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Old 12-04-2011, 12:01 AM  
kane
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Originally Posted by V_RocKs View Post
If this is the mother... why is he still around?


I had similar issues with my GF's kids... Only the issue was with her ex.... So I put it on the kids... And we just kicked her younger one to the curb...

I was kicked to the curb myself.. Best thing that ever happened for me... I thought I was cool for a few months... Then it really sunk in that I needed to quit being a shithead... Still took me years to "grow up" enough to be responsible for my own actions...

But if it were my GF's fault I wouldn't stick around. I'd be a shithead too... What would happen with our own kids had we decided to have some?
I'm not so sure she will be for much longer. There are two major things standing in the way. First, when the boy is not around their family life is great. Both parents get along and both the daughters do fine. The boy is the rotten apple in the bunch. My brother is hoping if he is out of the picture and not living with them then it will make things better. Second, if they get divorced my brother will get fucked bad because he has nice pension from his job that she will get half of. She never works so he will have to pay spousal support and it would just be an ugly mess. They have gone through a lot together that you could write a book about and about 90% of is centered around the boy being an asshat.
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