot man...I think I would have a sit down with mom and tell her that she has to tell pops or I would.For rent - ICQ 127-027-910
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how about I will tell your dad to look on gfy for the post, and he will find out that waySend me an email: [email protected]Comment
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How sad for you, and a burden that shouldn't be yours to carry.
Before you jump in, it's always good to go into a confrontation after thinking hard about three things: 1) the goals you hope to achieve by confronting; 2) how you will confront (face-to-face, phone, email, etc.); and 3) how the person might react.
Afterall, your Father might already know .. My 1st Husband knew I had a lover. He offered to keep the marraige "status quo" rather than divorce.
The only reason I would address the issue w/ Mom, is to make sure she isn't fucking w/o the right precautions.Comment


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