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  • iSMOKE
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2007
    • 1028

    #1

    Am I getting fucked? What would you do?

    This might be kinda long, but i'll try to shorten it as much as I can...

    So I'm talking to a guy on ICQ for a while, get to know him...He claims to be pretty rich from making blogs ect...One day he says "here man, take this! This is the Username/password to a blog, you can "have it". " The guy knows I dont know much at all, I'm just starting to learn now. He gives me the WP login to his blog and tells me to learn how to post and I can take whatever $ may come from it, "its yours"--he says. Here it is weeks later, uniques have gone from 2-3 a day to a decent amount. I've posted several times, traded several links, submitted to directories and all that good stuff. I learn of this little thing called "FTP Access" and another strange thing called "CPANEL" --Sarcasm if you cant tell... So, i ask him about these things and he runs, says "BRB" 200 times, actually gets mad at me for asking, then i gave him a complete online hossing and he had nothing else to say. He gets scared that im gonna fuck shit up so he changes WP login, but changed it back after I told him i wont mess with it.
    Again, im learning more...I realize that I could easily build this site up to some decent traffic and decent $ then get my ass blocked on ICQ and get the WP login info changed and never hear from this guy again while he runs off making $ from my hard work. I gave him about 2 more chances to talk to me about FTP access, didnt even get into domain transfer talk yet. Again, he avoids me, stops responding on ICQ or says "Hey man, brb" then dissapears. My question is...what would you do? Would you just stop working on the site? Would you go for it and gain the experience and maybe make a few $ here and there? Would you post a thread with some of his info warning others to be careful doing business with him? He also told me 400x he was gonna pay me to do some work for him, but ran from me when i asked about it, but i never did any work...then out of nowhere he asks me to send him $42 to his epass to "pay my brother real quick" I dont know what doing too much would be in a situation like this because im so new to everything, so tell me what would you do in a situation like this? What would other GFY'ers think is appropriate in this situation? ---sorry for the long thread, i just wanted to get the details out there.
  • spacedog
    Yes that IS me. Bitch.
    • Nov 2001
    • 14149

    #2
    In the end, you're building up someone elses blog..

    You can get your own free blog & be up & running in a couple minutes, for free at thumblogger

    FTP = File Transfer Protocol.. It's a tool used to transfer files such as html pages, images, etc to a web host using a client like cute ftp..

    CName is one of a few ways to point a domain name..

    As far as your situation goes, don't send him money & forget about his blog..
    If you want to set up your own, you can use link I gave or you can buy a domain & get a host , then download wordpress & hit me up & I will help you out as long as you join some programs with my reflink
    Last edited by spacedog; 09-25-2007, 08:33 PM.

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    • iSMOKE
      Confirmed User
      • Jul 2007
      • 1028

      #3
      Originally posted by spacedog
      In the end, you're building up someone elses blog..

      You can get your own free blog & be up & running in a couple minutes, for free at thumblogger

      FTP = File Transfer Protocol.. It's a tool used to transfer files such as html pages, images, etc to a web host using a client like cute ftp..

      CName is one of a few ways to point a domain name..

      As far as your situation goes, don't send him money & forget about his blog..
      If you want to set up your own, you can use link I gave or you can buy a domain & get a host , then download wordpress & hit me up & I will help you out as long as you join some programs with my reflink
      Sounds like a deal to me...u have ICQ or AIM?

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      • RevengeBucks_Monica
        Confirmed User
        • Sep 2007
        • 775

        #4
        I think you can definitely add it up to a lesson learned. It sounds to me like he was just getting free slave labour out of you. It's always a risk doing work for someone who says you can keep the profits when/if they come.

        I wouldn't do any more work with him because he isn't making any effort to talk to you and even sounds like he's avoiding you, and in my opinion, that's shady behavior.

        You're getting good advice here, you should start up your own blog with the things you've learned and make your own money. You'll be glad that you did.

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        • iSMOKE
          Confirmed User
          • Jul 2007
          • 1028

          #5
          Originally posted by RevengeBucks_Monica
          I think you can definitely add it up to a lesson learned. It sounds to me like he was just getting free slave labour out of you. It's always a risk doing work for someone who says you can keep the profits when/if they come.

          I wouldn't do any more work with him because he isn't making any effort to talk to you and even sounds like he's avoiding you, and in my opinion, that's shady behavior.

          You're getting good advice here, you should start up your own blog with the things you've learned and make your own money. You'll be glad that you did.

          And if sometime in the future, you happen to need any sponsors, be sure to click my sig, sign up, and get in touch.

          Good luck!
          Yea i was thinking the same thing about him getting free slave labor out of me...I logged back in to WP and deleted all the trades and posts i have done. I guess i will take it as a lesson learned, thanx for the reply

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          • MissFireCrotch
            Confirmed User
            • Jun 2007
            • 187

            #6
            usually people that brag about being rich are not. except oprah all she does is brag about it
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            • Bro Media - BANNED FOR LIFE
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              • Jan 2004
              • 16502

              #7
              get his address and go break his kneecaps

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              • Spunky
                I need a beer
                • Jun 2002
                • 133978

                #8
                Chalk it up as experience and walk away

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                • spacedog
                  Yes that IS me. Bitch.
                  • Nov 2001
                  • 14149

                  #9
                  Originally posted by iSMOKE
                  Sounds like a deal to me...u have ICQ or AIM?
                  icq is 348-132-803

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                  • divine116
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2007
                    • 1152

                    #10
                    its better to build your own blog and optimize it!
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                    • DickyDee
                      Registered User
                      • Jul 2007
                      • 12

                      #11
                      No matter how you learned about blogs, it will have value in the long run.

                      I regret not blogging when the wave first formed because now half of all my sales are from blog traffic, and I have 5 old school TGPs, MGPs, Link Sites, etc. for every blog I operate. So write off this as a learning experience, take the advice given earlier and start with thumblogger cuz it's easy to use and they will not delete your account for having adult content like some free blog providers will. Work it and enjoy any rewards you earn. Good luck.

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                      • johnspider
                        My posts are basically a brain dump
                        • Sep 2007
                        • 82

                        #12
                        take it as a lesson learned

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                        • buildingblocks
                          Confirmed User
                          • Jun 2007
                          • 224

                          #13
                          You should have smelled it coming weeks ago!
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                          • jonesonyou
                            Confirmed User
                            • Sep 2003
                            • 3853

                            #14
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