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Originally Posted by raymor
It's OK to get distracted and miss a message. That happens to literally EVERYONE. Publicly saying I'm lying about it now that you've had time to check the log isn't okay, not okay at all. I'll remind you of rule #9 - accusing me of lying about the conversation, falsely, is grounds for an immediate ban.
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No dog in this fight at all but from an outsider's perspective I have to say there is no trace of the words "you are lying" in either of Ruth's replies to you. Niether is there any trace of libel from what I can see. She merely stated her side of the issue, and quite clearly and professionally, and without added emotion.
Again, not taking sides, you two clearly have a misunderstanding going. But I think you may be overreacting just a tad with the lying and libel accusations. Like someone said, it may simply be a case of ICQ-itis where one or both of you did not recieve all messages from the other. I've found that messages that contain any url links in particular sometimes aren't received by the intended party, so I know it happens.
You're both good people, obviously, both seem to take pride in your work and your business ethics. Are you both really that sure of your positions that you can't find a way to work this out? Seems like just one of those unfortunate misunderstandings to me.