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Originally Posted by sperbonzo
OK. then at what age do you NOT adopt a child?
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i'm not saying don't adopt a child - that is a very noble and great thing to take in a parent-less child as your own whether it's an infant or a 12 year old.
optimal for a child and parents is to adopt before the child is old enough to know what adoption is. i also don't believe kids should be told they're adopted until adulthood or there is a medical reason. i have cousins that never knew they were adopted until they were well into their 30's. not sure why at that point they were told.