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Originally Posted by EukerVoorn
Thanks for explaining and confirming that the kid hasn't been raised properly. Someone asked me if I have brothers, the answer is yes, and the youngest one was raised and protected by our mother just like you explained and he became a real asshole... lazy, not working, stealing, un unreliable piece of shit. I don't think he was born that way, but that the way my mother raised, spoiled and protected him, fucked him up completely.
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yep, sadly it kind of runs in my brother's wife's family. Her mom never punished her and it was bad enough that when she got in trouble at school her mom would go down and yell at the teachers and principle for "getting her daughter into trouble." When she became an adult and was living on her own she had a job and would often blow through her check and not be able to pay the bills so her mom and dad would step in and pay them. Her brother has a daughter who is the same way. She isn't so much a shithead, but she is 23, has never had a job, just got her diver's license and does nothing but sit around all day watching TV or being on the computer. It is just sad.
My brother and I were raised to work for what we wanted and be respectful of others so it is a clash of ideals for sure.